FabSwingers.com forum: Is this hotwifing/cuckolding or am I just naive AKA why do MF pairings do this?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get a message from a (straight) woman.

Allegedly an FWB wants a threesome.

She has said he will organise it and told me to talk to him despite the fact that it's allegedly a threesome and I want to know both parties are interested.

I've had this happen with an MF pairing before - allegedly a threesome is wanted but the third person (me in this case) is being pushed mostly towards one partner who controls the whole thing instead of there being equality.

Is this exclusively a "straight" MF thing? Why can't both parties work together as equals?

I asked both of them outright whether they were into hotwifing or cuckolding but neither have answered that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get a message from a (straight) woman.

Allegedly an FWB wants a threesome.

She has said he will organise it and told me to talk to him despite the fact that it's allegedly a threesome and I want to know both parties are interested.

Is this exclusively a "straight" MF thing? Why can't both parties work together as equals?

I asked both of them outright whether they were into hotwifing or cuckolding but neither have answered that"

Allegedly, her FWB wants etc etc

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"Get a message from a (straight) woman.

Allegedly an FWB wants a threesome.

She has said he will organise it and told me to talk to him despite the fact that it's allegedly a threesome and I want to know both parties are interested.

Is this exclusively a "straight" MF thing? Why can't both parties work together as equals?

I asked both of them outright whether they were into hotwifing or cuckolding but neither have answered that"

I'd be wary,? Although I did all the organising when previously here as a couple it was always with my partners full knowledge and consent so if you're slightly suspicious ask for a chat with the lady?

This isn't always easily arranged depending on personal circumstances but should be possible eventually before an actual meet? Good luck! And enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently this is about her trying someone with the same bits and yet I am being pushed into messaging him as opposed to her

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Lots of red flags to me there

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By *own and countryCouple
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Town wants a blindfold stranger fuck and trusts me to organise it.

I am hoping that the chap will be involved in a couple of adventures until he is revealed and becomes regularl.

All scenarios are discussed and mutual decisions taken .

Ultimately she can say no..

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Get a message from a (straight) woman.

Allegedly an FWB wants a threesome.

She has said he will organise it and told me to talk to him despite the fact that it's allegedly a threesome and I want to know both parties are interested.

Is this exclusively a "straight" MF thing? Why can't both parties work together as equals?

I asked both of them outright whether they were into hotwifing or cuckolding but neither have answered that"

Sounds more like a single guy pretending to be a woman. Or it might be true.

If there is another woman involved, do you want her first experience with another woman to be with you?

If you’re looking for MF couples, there are a lot of genuine couples on the site looking for single ladies.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We would expect all parties to be roughly equally involved/have an equal say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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If there is another woman involved, do you want her first experience with another woman to be with you?"

Not a question I'd ever thought of but an important one. Honestly, I would need to work out the pros and cons of that. Honestly, I would worry about how I'd be treated by the other party. If I'm going to be someone's first woman (or possibly first in general but that's another ything in my mind).... I think I'd strictly want ONS. I don't know for sure.

I know that gay sex is just as real as straight sex.

I have been talking to several couples.

I don't know how I'd feel about being someone's regular and would expect an FWB/fuck buddy to actually have friendship as well in an ideal world, but I certainly wouldn't be happy with anyone who was monogamous.

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

"Get a message from a (straight) woman.

Allegedly an FWB wants a threesome.

She has said he will organise it and told me to talk to him despite the fact that it's allegedly a threesome and I want to know both parties are interested.

Is this exclusively a "straight" MF thing? Why can't both parties work together as equals?

I asked both of them outright whether they were into hotwifing or cuckolding but neither have answered that

Sounds more like a single guy pretending to be a woman. Or it might be true.

If there is another woman involved, do you want her first experience with another woman to be with you?

If you’re looking for MF couples, there are a lot of genuine couples on the site looking for single ladies."

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