FabSwingers.com forum: Polyamorous .. multiple willing partners

By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are open to the possibilities of polyamory,

I am much older than Eve and tell her that, if she ever wants to take a younger lover, male or female, she can do so. She says, although she enjoys fucking guys in one off situations, she has no desire for another male in her life at this stage, especially as she does not trust most men.

She would like a female lover, but her social anxiety makes it difficult for her to look for, make and keep friends. I would love her to have a female friend even if I had no involvement, although it would be an added bonus if I was involved from time to time.

Eve would be perfectly happy for me to have a permanent male lover, but I have no desire for that as I am only into men sexually and not emotionally.

I like the idea of another woman in our lives but would not want that to be separate to what I have with Eve. I think she would feel too insecure for me to have a separate relationship with a woman and I don't see how I would have time for another relationship anyway.

However, we are open to possibilities. Maybe a regular bi couple would be ideal, but finding one where everyone is equally attracted would be difficult. Especially because of our age gap. She isn't attracted to many other men of my age, while women her age are generally into men younger than I!