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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not the only one mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats just wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally mate i think you are really strange, swinging is a bit of fun between conscenting adults Do you really think you can class getting someone wife pregnant and a child being brought into the world as a bit of fun....you need to think why you are on here, children should be concieved out of love and affection not a quick hour or two fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally mate i think you are really strange, swinging is a bit of fun between conscenting adults Do you really think you can class getting someone wife pregnant and a child being brought into the world as a bit of fun....you need to think why you are on here, children should be concieved out of love and affection not a quick hour or two fun."
by a total stranger!!!!,,,god this site gets worse

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?"

sorry you got such petty replies..i was pretty sure i had aleady replied ot this...it is a common fantasy, google breeding or cuckhold stories...

swingers can be a bit vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?

sorry you got such petty replies..i was pretty sure i had aleady replied ot this...it is a common fantasy, google breeding or cuckhold stories...

swingers can be a bit vanilla "

You probs did reply before he has put this sane topic up a cpl of times now.... Don't worry u ain't going mad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit a sperm bank and father a few lol fantasy and problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure i replied before and said its fine as long as you pay the child maintenance then you went all quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a good thing everyone doesn't have DNA tests to prove if real father, as would be a lot of dissapointed "fathers" around Lol.

The fact is many a man is bringing up another mans child.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?

sorry you got such petty replies..i was pretty sure i had aleady replied ot this...it is a common fantasy, google breeding or cuckhold stories...

swingers can be a bit vanilla "

Nope your not.. plenty of women out there.. but not many that will admit it out there..

Also try googling impregnation and you will find some good sites and lots of Real people that have done it..

Tends to be a bit more common in BDSM sites I find..

hey jem.. must stop meeting on these threads..

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?

sorry you got such petty replies..i was pretty sure i had aleady replied ot this...it is a common fantasy, google breeding or cuckhold stories...

swingers can be a bit vanilla

Nope your not.. plenty of women out there.. but not many that will admit it out there..

Also try googling impregnation and you will find some good sites and lots of Real people that have done it..

Tends to be a bit more common in BDSM sites I find..

hey jem.. must stop meeting on these threads..

cali "

*whistles* my interest is purely academic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?"
Looks around for Jeremy Kyle

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By *athan69Man
over a year ago

London

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By *athan69Man
over a year ago

London

The thought of getting someone pregnant through swinging scares the sh*t out of me tbh, lol!

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By *ayneandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Brecause andy is a cuckold husband we havemet a couple of guys whowe could trust to be clean and have had bareback and have teased hubby about what if. Oviousley I know i take precautions and hubby has just cleaned up afterwards. Each to their own I suppose!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The thought of getting someone pregnant through swinging scares the sh*t out of me tbh, lol!"

The thought of getting pregnant again scares the shit out of me. First missed period I'll be down to the docs with a coathanger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ndrew MannMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't have a wife but don't think I'd be very happy if it was another bloke getting her pregnant, nor would I want to go getting somebody else's wife pregnant "just for fun" - a life of a child is not some game of fun to be played.

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By *ndrew MannMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?Looks around for Jeremy Kyle "

Would indeed be perfect canon fodder for his show (his show, I use the term loosely) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person to have such a fantasy ?"

No you are not the only one with this fantasy.

Although we only play safe, Shaz has contraceptive implant and we believe a child should be only bought into the world under the right conditions, I still have a very similar fantasy.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.S : I won't go into depth my fantasy as some would forget that a fantasy is all that it is and won't ever be carried out.

Some fantasies are better to be kept a fantasy although no harm in thinking about it.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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*whistles* my interest is purely academic "

you and me both.. now wonder if I should see what stories I have that I have written on this topic.. seeing as its about a once a month question on the forums

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if 18 years of csa payments turns you on then go for it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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*whistles* my interest is purely academic

you and me both.. now wonder if I should see what stories I have that I have written on this topic.. seeing as its about a once a month question on the forums

Cali "

the last one i put up had this as the ending, but i never got round to putting the last chapter...job for tomorrow i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own, bad real life fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each to their own, bad real life fantasy!"

to you.. but I am lucky enough to have spoken with a few people that have done this in real life.. with very happy endings.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With that stat we got quoted of a child costing £200,000 over the years in terms of support it could be the most expensive fantasy yet.

Personally I find the idea completely bizarre. And of that makes me butterscotch then so be it. Glad I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 6 kids.. never worked out where they get this figures from lol..

Unless I have secret bank account that magically pays everything without me ever knowing it

what we enjoy isnt going to be the same as every else.. thats what makes things great.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way out of order matey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each to their own, bad real life fantasy!

to you.. but I am lucky enough to have spoken with a few people that have done this in real life.. with very happy endings.

cali "

why would you be lucky enough to meet these people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like Jeremy Kyle's perfect guest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry mate, but i have worked within the SEN facet of education for many years and completely disagree with this fantasy. chldren need the love and care of parents in order to develop to their full potential, not to be born into this world by some sexual fantasy! you are talking about a child for christ sake. i'm sure peodophiles assure themselves that their fantasies are fine too. you are blurring the lines of moral correctness. for those that have agreed or thought that this was ok, then you need to take a look in the mirror. i don't care who slates me for this opinion, but then again, your opinion doesn't hold much weight if you have considered a child's life to be that of a fantasy! SICK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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why would you be lucky enough to meet these people? "

because each of the couples involved had planned this very carefully.. they wanted to have a another involved.. they carefully vetted people.. and then had the most amazing time and who says that a child created this way isnt created within a loving relationship..

I think you have to read some of the true life stories to understand that this isnt about people thinking "oh I know.. I will get a stranger to get me pregnant".. its something that they come about over quite some time normally..

Then they plan the conception as anyone else would.. normally the Man sees the other man as a extension of their relationship for this period.. then once conception is complete.. sometimes the other partner goes away.. sometimes not.. as some of these people are in permanant 3way relationships..

have I done it myself no.. I have not.. do I see anything wrong with it.. Nope.. as long as the child is being brought into a loving family.. its parentage doesnt really matter.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple agree on fulfilling this fantasty with another man and bring the child as their own with or without then "donors" involvement then what is the problem?

Ok thats in an ideal world and as we know life isn't like that. Then again the same runs true for normal couples that have children. Have to remember that everyone is different and not to judge???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can completely see the point of the above comments. however..."vetting" people on a swinging site is as valid as hannibal saying he was sorry for his crimes! there are many many guys, girls and couples who lie through their teeth to get what they want from this site (which is their choice) and distinguishing from the genuine is near impossible i'm afraid. proper health checks etc are already done in clinics where women can conceive without the disillusion that a guy is genuine on here. many ethical and moral issues arise from this "fantasy". if all parties involved are flly commited, then that could be deemed acceptable, but i still stand by my statement earlier. it would just be a time-bomb waiting for the right ignition!

purely my opinion, and i appreciate these will differ from person to person.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think I will judge someone wanting to make this " fantasy" real.

This is one time I won't sit on the fence....people having a child by donor because they can't have children is understandable.

Having a child purposely as part of a sexual fantasy is disgusting....no matter how any of the people who have done it dress it up.

Poor kid thats all I can say, having parents who have no respect of how their baby was made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that if your going to have a child just to fulfill a fantasty then yes that is wrong. However if they were already trying for a child and she conceived by another man then at least there is a family unit for that child unlike a lot of kids out there?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I agree that if your going to have a child just to fulfill a fantasty then yes that is wrong. However if they were already trying for a child and she conceived by another man then at least there is a family unit for that child unlike a lot of kids out there?"

That isn't quite what people are saying , some people actually act this fantasy out and make it reality.

BUT if we were trying for baby ,swinging would be the last thing on our minds just in case of an accident. Why would anyone in their right mind want a baby where two or more people could be the father of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says its for a sexual fantasy... To some its nothing to do with being a kink...

Read some of the real people that have done it.. then make your judgements...

It doesn't matter how a child is made.. what matters is how a child is loved... Most of these people want a child .... That's how they chose... What about poly familys.... All living together.. every child a child of the family...

I used to think why would people do that..but I researched it and actually most people just play at it..and that is what the op asked... A fantasy... And It's extreme to some but is a huge turn on to others...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With that stat we got quoted of a child costing £200,000 over the years in terms of support it could be the most expensive fantasy yet.

Personally I find the idea completely bizarre. And of that makes me butterscotch then so be it. Glad I am."

You're not alone. I find some of the things posted on these forums of late unsavoury to me, and some people seem to get off on trying to shock.

Little wonder some kids turn out the way they do, when you look at some of the parents poor bastards don't stand a chance.

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By *nsatiable firebirdWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Reality and fantasy are two different things. Once you fantasise and make it a reality one usually moves on to another fantasy and having no emotion of the fantasy they have just fulfilled. To bring a child into the world from fantasy with a partner they may have just spent a night with is wrong. However, after the child is born a bond may happen...i dont know...just reasoning.

Usually though a fantasy accomplished leads to the next one up and more so than the previous. It would be good to here other views on it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't have to read peoples stories of how they have done it before I judge.

The idea repulses me so I certainly don't want to read in detail their justifications for it.

A fantasy is just that, reality is totally different. If it isn't a kink then I don't see any other explanation for it and I think people who do this should be reported to SS.

Either way, my view and I am sticking to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" To bring a child into the world from fantasy with a partner they may have just spent a night with is wrong. "

There are a lot of children brought into this world without the fantasty involved but with a partner they have just spent a night with. Thats the point I'm trying to make is not everything in this world is black or white so therefore it is difficult to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reality and fantasy are two different things. Once you fantasise and make it a reality one usually moves on to another fantasy and having no emotion of the fantasy they have just fulfilled. To bring a child into the world from fantasy with a partner they may have just spent a night with is wrong. However, after the child is born a bond may happen...i dont know...just reasoning.

Usually though a fantasy accomplished leads to the next one up and more so than the previous. It would be good to here other views on it "

See this is what most that don't understand this fail to see... The couples choosing to have a baby using multiple partners don't see it as making a baby with a stranger... They are making a baby... It's their baby.... And you can't report them to ss no more than you can report someone for conceiving while having an affair....

If you don't understand something learn about it or let it pass you by... But don't judge on things you have little or no understanding of.... I used to do that... But I've learnt its a big old world and many different things to learn... Not all are for me... But then neither is separate room swapping yet most see that as acceptable to me its something I don't understand but don't see it as wrong...

I judged when I was first given this as a task to research... But the love these couples have for each other and any subsequent children is lovely to see.

Biology does not make a father... But the thing is this was asking about the fantasy... What harm does that do...?

To The op... As jemIma said... Google it.. And there are whole sites dedicated to it...

This places bigotry amuses me at times... Maybe legs open minds close... But it seems someone always has to be putting down on someone...

Having a baby with competing sperm is more successful for a reason... If it wasn't so late I'd find the research.. but it would be wasted.. to those that actually want to learn more Google is your friend... to those that don't... Don't. Simple really...

Cali

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think the problem here is people want to be very naive about why ppl choose to have kids...kids are born to keep marriages together, to fit conventional norms,to please grandparents, because ppl are too lazy to use contraception...there is no pefect norm to compare this too,

There is an issue of having a child to please your sexual desires which i think cali deliberatly ignore, i have been on some of the sites she mentions, many breeding and impregnation fantasies are about pedophilia...however not all are, and i prefer to give ppl the benefit of the doubt when it comes to fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completly disagree with this fantasy as the OP calls it, at what point do you tell the child who his/her farther is? Also how do you explain how it came about that they have a different farther to the rest of the children? If the couple have any more.

I think it's awful that people want to get pregnant off a swinging site, if for some reason the couple can't have kids there are other channels they can go down to get a child, as everyone else has said is the gentleman ( and I use the term loosely) going to pay for the upkeep of the child?

I also don't agree that kids are born to keep marriages together, if the marriage is on the rocks for goodness sake don't have a child!

There are plenty more reasons I can think of, but dont want to bore everyone with my opinions.

Jack

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of getting someone pregnant through swinging scares the sh*t out of me tbh, lol!

The thought of getting pregnant again scares the shit out of me. First missed period I'll be down to the docs with a coathanger! "

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


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If you don't understand something learn about it or let it pass you by... But don't judge on things you have little or no understanding of.... I used to do that... But I've learnt its a big old world and

Cali "

I don't need to learn anything to know in my own mind that bringing a baby into the world with multiple partners isn't acceptable for me.

I also don't need to let it pass me by because I don't want to go read peoples loving stories of how they lovingly created a baby in a cream pie session for a sexual fantasy.

Personally for me....I think the SS should be involved in these peoples lives , not for having sex with someone other than their partner but because I think they should be investigated to see if they are able to look after the child as bringing a child into the world on the back of a fantasy is not the norm.

(It is on the fantasy section of the forums and we are discussing fantasies )

Fantasies are great and there are only a couple of things we wouldn't try in one, but we are adults making an informed choice.... this involves bringing a baby into the world who has no choice of wether to be in that fantasy.

You have to remember, not everyone will want to search for info on this, just the same as I don't want to search for any information on taboos to get an understanding on them to know that it is wrong in MY eyes.

( I won't give the example of taboos I am talking about as it could well be twisted to suit... but just to say both of them are illegal)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To Jem as on my phone and it doesn't want to quote.

I've actually never once in all my time seen anything about it being to do with peado related... Maybe because the sites I frequent are more to do less with the fantasy and more the reality...

People do have babies for so many reasons... As you said... To keep a relationship.. yes people shouldn't but they do... For all the reasons... Some have them because they didn't take care of contraception...

I do accept that for some it is a fantasy.. But when you talk to people that have done it you realise the driving force was desire for a baby...

As a fantasy its an amazing one to thing of to some... Multiple men over your fertile time... Increasing the odds to actually get pregnant because competing sperm does do that... And for many that's all they do.... Pretend... No baby ever brought into it... And no harm done so to speak..

I will not defend it anymore as I have my views that I can be a beautiful thing.. but like with other forbidden topics on here I know some will enjoy and others won't...

And as for ss... They are only interested in how supportive a family is... Plenty of women out there with not a clue who fathered their baby... Remember seeing one on Jeremy Kyle.. she brought two men on and neither were the dad....

I am sure if the original poster looks around he will find profiles that are looking for that...

And in response to something else.. no I don't say what I do to shock... I have my views and they are no less valid than those who are disgusted.. I'm sure my own personal fantasies would make you go omg too but they hurt no one and are enjoyed... Just because something isn't your cup of tea.. if it breaks no laws then where is the harm... (Talking about leaving it in fantasy land)

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jackandsophie and rugby are completely right in my eyes. i have previously stated my view on this. moreover, looking at everyones arguments for and against, i'm afraid the arguments for are still very flawed! there is only one valid reason for creating a child without using your partner's sperm, and that is if his lil soldiers didn't work. but there are special clinics to provide help. this is still a sick fantasy that the OP and all who support it, should be ashamed of! it amazes me at the lack of competence people show for a child's well being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note that the OP hasn't returned to defend hisself. He posts these threads on a regular basis maybe just to get this sort of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" if it breaks no laws then where is the harm... (Talking about leaving it in fantasy land)

Cali "

depends which countries would deem this "breaking the law" lol i'm sure there are many chinese people who believe enslaving bears and beating them is wrong, but there is no real law there to stop it! so it's ok as long as a person living in china only thinks and dreams about beating bears and chaining them?! think about the the innocent party involved (the child)....(or bear)....it's wrong for them and therefore should not be allowed....even as a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't going to reply.. But... What part of wanting a child to love and bring up in a loving relationship is wrong...

I know one lady from a site that fell pregnant after a 4 sum... It was an accident...and yet not once have either of them counted that baby as anything other than just their baby...

Yes there are horror stories out there too... As I mentioned on another thread... But most that do this for real are doing it because multiple partners is how they envisage there perfect moment to be.. and in all honesty most will have been having sex with each other up to The one point they have the group session...

Just curious.. what about if a woman has two loving partners and they live together and are trying.... Is that wrong too?

I love this as a fantasy... And don't judge those that take it further if they have planned it properly.. I disagree with tricking people to help....

Do I think using a site like this is right.. thinking not as most would have the wrong attitude.. like for all extreme things.. use proper sites.. btw I count breeding a separate fantasy as often that's something different.

Cali

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Mistakes happen, but to delibertly set out to impregnant another women for the sake of a fantasy is WRONG. This is a child we are talking about, not a toy!

How anyone can think this is right goes over my head, and I can't begin to comprehend how they can justify this.

Every child has a right to know who its parents are. Every child has the right to be brought up and in a loving enviroment.

I can understand those using other methods to conceive when they have exhausted other avenues, but for a fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jackandsophie and rugby are completely right in my eyes. i have previously stated my view on this. moreover, looking at everyones arguments for and against, i'm afraid the arguments for are still very flawed! there is only one valid reason for creating a child without using your partner's sperm, and that is if his lil soldiers didn't work. but there are special clinics to provide help. this is still a sick fantasy that the OP and all who support it, should be ashamed of! it amazes me at the lack of competence people show for a child's well being. "

+1

The whole subject is extremely distasteful in our eyes

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"To Jem as on my phone and it doesn't want to quote.

I've actually never once in all my time seen anything about it being to do with peado related... Maybe because the sites I frequent are more to do less with the fantasy and more the reality...

People do have babies for so many reasons... As you said... To keep a relationship.. yes people shouldn't but they do... For all the reasons... Some have them because they didn't take care of contraception...

I do accept that for some it is a fantasy.. But when you talk to people that have done it you realise the driving force was desire for a baby...

As a fantasy its an amazing one to thing of to some... Multiple men over your fertile time... Increasing the odds to actually get pregnant because competing sperm does do that... And for many that's all they do.... Pretend... No baby ever brought into it... And no harm done so to speak..

I will not defend it anymore as I have my views that I can be a beautiful thing.. but like with other forbidden topics on here I know some will enjoy and others won't...

And as for ss... They are only interested in how supportive a family is... Plenty of women out there with not a clue who fathered their baby... Remember seeing one on Jeremy Kyle.. she brought two men on and neither were the dad....

I am sure if the original poster looks around he will find profiles that are looking for that...

And in response to something else.. no I don't say what I do to shock... I have my views and they are no less valid than those who are disgusted.. I'm sure my own personal fantasies would make you go omg too but they hurt no one and are enjoyed... Just because something isn't your cup of tea.. if it breaks no laws then where is the harm... (Talking about leaving it in fantasy land)

Cali "

It may be that i am talking story sites, rather than real sites...so accept your poin.

Where we are in complete agreement is that fantasy is not harmful, in fact there is good evidence that repression leads to more harm.

Judging ppl because of their fantasies would make swingers out to be perverts to most of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP asks if he is the only person to have this FANTASY.

He doesn't ask for views on whether it sits comfortably with your morals or not.

He isn't saying he wishes to make this FANTASY reality. He is simply fantasising about a scenario which most of us do. I don't believe that each and every fantasy each of us has would be socially acceptable if made reality but isn't that the point of fantasies? You can be who you want to be, in whatever situation you want to be.

My experience has been that the "impregnating" "breeding" "mating" scenario is quite a common turn on.

Works for me. That doesn't mean I will be getting pregnant by anyone but I sure as hell can get turned on and have an awesome time role playing out the fantasy.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As always , threads go onto different things...this one went on to people doing it for real..so why the subject half changed.

Fantasies are fantasies, roleplay is roleplay.... turning roleplay/ fantasy like this into reality is a different subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter how horny or sexy your fantasy is some killjoy always ruins the thread by preaching their prudish ways, why there on here god only knows, if you don't agree with what's said walk away and let others enjoy the thread instead of ruining it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter how horny or sexy your fantasy is some killjoy always ruins the thread by preaching their prudish ways, why there on here god only knows, if you don't agree with what's said walk away and let others enjoy the thread instead of ruining it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry mate, but i have worked within the SEN facet of education for many years and completely disagree with this fantasy. chldren need the love and care of parents in order to develop to their full potential, not to be born into this world by some sexual fantasy! you are talking about a child for christ sake. i'm sure peodophiles assure themselves that their fantasies are fine too. you are blurring the lines of moral correctness. for those that have agreed or thought that this was ok, then you need to take a look in the mirror. i don't care who slates me for this opinion, but then again, your opinion doesn't hold much weight if you have considered a child's life to be that of a fantasy! SICK! "

ok again its assumed on here that a fantasy is something sick do u holier than hoiler's forget u r on a feckin swinging site and that lots of society think u r depraved sex addicts so what makes u judge others i am embrassed by people sometimes and no i would like his fantasy to happen to me just in case anyones wondering but i do hate prejudice

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Doesn't matter how horny or sexy your fantasy is some killjoy always ruins the thread by preaching their prudish ways, why there on here god only knows, if you don't agree with what's said walk away and let others enjoy the thread instead of ruining it"

The thread went the way lots do, off onto something else altogether.

But yes, maybe once it got to discussing making babies for real that poster might have been better to start it on another thread ..... (although there is no requirement to do this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jackandsophie and rugby are completely right in my eyes. i have previously stated my view on this. moreover, looking at everyones arguments for and against, i'm afraid the arguments for are still very flawed! there is only one valid reason for creating a child without using your partner's sperm, and that is if his lil soldiers didn't work. but there are special clinics to provide help. this is still a sick fantasy that the OP and all who support it, should be ashamed of! it amazes me at the lack of competence people show for a child's well being. "

i am as a women completely turn off by the thought of threesomes and more with guys i actually find the idea of another man touching me phyiscally sickening but i would never assume other women feel the same i think that u show a lack of respect to people's views and quite frankly many who preach on this subject i wonder do they in fact know sod all about bringing up kids as kids need love yes we all know that but who gives that love is not important to a child a child loves because unless taught otherwise they believe in adults which is why even if a child is abused its hard for them to leave there abuser i wish on this site people would learn if they can't say nice things maybe a no comment would be a good idea i am sure people know the views that will be brought up by this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guy very often comes into chat asking if he can impregnate someone. I notice no-one has brought up the subject of bareback!! To me , wrong on all counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is far more common on here than these forums would have you believe..

As a fantasy its a great one.. a very common one.. and one that is if you ignore the bareback bit.. quite harmless

Its a very sexy thing to do

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think u are of ure rocker m8 to think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think u are of ure rocker m8 to think that"

personal digs are not permitted..

We all do things that make our sex lives what we want to make it.. I enjoy stuff that some dont like.. Many on here enjoy stuff I dont like or understand.. for instance, the people that spend the night with people other than there parnters.. seperate room full swaps.. all pretty normal to some.. yet I find it unthinkable..

For me if its not fully involving my other half then I dont want to know..

As a fantasy where is the harm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya would have a job she's snipped xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok....so throughout many views on this topic....it seems that the OP's question has been answered. NO, you aren't the only one to be thinking this lol

i wonder if on your next topic, you could choose something that will generate some heated arguments

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

One thing I dont think anyone has mentioned yet....

STI's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the people preaching that "it does not matter how the child is concieved, on;y how they are loved" as justification for creating a child for a thrill, It is NOT true that children are ok not knowing their real parents as long as they are loved. if that was the case- then why are so so many addopted people very emotionally scarred, despite having loving addoptive parents?

before someone quotes some google "evidence" at me, i KNOW this is the case.

why anyone would think it is acceptable to cause future hurt and upset to a child, just so they can live out some fantasy is beyond me, and i find it uttery wrong.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Who is thinking of the child in this for gods sake?! How on earth would you explain that they were conceived under these circumstances and daddy isn't their natural father. Yes you would be judged and rightly so. I think it's selfish and irresponsible. Looks like the future of Jeremy Kyle is secured by a bunch of ego manics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fantasy forum people..

Dont like it.. dont think about it

personally I like to think about this a lot.. its hot, dirty, sexy and primal...

But thats just my views..

cali

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think you will find people are still commenting on the reality subject that you brought up half way down the thread and not the fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fantasy is great,but in reality never,so pleased im sterilized

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

yes agree as a fantasy it so hot but could ever work in reality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone having a go at others for judging (I openly admit I have judged) and defending the OP with "it's just a fantasy" ought to take a look at this.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/78365

I made my mind up weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with calli, hot, dirty sex

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales


"sorry mate, but i have worked within the SEN facet of education for many years and completely disagree with this fantasy. chldren need the love and care of parents in order to develop to their full potential, not to be born into this world by some sexual fantasy! you are talking about a child for christ sake. i'm sure peodophiles assure themselves that their fantasies are fine too. you are blurring the lines of moral correctness. for those that have agreed or thought that this was ok, then you need to take a look in the mirror. i don't care who slates me for this opinion, but then again, your opinion doesn't hold much weight if you have considered a child's life to be that of a fantasy! SICK!

ok again its assumed on here that a fantasy is something sick do u holier than hoiler's forget u r on a feckin swinging site and that lots of society think u r depraved sex addicts so what makes u judge others i am embrassed by people sometimes and no i would like his fantasy to happen to me just in case anyones wondering but i do hate prejudice "

At last.. Someone with a valid point. Coudn't agree more, on all scores..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey i dont even fantasise about having my own kids never mind having another with some wally off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fast forward 20yrs. Jezza kyle headline...MY PARENTS ARE SWINGERS AND 100 MEN COULD BE MY REAL FATHER HELP!!!. Jesus people get a grip! Keep sex AWAY from family life!! Even when i hear oh my kids /family know we are swingers.,WHY!do you feel the need to tell them when youv took a dump too? Somethings should be private. Ffs! Auds.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

known as breeding iv heard about it on othersite not my thing but as long everybody involved happy and legal i dont jugde each to there own little bit weird for husband though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well what ever everyone wants to do is up to them,

only thing i think of that i dont like about the idea - is the kid should know who its real father is at one point in their life if it did happen,

and doing this could pretty much deny them that right as i doubt many stay in touch or know which guy it actually is

lol i cud imagine it going something like, so if your not my dad who is? well we got it narrowed to just a few guys its either big-dick-man or pussyeater1975, we have a cock pic if that helps find him? lol

but seriousily kink or not, if the kid finds out its going to be hard to explain and justify to them i reckon, u gotta think about them in the long run

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By *irty_newcastleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

As a couple who I have had a couple of "scares" in the past after swinging, it really isnt funny at all.. And certainly not a fantasy to act upon. Leave well alone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so true kids made through swinging never heard something so stupid very sad thats why are country is like it is mums without fathers being round makes me sick grrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok lets say that a cpl want a child and he cant provide the sperm cause he is shooting blanks so to speak

they come on here and offer bareback and say nothing to the men involved she gets pregnant and they have the child

now what is the difference between that and using a sperm donar in an ivf program

just a different view point and i have seen a cpl profile on here asking for men to get the fem pregnant so its an odd world but we all have opions

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