FabSwingers.com forum: Is my hubby gay

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will keep this breef ,Ive been with him for 18 years , he talked me into letting other men fuck me , this got to the point of him staying in and realy late at night would make me get a taxi in nothing but my coat and go and meet random strangers in tbere cars for sex , the taxi drivers must of known as it would often be tbe same on pick me back up again , my hubby has licked cum from my used pussy and i have watched him suck a cock , he doesnt have sex with me any more well hardly ever , he said he would rather i wank him and talk about guys and cum , and if i want sex to fuck other men , all he talks about is the time he sucked a cock and guys, he gets off so much more when i tell him hes gay while i wank him , could go on for ever with this so will end it there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s definitely bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may already have done but have you sat down and talked to him about if he is gay or just very bi ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Who knows?! Only he will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye when hes cum he says hes just so horny thats why he talks about it ,and Denied hes likes it when hes got off , but its all he talks about , and the time he suck a cock he made happen but tried to make it as if it was my idea ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a bi chap to join you and see if he takes cock with ease or he cant take it without lube.. unless you use toys on him... then forget this.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds to me like he does enjoy guys more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi, but leaning towards men more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will it change your relationship if he is ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's more bi than gay. I love cock but I also love pussy & tits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like what your relationship is then wh change it? I wouldn’t mind you being my wife haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The thing is he doesnt want to fuck me he just wants other guys inside me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong i am a slag im like a free whore , but i still want my man to want to fuck me

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

"The thing is he doesnt want to fuck me he just wants other guys inside me "

I think for me, the question is, is this what you want?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Posted too late! Sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he on fab?

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Leave him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont think hes on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he meet guys behind your back

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

It sounds like fantasy has taken over real life and it needs rebalancing. If he doesn't won't you anymore though I'm not quite sure what your future would be together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't label him... We all change throughout the day and throughout our lives.

His sexual preferences is fluid.

Who is it really that can't deal with the situation.. Him or your good self x

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

"Don't label him... We all change throughout the day and throughout our lives.

His sexual preferences is fluid.

Who is it really that can't deal with the situation.. Him or your good self x"

I agree, labelling isn't helpful.

I never fancied guys or cock at all, until I began dressing, waxing, wearing chastity etc...

However, when I'm in male mode i don't think of cock at all.

This may not help, but perhaps talking is the only answer.

Do you enjoy the slut role?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont mean to label, its just the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When did he become interested in it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A while "

Sounds like loves being a duck maybe see if wants that lifestyle. Sounds like that to me x

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Just talk with him and express your concerns about him not having sex with you. Don't judge him harshly for his desires, he wants you to enjoy yourself too, he's made that perfectly obvious. He's not gay, but he is bi.

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn

Try having a bi male lodger? Then you can both enjoy him, no taxi fares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you both need to sit down and talk get things out in the open you never know it could work out to be a new start that you both get to enjoy together

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By *vbikerMan
over a year ago

morpeth

He may be a bi cuck lots of men love there wives to get fkd by others so they can clean up after them.the hubby sometimes feels hes not good enough for his wife so he will let her have real men to keep her happy

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Think he could be bi just ask him to do a meet with you both and male and you what to watch them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily bi or gay.Of you weren't involved he probably wouldn't go near a cock

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Tbh this sounds like cuckolding to me, until you mentioned the gay part when getting him off. That could be perhaps a form of cucking too but I think you really need to have an open conversation with him..

Maybe write him a letter or email if you're not confident to do it face to face but If he's not having sex with you (and you sound like you'd really like that and a sexual relationship with your husband) then this isn't fair on you.

Prehaps start with is there a reason why he doesn't want to have sex with you, don't go straight in with are you gay but maybe work in to asking him is he interested in men.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Camper than a row of pink tents! Put on. Barbra Streisand record, if he knows the words he is gay, just the tunes and he is bi. If he keeps quiet he is clever

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By *an2man777Man
over a year ago

Llandudno / Colwyn bay

If you consider him your best friend then you'll let him be himself. Seems he really cares about you, you need to talk to each other.

There are many many married men who are bi-sexual in varying degrees... I should know, they're my clients.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily bi or gay.Of you weren't involved he probably wouldn't go near a cock

I agreed, maybe he is just curious and he also likes a lot the part when you are with other man... probably is just very taken by this situation and in his mind he prefer to let you excited so you will do the next mesting with another guy...

of course is a bit a "solo" though for him, try to speak with him to explain that you have to think together and you like keep fucking with him and that will not change your free meeting with a new Lucky guy..

Its important to not put label because of course he seems not to like that, but you can help him to explore the bisex side together

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