FabSwingers.com forum: Putting up new profile pics with scars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure if this is the right forum to post..

But I want to put up some new pics on my profile but my body has changed a bit due to scaring from my surgeries that I had.I am a bit nervous that it’s gonna put people off.

Has anyone else had to do this ?? Any help would be much appreciated

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

You are you - be proud! There's other Fabbers on here who have scars. I can think of one very popular guy with a large scar on his torso, but it doesn't seem to stop the ladies lusting after him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They will probably see the scar if you meet so no point hiding it. Wear it with pride--it's the only body you have x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Scars shouldn't put decent people off. If you look closely at the pic of us together 11th September, you'll see knee scars. Though they do get covered on nights out with stockings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are you - be proud! There's other Fabbers on here who have scars. I can think of one very popular guy with a large scar on his torso, but it doesn't seem to stop the ladies lusting after him

Yes mine is on the lower torso I call it my half zipper it’s from having 2 bowel operations

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Mrs H had breast surgery in 2014 and all our photo's are from since then.

The sharp eyed ones will notice that she disguises it with a temporary tattoo.

We still have our old ones from prior to the surgery but felt that it would be unfair to show them.

Believe me, she has had much more fun since the surgery than ever before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They will probably see the scar if you meet so no point hiding it. Wear it with pride--it's the only body you have x "

This is very true it’s still knocking my confidence though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scars shouldn't put decent people off. If you look closely at the pic of us together 11th September, you'll see knee scars. Though they do get covered on nights out with stockings."

Well hopefully it won’t put people off too much.god I love women in stockings but that should be for another thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They will probably see the scar if you meet so no point hiding it. Wear it with pride--it's the only body you have x

This is very true it’s still knocking my confidence though "

I get that. Confidence will be no competition for the scar. X

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As someone else said nice people wouldn't care about things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this is the right forum to post..

But I want to put up some new pics on my profile but my body has changed a bit due to scaring from my surgeries that I had.I am a bit nervous that it’s gonna put people off.

Has anyone else had to do this ?? Any help would be much appreciated "

I've got quite a few scars and they sometimes are visible in my photos but I don't edit them out or anything. They're part of who I am and if anyone meets me in person, they'll see them.

I think you should just post your photos OP. I think people will be less bothered than you think

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"Not sure if this is the right forum to post..

But I want to put up some new pics on my profile but my body has changed a bit due to scaring from my surgeries that I had.I am a bit nervous that it’s gonna put people off.

Has anyone else had to do this ?? Any help would be much appreciated

I've got quite a few scars and they sometimes are visible in my photos but I don't edit them out or anything. They're part of who I am and if anyone meets me in person, they'll see them.

I think you should just post your photos OP. I think people will be less bothered than you think "
I agree with this, I've put one of mine up as my profile pic as a confidence boost for you...it's been fabbed 10 times, which is a lot for guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure if this is the right forum to post..

But I want to put up some new pics on my profile but my body has changed a bit due to scaring from my surgeries that I had.I am a bit nervous that it’s gonna put people off.

Has anyone else had to do this ?? Any help would be much appreciated

I've got quite a few scars and they sometimes are visible in my photos but I don't edit them out or anything. They're part of who I am and if anyone meets me in person, they'll see them.

I think you should just post your photos OP. I think people will be less bothered than you think I agree with this, I've put one of mine up as my profile pic as a confidence boost for you...it's been fabbed 10 times, which is a lot for guys. "

Oh really....That sounds good mate.I think I might just put some up and see how it goes

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I would put them up. If anyone doesnt like it, they aint for you.

I have a fake left boob with no nipple. It has a large oval scar on it instead! I dont show my left boob in any pics. I have sent on a pic of my 2 boobs to people before in private just to show them as they were curious.

Show you scar with pride.

MsD

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Not sure if this is the right forum to post..

But I want to put up some new pics on my profile but my body has changed a bit due to scaring from my surgeries that I had.I am a bit nervous that it’s gonna put people off.

Has anyone else had to do this ?? Any help would be much appreciated

I've got quite a few scars and they sometimes are visible in my photos but I don't edit them out or anything. They're part of who I am and if anyone meets me in person, they'll see them.

Good call. We've just fabbed it for you.

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By *xyBs2022Couple
over a year ago

Lancs

Ju’s got a cracker on her belly, we luv it, she’d be dead if it wasn’t there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few people on here with scars and assorted lumps and bumps.

I would never put me off, as another poster says-if it puts someone off they wouldn't be worth meeting anyway.

.... Most people are really not that bothered, go for it

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Just post them lovely. They are part of who you are and your story. Anyone who has an issue with then isn't worth meeting up with anyway.

Be yourself and embrace the new you. Xxx

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By *andk123Woman
over a year ago

doncaster

I have huge scars under both armpits due to a skin disease and having my sweat glands removed. I used to be self conscious of it but now I think sod it! I may not be perfect but my imperfections make me perfect! Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the really nice reply’s...I’ll put a couple of picks up later in my profile.

I hope posting this thread has helped other people in the same dilemma

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Mate I’m covered in them. From Face to Ankles. I was very conscious of wearing shorts for a while but fuck it can’t change them and now give 0 fucks.

If anything they are a pillow talking point.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I know it’s easier said than done, but try and embrace them. Post the pics, only an arsehole would have a problem with it and hopefully the more you see people accept them, the more confident you’ll feel about it. That’s how it worked for me anyway - I have scars from an operation 6 months ago, they’re visible in some of my pics. I was very self-conscious about them for ages but seeing that no-one else is bothered about them made me feel so much better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know it’s easier said than done, but try and embrace them. Post the pics, only an arsehole would have a problem with it and hopefully the more you see people accept them, the more confident you’ll feel about it. That’s how it worked for me anyway - I have scars from an operation 6 months ago, they’re visible in some of my pics. I was very self-conscious about them for ages but seeing that no-one else is bothered about them made me feel so much better."

Well I took the plunge just put one in my profile

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Well I took the plunge just put one in my profile "

Honestly, if you hadn't pointed it out and I wasn't looking specifically for it, I wouldn't have noticed. That's not meant to be negative, it means it's really not as obvious as you think it is. Even if it was more obvious, it would only put tosspots off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I took the plunge just put one in my profile

Thanks it was 52 staples so it goes down to just above my pubic area.They did a nice job to be fair...I do also have one on the side but you can’t really see it in the pic

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just put them up, scars are part of your life story good or bad , we both have a few. If you have issues with them best to edit them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It won't put people off you can't help it if you have scares.

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By *UXOMMOMMAWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I had surgery before Christmas on my tummy and I have put up pics. I am what I am and I'm not going to hide them. So don't worry about your scars be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I took the plunge just put one in my profile "

I'm sure it's very obvious to you because it's your body. But it's not to me. If I didn't know it was there I wouldn't have noticed it. Good for you x

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Spending time in cap with 1000s of naked people on the beach, we often just sit and watch thee traffic lol

Lots with scars, wobbly bits, missing bits, majorly missing bits, deformities, bit bits, little bits.

And you know what? WGAF? Its actually nicer to see real people vs porn

So who cares!

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By *rrightmrsohsowrongCouple
over a year ago

oldham

I understand as I feel the same I have scars from surgeries and I have a dry skin condition called psoriasis which makes me question should I even been on here. But to answer your question if it was just the scars I would wear them with pride and so should you hunni xx

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

Having same probs myself since some surgery in September which I needed but the result on other areas has left my body completely changed with large dents all over my legs and a saggy wrinkled middle with loose skin and empty to the touch

Haven’t played out since as lost all confidence tbh even with old play friends and whilst I wouldnt judge anyone else at all it’s just hard to accept and feel like I need to mention this in any messages which kinda kills the vibe

Working on it !

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Spending time in cap with 1000s of naked people on the beach, we often just sit and watch thee traffic lol

Lots with scars, wobbly bits, missing bits, majorly missing bits, deformities, bit bits, little bits.

And you know what? WGAF? Its actually nicer to see real people vs porn

So who cares!"

Fully agree.

Once you've been to Cap nothing like that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve just put a new pick in my profile today I think you can see em more.

But saying that my tattoo may put people off more

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I’ve just put a new pick in my profile today I think you can see em more.

But saying that my tattoo may put people off more "

OP, honestly it's still minimally obvious. I don't think it's going to put anyone off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve just put a new pick in my profile today I think you can see em more.

But saying that my tattoo may put people off more

OP, honestly it's still minimally obvious. I don't think it's going to put anyone off. "

Cool gald you think so...x

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I've had 4 abdominal surgeries now so my stomach is covered in scars. It just shows all the battles I've had to fight through. Nothing to be ashamed of at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had 4 abdominal surgeries now so my stomach is covered in scars. It just shows all the battles I've had to fight through. Nothing to be ashamed of at all"

I totally agree with that...

I am glad I put this post up as it’s made me feel a lot better about em....

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By *oveman47Man
over a year ago

bristol

i carry the scar of bowel cancer an illiosomy bag and it does put 99% of people off just something i have to live with. it does get me down sometimes but thats life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say show it as it is. Some won't like it but others will appreciate the honesty of the real body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a huge c section scar. While I don't show it in pics not one guy commented on it ever on meeting or afterwards.

My pride and joy came out of that scar so I wear it proudly. Its part of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i carry the scar of bowel cancer an illiosomy bag and it does put 99% of people off just something i have to live with. it does get me down sometimes but thats life"

I had a stoma bag for 8 months..I am glad I’ve just got the scar and not the bag anymore...

Try not to let it get to you mate..,

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By *oveman47Man
over a year ago

bristol

mines for life not easy somedays. most people are put off by it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"mines for life not easy somedays. most people are put off by it"

Mate I take my hat off too you I found it very hard when I had mine.

But there will be people out there that won’t be Put off by you having it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My scars (c section n gallbladder) are part of me..

Don't like it.. Nowt I can do about it.

Its part of you and your life.

Your body needed what it needed.

Those who don't like it are not for you anyway.

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My scars (c section n gallbladder) are part of me..

Don't like it.. Nowt I can do about it.

Its part of you and your life.

Your body needed what it needed.

Those who don't like it are not for you anyway.

Good luck op"

Thanks as you say gotta embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a big scar right up my stomach from an operation? No one ever mentions it or seems to pay any attention to it? I suggest you don't worry about it and put the pics up

Mark

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Each pic I put up now I try and have it on show

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By *otterabzMan
over a year ago

Ellon

"Each pic I put up now I try and have it on show

Good for you. It’s part of you, own it and embrace it. Honestly, if you hadn’t pointed it out, I’d hardly have noticed it. Glad that you posted on here about it, and that it’s given you such confidence now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Each pic I put up now I try and have it on show

Cheers dude

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By *olcockMan
over a year ago

Delph

As can be seen in some of my pics,i have a crease in my right breast.Where I had a lumpectomy, you just have to accept your you,it doesn't seem to put fabbers off as i get lots of offers

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By *ingerphantomWoman
over a year ago

West lothian

Hi sexy i saw your pics and id love to kiss every god damned sexy inch of you! your beautiful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are you - be proud! There's other Fabbers on here who have scars. I can think of one very popular guy with a large scar on his torso, but it doesn't seem to stop the ladies lusting after him

Yes mine is on the lower torso I call it my half zipper it’s from having 2 bowel operations "

My ex had a similar 12” scar where yours also is, she had her large bowl removed due to a genetic illness issue, be proud fella, there part of who you are, the surgery you’ve had is massive & well done to you for pulling through

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are you - be proud! There's other Fabbers on here who have scars. I can think of one very popular guy with a large scar on his torso, but it doesn't seem to stop the ladies lusting after him

Yes mine is on the lower torso I call it my half zipper it’s from having 2 bowel operations

Cheers mate...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi sexy i saw your pics and id love to kiss every god damned sexy inch of you! your beautiful xx"

Was that aimed at me or the poster above

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As can be seen in some of my pics,i have a crease in my right breast.Where I had a lumpectomy, you just have to accept your you,it doesn't seem to put fabbers off as i get lots of offers"

It’s still looks like you having loads of fun xxx

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By *olcockMan
over a year ago

Delph

I am and I'm sure you will too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am and I'm sure you will too"

Well fingers crossed

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