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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x

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By *igdick1959Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her "

Yea I have said how much it turns me on thinking about it etc etc I just get ?? .

She went out Friday and I said have fun be good or maybe don’t ! I asked if she got chatted up etc she said no and I’m nuts

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her "

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )"

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

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By *msm6463Couple
over a year ago

Ashby

I changed the mind of my wife simply but talking to her over many months and indeed a couple of years and listening.

She was a no and then overtime, a social meet and then it lead to something more

She now enjoys it lots although we follow her rules, no clubs and always a social meet first.

We don’t meet many couples and know the chances of us all four clicking is low.

So advice is keep talking, sometimes with some wife swapping porn on but try and not play the professional stuff

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I changed the mind of my wife simply but talking to her over many months and indeed a couple of years and listening.

She was a no and then overtime, a social meet and then it lead to something more

She now enjoys it lots although we follow her rules, no clubs and always a social meet first.

Yea I nearly cracked her once ! Agreed to go out together see what attention she got I’d sit and watch and it was all completely up to her what she did or didn’t do ! But we had a row about something completely different and she said she ain’t doing it !!!

We don’t meet many couples and know the chances of us all four clicking is low.

So advice is keep talking, sometimes with some wife swapping porn on but try and not play the professional stuff "

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????"

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x"

You know what we never have in 16 years ! Made our own vids but never watched porn !

Tbh I’m scared to ask ! Lol

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x

You know what we never have in 16 years ! Made our own vids but never watched porn !

Tbh I’m scared to ask ! Lol "

My ex knew films like basic instinct etc would turn me on but he never asked me to watch porn but I do like it so maybe you could try an 18 sex movie before trying to introduce her to porn

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x

You know what we never have in 16 years ! Made our own vids but never watched porn !

Tbh I’m scared to ask ! Lol

My ex knew films like basic instinct etc would turn me on but he never asked me to watch porn but I do like it so maybe you could try an 18 sex movie before trying to introduce her to porn "

Good shout just gotta find one ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my wife to try others too, when d*unk she likes the idea.

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"Love my wife to try others too, when d*unk she likes the idea."

Hmm even when d*unk she thinks I’m a weirdo lol

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x

You know what we never have in 16 years ! Made our own vids but never watched porn !

Tbh I’m scared to ask ! Lol

My ex knew films like basic instinct etc would turn me on but he never asked me to watch porn but I do like it so maybe you could try an 18 sex movie before trying to introduce her to porn

Good shout just gotta find one ! Lol"

Ha ha good luck!!

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"I tried with mine too but no chance she was a virgin when we met so i naturally thought she’d like to try another cock I just got a very severe bollocking when I asked her

Maybe she isn't sexually confident to try other things. I know my ex would be shocked to know I am on here as I didn't enjoy sex much with him (think that's because I didn't like him though!! )

My beautiful wife has defo list confidence after 3 kids obviously her body has changed shape and has a few stretch marks all of which I adore but when we met in our early 20’s she was what I guess women would call perfect loved a short skirt and loved the attention she won’t even ekwear a skirt now I always ask her to but she won’t, but I hope she enjoys sex together she says she does ????????????

Do you watch porn together as maybe that would be a start as it's not in person but you could see what turns her on? x

You know what we never have in 16 years ! Made our own vids but never watched porn !

Tbh I’m scared to ask ! Lol

My ex knew films like basic instinct etc would turn me on but he never asked me to watch porn but I do like it so maybe you could try an 18 sex movie before trying to introduce her to porn

Good shout just gotta find one ! Lol

Ha ha good luck!! "

Thank you I may need it ! X

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