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By *umplay1943 OP   Couple
over a year ago

southampton/spain

we have been swinging for some years.but a couple of years ago my wife had cancer and had a masectomy,one breast removed,she has not wanted to meet anyone because she is not sure how they would react,we have a couple of friends that do not mind,but she is unsure about meeting any new poeple,would like to know your views,thank you.

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

I don't think it should matter at all? If it bothers anyone then I think it is them that have the problem not your wife.

I suppose to make sure any new meets go smoothly, you could tell people before arranging a meet, or simply find a sexy top and make it a condition that the top stays on?

Whatever you decide I hope everything goes well.

xAx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let them know before you meet in person and if they run away their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one as different tastes and views I would say just tell it in your profile and let people make there minds up about meeting you or not I am sure you will find that a lot will would still like to meet you if they are attracted to you in the first instance I have played with a woman who had a mastectomy and it didn’t bother me she told me before hand and we just got on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't bother me in the slightest..

and hold yur head high xxx

we all never know whats round the corner for us......

so keep on having fun xxxxx

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By *entscotscplCouple
over a year ago

falkirk ish

hi we totaly agree with view here

life is for having fun

rise up and travel on as they say

none off us know whats around the corner

go for it we say

best wishes r n l xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Got to say it wouldn't bother us, as long as we knew beforehand, go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not matter a jot what anyone in here says, wise/kind words they may be, the final decision lays firmly with your very brave wife and if she is in the remotest bit uncomfy then you have to go with her wishes.

What ever happens best of luck and best wishes to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she still the same person in side

but its how she feels that matters

keep smiling xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have no problem at all, maybe your Wife may meet and keep her top on at all times - plenty of fun and no embarrassment for the wife. Not every one is into boobs.

Good luck and good health.

Martin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have no problem at all, maybe your Wife may meet and keep her top on at all times - plenty of fun and no embarrassment for the wife. Not every one is into boobs.

Good luck and good health.

Martin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi n sorry to hear bout your misfortune .but the way we think is swinging is for adults and if for instance your wife would like to swap and keep her top on so she feels more relaxed then you would expect the other cple to be adult about it and understand linda gets a bit uncormfortable about stretch marks so she likes to keep a short skirt on and why not lol i myself think women are more of a turn on with some kind of clothing on anyway hope this makes sense and all the best jimmy n linda from gateshead xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have been swinging for some years.but a couple of years ago my wife had cancer and had a masectomy,one breast removed,she has not wanted to meet anyone because she is not sure how they would react,we have a couple of friends that do not mind,but she is unsure about meeting any new poeple,would like to know your views,thank you."

Cant see it being a problem for any genuine people, I hope all is well for you both now, good luck and take care of each other.

Kev

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