FabSwingers.com forum: chance meetings

By *adgey1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cairo

My wife loves to flirt when we go out and occasionally likes to take things further when a guy chats her up. However trying to find someone i am comfortable with coming onto my wife is pretty hard, how do you ask a guy in a club to fuck your wife !!!!

We had a couple of threesomes after nights out with friends of mine who knew what i wanted, but i wanted to get some fresh guys in.

Knowing my wife would not consider the fully blown swinging scene I arranged for a guy i met through Fab to bump into us at a club one night. I pretended that i knew him and he came and sat in our company. within 20 mins he was on the dancefloor snogging her.

At the end of the night he came back to ours and fucked her sensless, she loved it and we met several times after for pre arranged sessions, she never ever found out he was a random guy from Fab.

Just wondered if anyone else had this problem in that the wife loved to fuck other guys but sees the whole swinging thing as a bit seedy ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Gaz,

I've encountered many couples like this. I think the whole idea for her to enter the swinging scene might seem a bit seedy to her but doesn't hide the fact that inside she has desires to fuck other guys (even if she won't admit it).

Maybe if you just take things slowly. The arrangement you explained is probably the perfect way to get things started. Maybe if you let her keep in contact with the guy next time then you might be able to coax her into meeting again and with other guys. That way you have full control of the guys she's meeting but she still thinks it's off the cuff.

I've met couples under scenarios where he's introduced me to her and bring out her naughty side that's worked really well. For one couple they ended up both on here shortly after

You seem pretty grounded so sure you'll have some luck. Feel free to PM me if you want some more ideas

All the best

Jay x