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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do couples and some single lady’s think a single man who has winked rather than sent a full blown message is lazy and cannot be bothered? Do couples and single lady’s not realise that on this site they are spoiled for choice because of the amount of men there are in comparison to couples or single lady’s, Winking was meant to draw your attention to a particular profile, as a single male on the site for every message I send only one in in 20 actually get any kind of response even a no thankyou, there are couples on here and single females who complain about the amount of messages they get and cannot wade through them hundreds in fact, well all I can say and I’m sure lots of other men will agree that equally to sending winks that does draw your attention good messages to couples and females get ignored or some not even read only delited. They complain about how many they receive as if one man has the Cristal ball and can see that one profile is getting lots of attention so I won’t bother sending more all we know is we have sent one, the multiple message men send again and again in the hope of a reply because the message they sent originally ends up read but unanswered or ignored, in many cases a simple no thanks is enough to make a man look further but this doesn’t happen, I have experimented with this and a well thought out message with time taken in reference to there interests, well mannered, and also within the age group , complimentary, with facial picture only, not pushy, messages with well worded heading and unobtrusive but to the point also get ignored or not worthy of a reply, is it not part fault of the couple or single female for actually ignoring the massage in the first place? Yes I agree some men push there luck when they turned on and turned down from the odd messages they get a actual reply from, The” just another single male train of thought” needs to stop and the couple or single female need to realise that that single man has feelings also, let’s be fair about it if a man is horny and wants to play he has a lot less chance than a woman has of finding it on here, where a woman that’s equally as horny could find a man she finds attractive and with a few subtle refrances toward sex, and flirting get laid easily. I’m sure there are men who push the limits on here, threatening behaviour, insulting, won’t take no for an answer, and so on but couples and single females should play there part also, If a couple or single female i would like to meet lives a 5 or 10 minutes drive away and is looking for the same things as I’m offering but I have just spent hours writing good messages without responses of course I’m going to wink in stead simpley to draw the attention who then see I’m near to them. Any couples or females in the teeside/Durham/ 50 mile radius want to make friends ? |
