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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Not my first profile but even before I’ve always found it hard to get attention to my profile. Idk if it’s my profile or just the area I’m from.

Any suggestions will be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message people, speak on here etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message people, speak on here etc!"

As above but organised socials and clubs will always be better for single guys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two"

Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two

Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it "

Might be quicker on here, in the current situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will admit since posting on here got some views

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It says you're in Norwich.

Just ask your brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Will admit since posting on here got some views "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you specifically want feedback on your profile then you can ask for that and I'm sure you'll get some helpful ideas.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Stuff a dress on, it works for me !! X

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Norwich is quiet for swinging and it’s a fair trek to a club, but generally worth trying.

Why can’t you accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I travel around with the army so don’t have a private accommodation in Norwich x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe deciding whether you are straight or bi-curious will help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True, im straight but maybe willing to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you're curious..

Oh and too many exclamation marks in your profile text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you do it in the real world???

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You're in a sea of thousands of other men. Good advice re trying clubs, although some are selective regarding membership and some have waiting lists so try more than one or two

Very true thought i would try and get started on here before clubs etc! But might have to look into it "

I would never recommend the club scene for a single guy. Use this lockdown period to find genuine, potential matches in here, as everyone is sat at home right now, looking at profiles, chatting shit in the forums, and swapping messages

Would you really meet a 99 year old woman? Be realistic about your search range. Think about what you are genuinely looking for, and concentrate on those criteria. If you’re moving around the country with your work, your preferred search goes with you, just remember to alter your postcode to wherever you’re stationed.

Don’t be afraid to use your block button! Cut out everyone you either don’t match what they’re looking for, or those who you’re not attracted to.

Be yourself. Don’t try to impress, or say what you think the other person wants to hear, just say it as you see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers will take that on board!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Not my first profile but even before I’ve always found it hard to get attention to my profile. Idk if it’s my profile or just the area I’m from.

Any suggestions will be great "

Get off to the clubs once it's safe to do so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I personally don't like your profile name and too young for me

Profile content, very generic, casting your net wide doesn't mean you'll get what your after.

Explain why you can't accommodate, if your in the forces, that's something of interest and a conversation opener.

Use that you can't meet as the perfect way to get to know potential people, not just talking sex, because that becomes boring. Get to know them, you have a better time when you do and probably better intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay thanks will change the profile!

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