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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW" So only people sized 16 are bbw's? | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? " In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW" sorry curiosity has got the better of me BFW? | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? " Who said I was being defensive, merely asking for clarification as you original post read as if you were only a bbw at size 16, anything bigger was a BFW, which I am guessing the f stands for fat. Never expected anyone to start bashing the fatties so quickly eh?? | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW" "BFW" is someone trying to be offensive again towards, the very popular majority of women.Why cant people be respectful,you can be smaller in size and be not a very nice person.The operator just asked a question,cant you answer it properly .If you cant say anything nice dont say anything at all, it just shows you up to be a very shallow individual. | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? Who said I was being defensive, merely asking for clarification as you original post read as if you were only a bbw at size 16, anything bigger was a BFW, which I am guessing the f stands for fat. Never expected anyone to start bashing the fatties so quickly eh?? " Well said,I am fed up off narrowminded people putting others down. | |||
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"Can we not just understand people that all women are beautiful in someones eye, ffs, not everyone needs a label now do they! I don't want to be classed as a bbw, bfw how bloody nasty and worse still ssbbw, now that is cruel IMHO If u want a particular size that's fine but some people can see beyond the flesh, unless it's the flash on my super sized fat arse and it's blocking out ur light Enough already with the bbw crap it just means a woman is big and likes herself for what she is " its all subjective and personal choice when i was a size 30 i was fine calling myself an SSBBW its just a term that makes it simple for those that like or dislike to find or avoid accordingly its that simple in my eyes but then i'm a simpleton really get used to the threads they have been going on since the site started and will always happen as new people join everyday i had a phase where i tore my hair out and rolled my eyes everytime i saw one then i went through phase 2 where i refused to post on them now i just try and informatively post and try not to bite when someone tries to get all contentious although i do fail occasionally as i'm only human well almost | |||
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"Can we not just understand people that all women are beautiful in someones eye, ffs, not everyone needs a label now do they! I don't want to be classed as a bbw, bfw how bloody nasty and worse still ssbbw, now that is cruel IMHO If u want a particular size that's fine but some people can see beyond the flesh, unless it's the flash on my super sized fat arse and it's blocking out ur light Enough already with the bbw crap it just means a woman is big and likes herself for what she is " maybe your label can just be boobs then | |||
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"Feel free to place ur labels where u like! I have no problem with the threads about anything and don't assume that as my profile says I been here a short while I was here a long time ago too and went I just don't think any one person, size, shape, gender, intelligence or any other word u can come up with should be judged better or worse than any other. We r the same coming in to this life and all the same leaving. As said in many other threads, live and let live and be happy with ur world. Be nice people And yes I have humongous bosoms and I love them " ok chill ya clogs treacle wasn't assuming anything was just saying | |||
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"Feel free to place ur labels where u like! I have no problem with the threads about anything and don't assume that as my profile says I been here a short while I was here a long time ago too and went I just don't think any one person, size, shape, gender, intelligence or any other word u can come up with should be judged better or worse than any other. We r the same coming in to this life and all the same leaving. As said in many other threads, live and let live and be happy with ur world. Be nice people And yes I have humongous bosoms and I love them ok chill ya clogs treacle wasn't assuming anything was just saying " My treacle is chilled my dear Oh and its more honey than treacle | |||
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"anyone thought that maybe just maybe the op just wondered if they would be classed as BBW and should they pop it on the profile as it is a great way for those that are looking for such women to find them and those that aren't to avoid them? it really doesn't have to decend into an eye rolling competition was just a simple question op if this is the case i would say not hun your of an average body size from your pics not in the BBW size range in my opinion and a fabulous body it is hunny keep on just as you are people make too much of a big deal about labels in my opinion they make life so much easier when in place can't think of anything worse than taking a can home thinking ya got peaches n once ya open it finding its beans " Nicely said I'd prefer the beans btw ...so long as they are Asda smart price xx | |||
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"anyone thought that maybe just maybe the op just wondered if they would be classed as BBW and should they pop it on the profile as it is a great way for those that are looking for such women to find them and those that aren't to avoid them? it really doesn't have to decend into an eye rolling competition was just a simple question op if this is the case i would say not hun your of an average body size from your pics not in the BBW size range in my opinion and a fabulous body it is hunny keep on just as you are people make too much of a big deal about labels in my opinion they make life so much easier when in place can't think of anything worse than taking a can home thinking ya got peaches n once ya open it finding its beans Nicely said I'd prefer the beans btw ...so long as they are Asda smart price xx" ah i knew it a bean girl | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? Who said I was being defensive, merely asking for clarification as you original post read as if you were only a bbw at size 16, anything bigger was a BFW, which I am guessing the f stands for fat. Never expected anyone to start bashing the fatties so quickly eh?? " I made the comment I did because this thread turned exactly into what I thought it would .. Over sized women jumping of their soap box and trying to defend the way they are to other people just like every other thread started about BBW's. If your really happy with yourself shouldn't matter what other people say,but obviously it does to many of you. I have oohing against size be what you want to be its your life... Just proves a point ... These threads have been done and then done again... Boring !!! | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? Who said I was being defensive, merely asking for clarification as you original post read as if you were only a bbw at size 16, anything bigger was a BFW, which I am guessing the f stands for fat. Never expected anyone to start bashing the fatties so quickly eh?? I made the comment I did because this thread turned exactly into what I thought it would .. Over sized women jumping of their soap box and trying to defend the way they are to other people just like every other thread started about BBW's. If your really happy with yourself shouldn't matter what other people say,but obviously it does to many of you. I have oohing against size be what you want to be its your life... Just proves a point ... These threads have been done and then done again... Boring !!!" take a look through the forums ad see how many threads and posts are made about slim women and how many of them turn into bash the skinny threads....i bet you find like 5 now do the same for bbw threads discussing the origin of a worldwide term is not getting on your soap box. having an open conversation about what size a bbw is is not getting on a soapbox....its having a grown up conversation. i will admit some ladies do get defensive but with some of the comments that have come before on these threads they may simply be trying to cut people off at the pass in an attempt to difuse the swathes of negativity that seem to surface on these threads | |||
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"i am a bbw and not ashamed of it i even post my dress size on my profile as someone suggested so if someone thinks im too big they know from the off im a 24 now and loving it when i joined this site i was a ssbbw according to some at a size 30 but now the weight is coming off because im happy and confident again in life. I would say in the uk a size 16 + is the starting point for a BBW but as it has been said in the past if your 5'3" and a size 20 you carry it very differently to someone who is 5'10" so its all personal preference as to if you choose to label yourself. I label myself on a site like this so that bbw fans can find me as i know some guys dont like the extra wobbly bits. Does a week ever go by without someone posting about bbws tho?" Oops i basically said what you just said about the height bit, never noticed it in your post sorry! | |||
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"16 I'd guess anything much over would be BFW So only people sized 16 are bbw's? In my OP which I'm entitled to anything over a 16 is a BBW yes.. Never expected someone on the the large side to straight away jump on the defensive in this thread eh ? Who said I was being defensive, merely asking for clarification as you original post read as if you were only a bbw at size 16, anything bigger was a BFW, which I am guessing the f stands for fat. Never expected anyone to start bashing the fatties so quickly eh?? I made the comment I did because this thread turned exactly into what I thought it would .. Over sized women jumping of their soap box and trying to defend the way they are to other people just like every other thread started about BBW's. If your really happy with yourself shouldn't matter what other people say,but obviously it does to many of you. I have oohing against size be what you want to be its your life... Just proves a point ... These threads have been done and then done again... Boring !!! take a look through the forums ad see how many threads and posts are made about slim women and how many of them turn into bash the skinny threads....i bet you find like 5 now do the same for bbw threads discussing the origin of a worldwide term is not getting on your soap box. having an open conversation about what size a bbw is is not getting on a soapbox....its having a grown up conversation. i will admit some ladies do get defensive but with some of the comments that have come before on these threads they may simply be trying to cut people off at the pass in an attempt to difuse the swathes of negativity that seem to surface on these threads" Much of this is the society we live in today !! Being Fat is seen as being unhealthy,and fact is most over weight people are unhealthy.. Like it or not we live in times where people enjoy eating healhy,exercising and looking good. End of the day people will be what they want to be its their life,if they choose to eat shit and get diabetes etc why should I care. But don't jump down people's throats as soon as a debate is brought up where they maybe te topic | |||
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"there's no need to get all defensive here. The OP just asked a question. I can understand it as it's a common term used on here and I'm sure they just want to understand if a BBW would be within their preference or not. " Being totally and utterly honest ....when we first started swinging and joined fab we hadn't the faintest what size (struggling for the correct word here) "qualified" to be a BBW. We had looked at countless profiles of ladies all different shapes and sizes claiming to be BBW. I was bigger than I am now and wasn't 100% whether I qualified or not. I truely think/believe the op didn't mean any harm or bother when they asked the question ....unlike some people who clearly have nothing better to do than spout their vileness on Internet forums like this | |||
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"there's no need to get all defensive here. The OP just asked a question. I can understand it as it's a common term used on here and I'm sure they just want to understand if a BBW would be within their preference or not. Being totally and utterly honest ....when we first started swinging and joined fab we hadn't the faintest what size (struggling for the correct word ,here) "qualified" to be a BBW. We had looked at countless profiles of ladies all different shapes and sizes claiming to be BBW. I was bigger than I am now and wasn't 100% whether I qualified or not. I truely think/believe the op didn't mean any harm or bother when they asked the question ....unlike some people who clearly have nothing better to do than spout their vileness on Internet forums like this " | |||
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"there's no need to get all defensive here. The OP just asked a question. I can understand it as it's a common term used on here and I'm sure they just want to understand if a BBW would be within their preference or not. Being totally and utterly honest ....when we first started swinging and joined fab we hadn't the faintest what size (struggling for the correct word ,here) "qualified" to be a BBW. We had looked at countless profiles of ladies all different shapes and sizes claiming to be BBW. I was bigger than I am now and wasn't 100% whether I qualified or not. I truely think/believe the op didn't mean any harm or bother when they asked the question ....unlike some people who clearly have nothing better to do than spout their vileness on Internet forums like this I totally agree,the OP,i dont think meant harm or bother but certain people like to argue with their shadow and be vile and aggressive and incite trouble.Why cant we have peace and harmony in this diverse world. " | |||
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"why do people have to categorised yes i am a bbw im big i know not something can change been trying years but i dress to flatter my size most people don't do that i am who i am and if you dont like it not my problem lol i wont change for anyone. BIG YES BEAUTIFUL DEBATABLE WOMEN DEFENTLY " and you look lovely. thank god we are all different or this would get boring very quickly | |||
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"nowt wrong with size sexy " oooooooo I like this sizing - gonna adopt it for me - thank u | |||
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"surely it has to be about hight as well, a women whos a size 16 and 5ft 10+ will not look the same as a 5ft woman whos a size 16, infact i would imagine a women whos 5ft10 ish or above wouldnt even be over weight at a size 16/18 and would probably not look overly big at a size 20 So you cant really just put a number on what big is" Exactly, at 5ft 1 and a size 16 i know i look lots bigger than taller women. One thing i cant change is my height unless i go on a rack and im not planning that anytime soon lol | |||
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"i still love the term rubenesque, a woman of large build and frame , not necessarily over weight xxx" My profile says rubenesque, i love that word | |||
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"i still love the term rubenesque, a woman of large build and frame , not necessarily over weight xxx" so thats what that's means | |||
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