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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it?" My wife actually, while I'd not done any swinging before her as I was younger and single so I slept with whoever I wanted to. Though she was downright innocent before we met, which we've rectified. I just spoke to her about it, she knew i was promiscuous before we met and we had spoken to each other about our sex lives previously as she hadn't had much of one before we got together, she was interested so we decided to explore. We enjoyed it and have carried on. I guess it depends on the foundational strength of the relationship and how well you know the person | |||
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" I guess it depends on the foundational strength of the relationship and how well you know the person" Did you know/think she would enjoy swinging when you talked about it? Was it a matter of persevering? | |||
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" I guess it depends on the foundational strength of the relationship and how well you know the person Did you know/think she would enjoy swinging when you talked about it? Was it a matter of persevering?" Female here After talking about it we decided to go to a club and and just see how we feel. After an hour of decided what I should wear we got there and they told me was dress down. I nearly killed him but it's an ice breaker now. It took me about 4 visits to not hide behind my towel. Our first night we watched, chatted and played pool for a good while before lovely couple asked us to join them we started slow and they went our pace but let's just say we needed up getting into the swing of it with the couple and still great swinging friends now. I was sooo nervous as not as confident as I come across but knowing that it was up to us and me on what happens it helped xx | |||
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"My wife was totally against it on the couple of occasions I brought it up early on in our marriage. When it happened it was because she felt inclined and aroused with the circumstances, not because I wanted her to do it." Were there moments she fluctuated or found it difficult, or was it an easy process once you’d started? | |||
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"Honesty us the key we find. We open and honest with everything. We know what we would like to do and no but that's changed and prob will do as we carry on xx" Ughh must check before sending Honesty is the key and things we not do | |||
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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it?" for me it was a disaster. I tried ot slowly and with lots of talking x but ended with him getting very angry x | |||
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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it?for me it was a disaster. I tried ot slowly and with lots of talking x but ended with him getting very angry x" Think sometimes it's just someone else's idea of being unfaithful so not fir everyone, but once a swinger always one x | |||
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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it?for me it was a disaster. I tried ot slowly and with lots of talking x but ended with him getting very angry x Think sometimes it's just someone else's idea of being unfaithful so not fir everyone, but once a swinger always one x " he doesnt mind me doing it as long as he doesnt see or hear it x | |||
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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it? My wife actually, while I'd not done any swinging before her as I was younger and single so I slept with whoever I wanted to. Though she was downright innocent before we met, which we've rectified. I just spoke to her about it, she knew i was promiscuous before we met and we had spoken to each other about our sex lives previously as she hadn't had much of one before we got together, she was interested so we decided to explore. We enjoyed it and have carried on. I guess it depends on the foundational strength of the relationship and how well you know the person" Yes, this. And simply communicating honestly from the very beginning about who you are sexually, your past etc.. it makes for a much much closer relationship. I can't understand couples who are "too shy" or scared to discuss sex and sexual fantasies among themselves. They are really missing out ![]() | |||
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"Has anyone introduced their partner to the lifestyle? How did you approach it, did it work out, how long did it take? Has anyone had any real difficulty with the idea of sharing and how did you overcome it? My wife actually, while I'd not done any swinging before her as I was younger and single so I slept with whoever I wanted to. Though she was downright innocent before we met, which we've rectified. I just spoke to her about it, she knew i was promiscuous before we met and we had spoken to each other about our sex lives previously as she hadn't had much of one before we got together, she was interested so we decided to explore. We enjoyed it and have carried on. I guess it depends on the foundational strength of the relationship and how well you know the person Yes, this. And simply communicating honestly from the very beginning about who you are sexually, your past etc.. it makes for a much much closer relationship. I can't understand couples who are "too shy" or scared to discuss sex and sexual fantasies among themselves. They are really missing out ![]() They most derinately are missing out, but some couples are together for different reasons I guess x | |||
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