FabSwingers.com forum: Where am i going wrong???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Just wondered if anyone could point me in the right direction with my profile. I get views but generally get ignored when i send messages.

Tough world to break in to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more public photos, more info about yourself in your bio. Would you really meet anyone from 18-99? Make yourself seem a bit fussier, not like you'll shag anything that offers. And don't complain about finding this site hard in your bio, it's a proper turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A vast majority of fab users ignore winks. As for why your messages are getting ignored, wel, most will look at your profile before they even think of reading your message. If they're unimpressed, why would they then go on to read or even reply to you.

Your profile is your one and only chance to make a first impression so you need to be sure that it is the best it can possibly be.

Does it stand out amongst the thousands of others, or is it plain, boring and generic?

Does it tell people what you have to offer and what you're looking for, or have you just thrown a few sentences together that don't really reveal anything?

To put it another way, if you were to receive a message from someone who had a write up like yours, would you be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A vast majority of fab users ignore winks. As for why your messages are getting ignored, wel, most will look at your profile before they even think of reading your message. If they're unimpressed, why would they then go on to read or even reply to you.

Your profile is your one and only chance to make a first impression so you need to be sure that it is the best it can possibly be.

Does it stand out amongst the thousands of others, or is it plain, boring and generic?

Does it tell people what you have to offer and what you're looking for, or have you just thrown a few sentences together that don't really reveal anything?

To put it another way, if you were to receive a message from someone who had a write up like yours, would you be interested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noted!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Seems like a tinder style profile. I personally look for more public photos of body as well. Topless and showing bulge under your boxer etc . creates an imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The problem with adding more pictures is the ones i posted before got copied and used on other sites.

I own 3 businesses in my are which have me largely in the public eye so when i see them popping up on other sites it worries me a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

Just wondered if anyone could point me in the right direction with my profile. I get views but generally get ignored when i send messages.

Tough world to break in to. "

I have to agree with all the above comments. I'm not sure that you're profile stands out enough to be noticed. And, as said, better not to whinge about the site or your lack of success in your profile.

How about stating when you're free, suggest meeting for a drink first, what you particularly like and what you can offer? A lot of people are too arrogant but many are too reserved so you'll need to strike a balance.

Hope that helps.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You've got a nice face, the profile is OK, if you were local to me and your message was decent I'd reply to you. If anything i would like to see some more pictures as someone else has mentioned.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Negative content. You're not going to get a sympathy fuck that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add, you need to understand that there are thousands and thousands of guys on the site, all sending messages to females and couples every day. This becomes a drain and an annoyance to some people, so they don't respond to everyone unless your profile stands out. We also get a lot of messages that are simply "hi". Whilst nobody is expecting war and peace but a little effort may help.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

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"The problem with adding more pictures is the ones i posted before got copied and used on other sites.

I own 3 businesses in my are which have me largely in the public eye so when i see them popping up on other sites it worries me a little. "

I agree with the others that you probably fare better by having more pictures on your profile. Unfortunately, it’s the nature of the internet that once pictures are on there, then they are there forever and able to be stolen.

What you could do is to make sure your security is up-to-date on fab, so that you don’t appear on any google searches and keep any cock pictures in private. Just display enough body shots that people can get an idea what you look like.

If you are concerned about your privacy, I’m surprised that you’re showing your face publicly on this site and not in private.

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