FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could someone jump on my profile quickly and see what I’m doing wrong? To quick to the point maybe? I won’t show face publicly either as I’m quite well known and I want this as discreet as possible. A few pointers would be helpful and don’t hold back I can take criticism. Thanks in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone jump on my profile quickly and see what I’m doing wrong? To quick to the point maybe? I won’t show face publicly either as I’m quite well known and I want this as discreet as possible. A few pointers would be helpful and don’t hold back I can take criticism. Thanks in advance! "

I personally think you have a good profile. Have a look at the bottom of my bio . There's some excellent advice for single guys on fab. It's done wonders for me I've only been on 2 years with well over 200 veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut the first paragraph back to first meet will be a social only..no one cares if you are hard working or what time you have that you don't want wasted..cut the common courtesy phrase..members are free to answer or not irrespective of whether you text them or not..finally no one really cares if your a player or not..no need to mention that your not..vary your pics..and finally we are all well known to people that know us..all my opinion but you did ask..happy fabbing

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies! Changed it up a bit and took out the pointless bits as mentioned. Maybe your right I tend to read their profile then focus on something mentioned there or compliment a recent pic but I’m never to forward as such I don’t know maybe this just isn’t for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last paragraph is pointless.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Nothing wrong with the profile.

But what you are doing wrong is expecting that just having a profile on here is the magic key. It isn't.

A profile on a swinger site is just one tool in the box, and you need a lot more to get the job done.

Look for clubs/socials Etc in your area and get yourself out there.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

You’re quite well known? You tease

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Nothing wrong with the profile.

But what you are doing wrong is expecting that just having a profile on here is the magic key. It isn't.

A profile on a swinger site is just one tool in the box, and you need a lot more to get the job done.

Look for clubs/socials Etc in your area and get yourself out there."

Go to a social..it saves years of messaging..

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The only thing that would put us off is that you include Dogging in your interests - sex with randoms in car parks is surely the pole opposite of what you say you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies! Changed it up a bit and took out the pointless bits as mentioned. Maybe your right I tend to read their profile then focus on something mentioned there or compliment a recent pic but I’m never to forward as such I don’t know maybe this just isn’t for me? "

Much better OP..and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get meet verified? Go to a club or social.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Change your settings to cannot accommodate as your profile is saying cannot but in the settings says you can.

I did not see your previous profile, but for me the pictures are all very similar.

I like a profile that has more info about the person, as your one of a thousand males on this site and you need to stand out from all the others.

As said previously swinging is about connecting with people and if sex happens then it may happen.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm one in a thousand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely be interested based off your profile OP

maybe it's your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes go to a club but talk to people let them know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with the profile.

But what you are doing wrong is expecting that just having a profile on here is the magic key. It isn't.

A profile on a swinger site is just one tool in the box, and you need a lot more to get the job done.

Look for clubs/socials Etc in your area and get yourself out there."

I didn't see your original profile, but you've clearly taken advice from the forum.

So I agree with the above ^^^^

And until you can get out to club's etc, just get yourself noticed in the forums and start chatting

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