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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before you read on I am a guy so no offensive messages please.

Although I am very much into women, I do like to play with attractive ladyboys/TVs but they need to be convincing. It’s been a huge turn on for me when I have met such people before.

I’m very much new to exploring things here. Although it feels really good when not too far in it does hurt to be fully penetrated. I was wondering whether this eases. It’s just a bit embarrassing to have to ask for someone to stop.

What are people’s thoughts. Maybe I should find someone with a tiny cock and maybe that would work ha ah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try toys and find someone who will take their time and plenty of lube

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By *appyvalleyWoman
over a year ago

Batley

P0ppers also helps and plenty of lube

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By *leopatra 64Couple
over a year ago

Poole

Silly question;

But where can you get them from ?

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By *appyvalleyWoman
over a year ago

Batley

Pulse n cocktails is where I get mine

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

In answer to your question, yes it does ease after a while. Like any other muscle in your body, your arse will adapt to something with regular practice.

But what is also important, is your mindset. You need to learn to relax your mind, and this in turn will relax your arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh good advice sensei

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mind tense, assho tense. Assho chill, mind chill.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Wanked last night with dildo partly in arse.. Loved feeling when it slipped out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a guy who knows what he is doing.

Someone who is well hung but knows how to ease his way into a tight hole is easier and more pleasurable that a bloke with a smaller cock who just hammers your ass.

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By *klfkrMan
over a year ago

Dumfries

Finding someone who knows what they are doing and is willing to take time really helps, as does practice with toys.

I have never seen the need for aromas, just someone with patience and plenty of lube. If they like rimming its even better.

A good deep rimming, ease in a finger then two, plenty of lube, then maybe a small dildo or plug, then a bigger dildo. Relax into it, and a good top will let your hole adjust to each new toy etc. Then you are ready for the main event.

Again plenty of lube and an patient top to warm you up, let you get used to the feelings. And a lot of the time a real cock is easier to take than a toy because the real cock is spongier and a bit more pliable.

Relax and breathe and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmmm that’s hot

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

as Sklfkr said, a good top with patience will really help.

slowly slowly fucky monkey !!

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By *klfkrMan
over a year ago

Dumfries

The other thing with a patient top is the fact that knowing they are patient will mean you are able to relax more and enjoy it.

It's not something that should be rushed, make sure you have plenty of time, and this might sound like a cliche.... go for a soak in the bath, it will help you relax.

The first time I bottomed, the top spent the best part of an hour teasing and relaxing me and making me super horny for it all and it wasn't painful at all.

He had suggested that I played with toys a few times before it, and I had a small butt plug and that was it.

It was the confidence in him to be patient and take his time that meant I could fully relax

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By *d cumslut dorsetTV/TS
over a year ago

west dorset


"Silly question;

But where can you get them from ?"

Im not sure about poole but theres an adult shop in bournemouth on the triangle. Always look in when im over there

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