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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone been the victim or had anyone try to use sextortion with pics before, just had an odd message on whatsapp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a local fella message me with are you the bloke in such and such with the white van,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine is currently getting this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/04/20 09:57:01]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a meet with them to meet their demands. But have a welcoming party waiting. It’s very effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange a meet with them to meet their demands. But have a welcoming party waiting. It’s very effective. "

That just sounds like a silly thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t tend to extort you when they have no teeth and broken fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t tend to extort you when they have no teeth and broken fingers "

Grrr how manly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how would you deal with it?

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So how would you deal with it?"

Just go direct to the police. They will sort it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how would you deal with it?"

I can't quite conceive of how it's a situation I might find myself in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sent someone pics I meet on tinder however my face isn't in them but they said they would sent them to people I know if I didn't give them money. Deactivated my social media for now and blocked and deleted the number but it's made me pretty paranoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sent someone pics I meet on tinder however my face isn't in them but they said they would sent them to people I know if I didn't give them money. Deactivated my social media for now and blocked and deleted the number but it's made me pretty paranoid "

How will they know who you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Found my facebook profile through tinder I assume. Its deactivated now and haven't had contact in a day or so

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Sent someone pics I meet on tinder however my face isn't in them but they said they would sent them to people I know if I didn't give them money. Deactivated my social media for now and blocked and deleted the number but it's made me pretty paranoid "

This is why it's always best to keep faces and any easily identifiable things such as tattoos out of any naughty photos. If you cant be linked to them - nobody can use them against you.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My face isn't in the pictures i sent so you actually wont be able to know it's me but still had me worried as they found my facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren’t ashamed of this life, so it just wouldn’t work with us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No really ashamed but it's more them sending my dick pics to my mum hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No really ashamed but it's more them sending my dick pics to my mum hahaha"

Sorry mum I’ve been having sex with women. Not exactly a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren’t ashamed of this life, so it just wouldn’t work with us. "

Yet you'd go and break fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren’t ashamed of this life, so it just wouldn’t work with us.

Yet you'd go and break fingers"

Yes if anyone tries to fuck me over I would. Why wouldn’t you stand up for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest when you put it like that yeah doesn't really matter. Guess its slightly different when it's not your decision photos are being sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I really dont understand what you have to lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren’t ashamed of this life, so it just wouldn’t work with us.

Yet you'd go and break fingers

Yes if anyone tries to fuck me over I would. Why wouldn’t you stand up for yourself. "

Because I'm not a gangster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange a meet with them to meet their demands. But have a welcoming party waiting. It’s very effective. "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"To be honest when you put it like that yeah doesn't really matter. Guess its slightly different when it's not your decision photos are being sent "

The reason they found you is because whatsapp is linked to Facebook

Take your phone number off facebook and make your account private

They usually ask for money on a gift card or revolute credit card

Ignore them or you'll be forever hounded

Please don't be upset over it whats the worse thing that can happen( it wont by the way )

Your mum knows you wank or have sex with other people big deal she knows that already and wont care or think any worse of you.

Please don't let them inside your head

A few young men in ireland killed themselves over the same scam .....its not worth the pain to any of your family

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Sent someone pics I meet on tinder however my face isn't in them but they said they would sent them to people I know if I didn't give them money. Deactivated my social media for now and blocked and deleted the number but it's made me pretty paranoid

This is why it's always best to keep faces and any easily identifiable things such as tattoos out of any naughty photos. If you cant be linked to them - nobody can use them against you.

A"

exactly! That’s the way forward

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Most of our family know and neither have jobs that would be at risk if found out so would just let them get on with it

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"No really ashamed but it's more them sending my dick pics to my mum hahaha"

People usually only do that when they’ve been sent unsolicited dick pics, in an attempt to shame the man sending them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasnt unsolicited but sure

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Wasnt unsolicited but sure "

Didn’t say it was, but I know women who do that when they are unsolicited. I think if someone’s threatening you like that and they really do it, your mum might be embarrassed but she’d be on your side and would probably be glad you didn’t pay them anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had it once from a guy we met we didn’t know he had a girlfriend and she saw things on a WhatsApp chat we had going found our Facebook profiles and messaged family members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had it once from a guys girlfriend we met we didn’t know he had a girlfriend and she saw things on a WhatsApp chat we had going found our Facebook profiles and messaged family members

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