FabSwingers.com forum: Missed opportunity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I ended up catching an ex gf of mine sending dirty messages to a guy. She was acting a bit suspicious in recent days, whenever I would come into the room she would quickly but her phone away, hiding down her bra which was unusual for her as she would normally throw it on the side. She also got really defensive.

At the time I was quite insecure, not really confident in myself so had to look. Found explicit messages between the two of them about what they would do to each other sexually.

I felt hurt that she would do this to me, but looking back on it now I wish that I had encouraged her. Maybe to open up to me more and even let her fuck him in front of me. Gets me hard thinking of all the possiblities, especially some of the naughty chats we would have during sex.

Unfortunately my insecurities at the time prevented things from progressing. Has anyone else had missed opportunities like this?