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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so been here a week and looking for advice on my profile as I’m truly crap at writing about myself

Be grateful for any advice including photos on what’s good and not good

Also most won’t talk to you unless verified by another member, so how you do that on lockdown? Lol

Thanks in advance

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Looks good from here (your photos in particular make a nice change)

As for verification, you're already photo verified, which is more than lots of guys who've had way more time, so probably best not to worry about any more until you can get to a social or club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks good from here (your photos in particular make a nice change)

As for verification, you're already photo verified, which is more than lots of guys who've had way more time, so probably best not to worry about any more until you can get to a social or club."

Thanks for that I appreciate it, at least I’ve got something right haha !

Just a shame most ignore the messages I send, ok it’s hard right now but surely a conversation online is good for the mind right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh your profile looks alright bud. No gruesome cock shots and you come across as relatively sane lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeh your profile looks alright bud. No gruesome cock shots and you come across as relatively sane lol"

Haha extremely sane and no don’t do cock shots

Might consider some naughty pics for private only

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The truth is, it’s very ordinary from the pictures to the text.

A woman or couple on here want to be intrigued about the person messaging them. Want to get to know him because he sounds fascinating and fun.

Do you think your text, demonstrates that ?

There is no way of knowing how much competition you have in your area. Or how many women or couples who’d consider meeting you, but what is guaranteed is you’re one of many.

The way your profile is currently I predict you’ll struggle meeting anyone. I can tell you it’s better than those guys who type ‘just ask’ in their profiles but that won’t get you a meet.

My advice think the whole thing through, what pictures do you think women like to see ?

Humour and intelligence are also a turn on, try and show a bit of that in the text.

You need to stand out on here or else you fade in the background, start with pictures as if these are bad they won’t even look at the text.

Good luck op

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