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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else think Fab is being affected by married men on the site. Seriously think this is causing couples and fems to loose hope when they don’t show up.

I know there is fems and couples happy to meet married men however not everyone is honest about their status.

Thoughts? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well difficult one, I am honest about my status, and doing that seem to just use the site to read the forums mine is personal has partner due to health as been celibate 7 years, if people do not want to meet that is fine but what narks me is the people that say no but will in a club without asking or worrying! and is not the hotwife/ cuckhold scenario verging on similar attitudes??? I say let people live their lives if one does not like it then don't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's married men that's the problem. Rather people not being honest as to their situation would be the bigger barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then if it is a married woman, its desirable! then why not a married man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and open about this. There's a reason why I am on here despite being in a long term relationship. It, unsurprisingly, really hasn't helped me meet anyone but there's no way I could pretend to be single. I don't want to sound pious but I really think that this would be disrespectful to everyone else involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly making it a challenge to meet couples more so than it used to be due to men messing people about!

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By *ozy couple d lCouple
over a year ago

DROMORE

Or they turn up and they say their Mrs had to work late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married and open about this. There's a reason why I am on here despite being in a long term relationship. It, unsurprisingly, really hasn't helped me meet anyone but there's no way I could pretend to be single. I don't want to sound pious but I really think that this would be disrespectful to everyone else involved."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly making it a challenge to meet couples more so than it used to be due to men messing people about! "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a seperate section for married men/women seeking nsa partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similarly, should there be a fact and fiction section in Forum?

Personally I find fictional stories boring and complete wast of time reading them.

But that’s just my opinion, anyone else got thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married and open about this. There's a reason why I am on here despite being in a long term relationship. It, unsurprisingly, really hasn't helped me meet anyone but there's no way I could pretend to be single. I don't want to sound pious but I really think that this would be disrespectful to everyone else involved."

Any chance you could pm me please?

Cheers

MrD

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Anyone honest about playing behind their partners back are pointlessly shooting themselves in the foot in my view.

They're lying to their partners. Why on earth should they care about lying to randoms on the Internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said anything about lying to partners! if one wants to be technical then every swinger that is married and indulges with consent of partners or not is doing the same! Live and let live!

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By *uck role-playMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Anyone honest about playing behind their partners back are pointlessly shooting themselves in the foot in my view.

They're lying to their partners. Why on earth should they care about lying to randoms on the Internet? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and open with my wife. Due to our growing sexual incompatibility based on my acceptance of my preference for men, we entered into an agreement. The outcome is we both now have more satisfying sex lives, with other people but still value our non sexual relationship.

I don't think being open about my married status has helped me much but I do find a few quality single and married men enjoy fun with me.

So fab works for me as a married man.

It just amuses me the number of single men who throw a strop if I don't immediately invite them to my home.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Who said anything about lying to partners! if one wants to be technical then every swinger that is married and indulges with consent of partners or not is doing the same! Live and let live!"

Eh?

No one generally objects to people playing separately with the agreement of their partners(we both do that).

However, most "marrieds" on here are playing behind their partners backs. It's to those people I address my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand the trouble is labels

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By *oth_cook69Couple
over a year ago

WOKING

There are also single men that are not honest.

We are married and have been very honest with people about Mr Cook meeting alone, our choice for our reasons, we are very polite and respectful but find that being honest doesn’t help.

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By *oth_cook69Couple
over a year ago

WOKING


"Maybe there should be a seperate section for married men/women seeking nsa partners? "

Great idea

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By *un times in stockingsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgewater

We have met married men in the past and had a great time we do like honesty though and we would not want the wife walking in but we personally think it's there buisness they got to live with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about honesty. It's in my profile, I always bring it up in convo too incase they havnt read it. And that's led to more than a few saying sorry not for us.

And it's led to nearly as many who don't care or like it more. There are just too many who hide it and then act like idiots when they get caught out. Puts females and couples off.

No one wants an outraged wife screaming and shouting at them for no reason they know of.

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By *un times in stockingsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgewater

Must admit there has bean some occasions were we have actually enjoyed it more had one bloke have pics of his wife next to the bed as he played

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