FabSwingers.com forum: Crying when you orgasm. Why?

By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

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I’ve done this a few times, recently even when I’ve had a lady wank. Not every time, just occasionally. What’s it all about, when I’ve done it with a guy there, I’ve felt like they’ll think I’m nuts.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

My wife often, especially if another guy fucked her

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I would think it's just a normal release and even more so during these unprecedented times.

Your mind is trying to process lots of information and my guess is that like the majority of people (certainly men) you're told not to cry from an early age so you hold everything in.

Maybe during orgasm your barriers are down and it comes out because you're not fighting to hold it back.

* disclaimer, I'm not a psychologist so it's just my thoughts

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

Massive hormone release has a lot to do with it! Hopefully they're good orgasms. Don't feel silly about it - nice guys will understand. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Massive hormone release has a lot to do with it! Hopefully they're good orgasms. Don't feel silly about it - nice guys will understand. x"

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By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"My wife often, especially if another guy fucked her"

I’m glad it’s not just me.

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By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"I would think it's just a normal release and even more so during these unprecedented times.

Your mind is trying to process lots of information and my guess is that like the majority of people (certainly men) you're told not to cry from an early age so you hold everything in.

Maybe during orgasm your barriers are down and it comes out because you're not fighting to hold it back.

* disclaimer, I'm not a psychologist so it's just my thoughts

I guess that must be it. I know it’s when I feel vulnerable.

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By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that."

I get what you mean and yes that must be it.

Good to see you back by the way.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

"It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that."

Saying 'I love you' can be quite hot - as long as everyone understands it's not 'for real' (although at that specific time, in that specific place...) I think it can really add something in terms of intimacy and warmth to the situation. I suspect this type of comment is quite rare on Fabs LOL!

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"My wife often, especially if another guy fucked her

I’m glad it’s not just me."
turns me on more pounding wet pussy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a huge release of hormones and it's the same thing that causes the 'drop' sometimes experienced after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that.

I used to meet a man who would say it and although I knew he didn't it was just in the moment, it was really lovely to hear.

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By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"Massive hormone release has a lot to do with it! Hopefully they're good orgasms. Don't feel silly about it - nice guys will understand. x"

Yes I think you’re right. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it to occasionally.. The guys are like what the hell is happening and I'm in a gorgeous bubble of feelings and emotion with tears running down my face, having the best time ever haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that.

I get what you mean and yes that must be it.

Good to see you back by the way. "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a rush of emotions, I’ve even said I love you which was a tad awkward - I didn’t mean it although in the moment the all encompassing rush felt like that.

In would say in general the majority of people I’ve met over the years I’ve had intimacy & warmth with so I guess coming from that makes more sense.

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By *lovewetpantiesMan
over a year ago

Broad Oak

Does she ever cry when you fuck her?

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"I’ve done this a few times, recently even when I’ve had a lady wank. Not every time, just occasionally. What’s it all about, when I’ve done it with a guy there, I’ve felt like they’ll think I’m nuts. "

It happens to me sometimes , can’t really predict when, although it’s always so intense i know it would only ever happen in really rare circumstances and with someone I knew really well .

I can also have lots of laughter , which can be a bit unsettling for the person with me !

I’ve had orgasms where I’ve laughed , cried , been furious and incoherent all over and over and mixed up together ... seems I’m a noisy , messy risky proposition

I think it’s got to be the massive release of hormones and energy and the setting free of all of the build up .

I can’t wait for it to happen again !

I’d probably pre warn any new sexual partners if I thought there were any chance of it happening

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve cried when orgasming a couple of times with one person - it actually happened the first time I met him and I hid it because I didn’t want him to think I was crazy. It happens when he goes down on me because it’s so incredible, it feels really intense and kind of overwhelming and sometimes that makes me cry a little.

Recently it’s been happening sometimes when I masturbate but that’s because if I’m a bit down it kind of depresses me somehow because I’m not doing it with someone else.

I think it’s basically because it’s a very vulnerable moment and emotions can come out one way or another, good or bad.

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Crying is such a turn on

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It happens to me sometimes , can’t really predict when, although it’s always so intense i know it would only ever happen in really rare circumstances and with someone I knew really well .

I can also have lots of laughter , which can be a bit unsettling for the person with me !

I’ve had orgasms where I’ve laughed , cried , been furious and incoherent all over and over and mixed up together ... seems I’m a noisy , messy risky proposition

I think it’s got to be the massive release of hormones and energy and the setting free of all of the build up .

I can’t wait for it to happen again !

I’d probably pre warn any new sexual partners if I thought there were any chance of it happening

Laughing is a bit strange the first time , but once you know the girl does it I’m fine, it makes me laugh too and there’s a couple of girls here we both always come at the sane time , laugh out loud looking at each other it’s really nice

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Whatever the reasons the feeling from this man's point of view is one of shared pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do it... sometimes especially if I come really hard

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve seen my wife cry during orgasm when she’s been fucked by her bull and it’s got really intense. Like she’s climaxing and he continues to fuck her during the orgasm so she climaxes again while he continues to fuck.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Only with my husband... when I feel so at ease... I have had a couple of massive squirting orgasms that results in immediate tears - bursting into tears in a noisy messy way. I suspect for me it’s a massive release of emotion and tension and it feels like such a relief. I’m sure it’s therapeutic!

He is fantastic about it and I’m sure he feels amazing that this only happens with him.

I have also experienced tears after sex with others (in the hours following) that I put down to “coming down” from an amazing heightened state of submission, arousal and naughty sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cry but one fabber I met a few years ago did when we both orgasmed together.. I was quite surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I'm well jel it's been that intense for you.....

Lucky!

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I would think it's just a normal release and even more so during these unprecedented times.

Your mind is trying to process lots of information and my guess is that like the majority of people (certainly men) you're told not to cry from an early age so you hold everything in.

Maybe during orgasm your barriers are down and it comes out because you're not fighting to hold it back.

* disclaimer, I'm not a psychologist so it's just my thoughts

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Thats actually v true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just normally scream lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just suppressed emotion finding an outlet. Very healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just suppressed emotion finding an outlet. Very healthy

I find I can end up laughing uncontrollably when it is very intense. I think that is because of the pent up release of only having sex sessions infrequently and perhaps embarrassment at completely losing the plot during the build up and orgasmic release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cried but I have laughed incessantly.

The first time was when I realised I could have internal orgasms purely through penetration alone. I was rolling round on his bed trying to tell him that I wasn't actually laughing at him

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A handful of times I've had this sort of weird cry laugh thing. It's just a combination of things - heightened emotions, sensory overload and that release at the end. The last time it happened it was really intense - I think because there had been all this build up and all the emotions were there as well it was bubbling under the surface and inevitable. I do get embarrassed because no one wants to be balls deep, ploughing away and having the person on the receiving end cry laugh but he likes me letting go so it's kind of sweet? And more intimate.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

A friend of mine laughs when she cums. I love it

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By *harlie_m123Man
over a year ago

burton

My darling sub often cries when we are together. Almost never from pain, but frequently from pleasure or sudden release. That may be an unexpected carress when she's blindfolded, or holding the wand there a moment longer than she expected, or a sudden orgasm.

I find it one of the truly great privileges of being lucky enough to own her - it's the most incredible expression of trust and affection.

After all, the French call it Le Petit Mort for a reason.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A big drop of adrenaline and endorphins mixed with a massive surge of oxytocin.

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

My wife used to cry when she orgasmed... at least I think she was crying

Come to think of it, it may have been laughter...hard to tell really it was such a bad telephone line

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"It’s just suppressed emotion finding an outlet. Very healthy

Exactly this...I've cried and laughed when coming, alone and in company.

I had a really stressful Dec & Jan, and my jaw locked up. The osteopath massaged my face and neck and I burst out crying big snotty sobs...and again a week later!! Jaw felt great...and he was very understanding!!

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

It's common especially after multiple orgasms as a couple as comments have said a complete release of emotions

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