FabSwingers.com forum: Bigger cock for the wife :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so we have been on and off fabs for around 9ish years and we have had some great meets over the years, from full swap with couples, to a couple of mmfs and single meets too, we have both loved it and the fact that it turns us both on sharing each other.

Well I will get to the point as I do tend to ramble on a tad...... now I class myself with having a average ish size cock (around 7inches) and I have always loved the thought of my wife trying a slightly bigger cock than mine, in all the meets we have had she has said they were either the same size as me or slightly smaller and she used to say to me that she couldn't take any bigger (she is very tight!!) And that bigger cocks didn't do anything for her, but recently i have expressed to her even more how much it would turn me on knowing she had tried a bigger cock and she has admitted that she would definitely like to try it but she is quite nervous of the fact of trying bigger again because shes tight and obviously she wants to enjoy the experience and not get pain from it.

We have chatted to a few guys regarding this fantasy but most seem to think with their cocks and ruin it for us, we have actually found that couples for some reason seem to understand what we want more but not much has come from it.

Have any other couples have the same experience? or would care to share any advice or tips to me and my lovely wife on how to proceed further with this fantasy of ours, or even help?

Many thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the guys with big cocks just think I want to destroy everything lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't focus on the cock size, focus on the man. You should be able to tell from pictures what size a guys cock is if he has any, if not ask him for some. Many men put their size in their profile anyway.

If you don't want a guy who thinks a with his cock, don't concentrate on it yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the guys with big cocks just think I want to destroy everything lol"

Haha that's exactly what we have found with most we come across, and some think they are God's gift, it's not a must for us but its something we have both spoken about maybe trying, she may not even like it lol but you cant say gor sure until you try

, she didn't think she would like playing with another woman until it actually happened and she loved it!! Just like she loved seeing me with another woman, she loved the idea but she wasn't 100% sure she would love it as much actually seeing it Lol so who knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't focus on the cock size, focus on the man. You should be able to tell from pictures what size a guys cock is if he has any, if not ask him for some. Many men put their size in their profile anyway.

If you don't want a guy who thinks a with his cock, don't concentrate on it yourselves."

Totally agree!! And we dont focus on the size of a guys cock when we speak to them, first and foremost is how they come across over chatting, then if they do well and are attractedto them and if they have a slightly bigger package then that a bonus

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"If you don't want a guy who thinks a with his cock, don't [think with yours.]"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't want a guy who thinks a with his cock, don't [think with yours.]"

Thanks for the productive advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's amazing how many friend requests we have had from certain guys since starting this thread!! And they have all been blocked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand, your 7" penis is a good size and exactly what your wife wants and enjoys..

So stop focusing on what YOU want for her, and sit back feeling satisfied that you are everything she needs and you're a perfect match, rather than potentially making her uncomfortable?

Also if size really matters to you and her, you could give it a trial run with a penis sleeve, a dildo or the latter with a strap on harness. The physical aspect can be tried first.

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By *otel PlaymatesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

With a big willy comes big responsibility, choose the right guy and you will have a great experience. Experiment and enjoy.x

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By *ubic stylistMan
over a year ago

west Wycombe

As. Always the ladies needs should be taken with care. Start the play and build lots of head will loosen the lady also 2 hard 7 inch penis bearing down on her will excite.. Photos can be fun and slow the play... Never rush. Have fun stay safe above all life is for living get naked and have fun

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

We have found as long as the guy is average or above..and a considerate lover who can actually use what he has.. size isn't the most important thing.. nothing worse than having to grit your teeth while some guy proud of his huge member pounds away thinking he is giving her the shag of her life.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We don’t meet single Guys that much but if we do I love to have a Guy that’s quite big ,we have meet two with 8 and that’s probably enough for me but it has been fun ,try it see if you do enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife doesn’t care about size, although last meet action spoke louder then words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest willy came from the UK. 12 inches. And we had so much fun, I'll never forget it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 8" and my partners tight too, she takes it no problem but when I get carried away in some positions she does say not too fast/deep as it hurts. So sometimes I wish it was slightly smaller as she does say alot that its big and can hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, well I (husband) have learnt that 7inches is a little above average so I stand corrected and hold my 7inches with pride! Haha.

Also I think some people may of interpreted whatci originally wrote in the wrong way, it's not just what I would like to try she has also expressed that it's something she would like to try (a guy with a slightly bigger cock) but it's not a must!

And she's not wanting to try a cock that is loads bigger than mine as she has stressed that she doesn't think she could take that much bigger, so maybe an extra inch.

And yes it's all about how they use it, I have read lots of stories where the bloke had a 9-10 inch cock and it did absolutely nothing for the woman because the guy didn't know how to use it.

Thank you for all the comments!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt know 7inches was above average? I thought 8 was an average size generally

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Didnt know 7inches was above average? I thought 8 was an average size generally"

These are Internet inches, bear in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didnt know 7inches was above average? I thought 8 was an average size generally"

Neither did I (husband) I thought 8 was average, but from the amount of messages recieved over the last couple of days from people stating that 7 was above average and that 6 is generally the average then I'm going with that

haha, dont spoil my thunder!! Lol

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

Hi big cock for wives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get her a bigger dildo to practice man. If she likes good to go.

If not, respect her wishes.

Common sense bruv.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just get her a bigger dildo to practice man. If she likes good to go.

If not, respect her wishes.

Common sense bruv."

Yes Bruv!!

Common sense indeed! That why she already has a collection

, but thanks for the practical advice man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys.... Would you prefer a performer rather than a anaconda

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Lady's your obviously aware its not the size. thats something in the mans head he must have the biggest.thats not what has the woman in pure climax its technique and understanding the delicious pussy and what we can do to enjoy the special sexuall attraction.ie male tongue...maybe men need read more about the female body .

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Just my opinion and of course everyone are different with sexuall preferences what stimulates the brain sexuall attraction appetite zones like touch....floorplay.

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

A tiresome misconception borne mostly of jealousy that guys with big cocks are inconsiderate lovers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A tiresome misconception borne mostly of jealousy that guys with big cocks are inconsiderate lovers."

Not jealousy at all!! In our experience we have found we get more messages from guys with big cocks message us after seeing on our profile that the wife would like to try a slightly bigger cock where the message tends to start with "my cock will ruin your wife" and other messages that make the guy think he's some kind of god because he's got a big cock, that's not jealousy on my part (husband) it's just a guy thinking with his cock

And if I was jealous of a guy who's got a bigger cock than me then I wouldn't be fully behind my wife in experiencing a slightly bigger cock.

But thanks for your input it's much appreciated

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By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

I'm willing to help. Ok... I do have one that's more than average but I am not one dimensional.

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By *AKCoupleUKCouple
over a year ago

newport

According to NHS average penis size is between 5-7 erect

https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/penis-size/

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We don’t meet single Guys that much but if we do I love to have a Guy that’s quite big ,we have meet two with 8 and that’s probably enough for me but it has been fun ,try it see if you do enjoy "

Can I have their numbers please for when lock down is over with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love stretching a girl out, getting it in, pushing up against that back wall til it's all in finally. Sometimes if I'm quick, I can get it in before it gets big so it swells up inside and doesn't want to come out.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

My wife definitely enjoys a larger cock. Mine is only average and I generally make her climax with fingers and tongue. Therefore it’s nice to see her getting a good hard f&@“ from a large stiff cock now and then. She gets so wet that fitting it in hasn’t been a problem although she did mention she was sore after her last session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is true that bigger cocks don't do anything different.

Our ideal size is 8 inches , anything bigger is just pain and not pleasure.

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By *he_tykiesCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire.

My lady has always said its not the size of the cock that matters, its what the cock is attached to is more important & then what he can do with it after his tongue lol!

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