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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Divided opinions - I think it’s hot flirting with a cheating person who’s other half is unaware.

Any stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

done both options - and happy to tell all !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it depends if you get caught

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Done both"

Nice, what happened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"done both options - and happy to tell all ! "

Do tell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife cheated with a work colleague. I pretended i didnt know but i knew all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love chatting about it too

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

Cheated on gf with a women from same town her bf was a dea ler the areas biggest to be precise

We did it in a field in a car twice an id do her again

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Cheated on gf with a women from same town her bf was a dea ler the areas biggest to be precise

We did it in a field in a car twice an id do her again "

You must be very proud of yourself.

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

Well frustration set in big time it was thee on tap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, years ago, I was in a quite abusive relationship, strange situation for a bloke to find himself in.

I had a partner who t

At various times honestly believed that sex was, perverted, dirty, inhuman, base and many other things beside.

We had a sexless and quite horrible 10 year marriage, and after our wedding night never had sex again.

So, the op to have something else on the side was a massive release and while such illicit relationships lasted, a lift to my self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a girl on night out and we was seeing eachother for 2 years then i found out she was married for past 10 years... ..she so beautiful that i didnt want it to end.. so it didn't

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

We cheat on each other every time we go on a meet, so we’d rather do it this way than behind each other’s backs.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife cheated on me many times. I found out eventually. Strange thing I didnt.

Even stranger I am looking for a partner where we would be comfortable having other partners.

Mad world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to. "

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need

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By *illiam101000Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

I did with first marriage. A guy came into my life and started seeing him. The sex amazing all I'd been missing. We split up in the end and never knew.

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By *exhillboyMan
over a year ago

Vilamoura Portugal


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need"

Its amazing how married swinging couples look down their noses at single guys who cheat. Once in a sexless marriage with a mortgage and kids it is very difficult to ruin everyones life just because you are not able to get a satisfactory sex life so they muddle along wishing they had a hot wife who would play but try and maintain status quo while getting extramarital sex where they can, is that really so bad?

Men in swinging couples should consider themselves extremely lucky and not moralise against others who are not so fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need

Its amazing how married swinging couples look down their noses at single guys who cheat. Once in a sexless marriage with a mortgage and kids it is very difficult to ruin everyones life just because you are not able to get a satisfactory sex life so they muddle along wishing they had a hot wife who would play but try and maintain status quo while getting extramarital sex where they can, is that really so bad?

Men in swinging couples should consider themselves extremely lucky and not moralise against others who are not so fortunate."

Tough! You made yoir vows so stick to them. You weren't forced to get married and you're free to leave.

You can support and be there for your kids even if you don't live with them. So many dad's do exactly that. Stop acting special.

You have no idea how badly you're killing your wife on the inside. When she finds out (and she will because you can be as clever and sneaky as you like but us women have a knack of always finding things out....eventually).

Finding out the love of your life is cheating, hurts like nothing else. Id rather give birth then go through that pain again. You can move on but you never forget.

Since my kids dad left our kids and myself have been better off in so many ways. There's no stress and no misery for our kids to live around. Believe me, no matter how old your kids are, they can sense if they're in a happy home or not. Sometimes leaving the family unit is the best thing a parent can do for their kids.

The house can be sold and costs spilt. You both can either buy elsewhere or rent. Either way your wife, kids and even you will never be homeless.

Stop cheating or leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need

Its amazing how married swinging couples look down their noses at single guys who cheat. Once in a sexless marriage with a mortgage and kids it is very difficult to ruin everyones life just because you are not able to get a satisfactory sex life so they muddle along wishing they had a hot wife who would play but try and maintain status quo while getting extramarital sex where they can, is that really so bad?

Men in swinging couples should consider themselves extremely lucky and not moralise against others who are not so fortunate."

Its not luck finding a suitable relationship its hard work, dedication and a shed load of comunication and honesty that brings us where we are today with the level of openness that we have

The coolridge effect has always been a thing and most couples sexless or not could do with finding a way to overcome this whilst keeping a stable home.

I think it is bad yes cheating destroys families, marriages and can take half of a lifetime to get over if the marridge is sexless etc then see a counsellor as a couple to overcome this if not compatable then find someone that is

Either that or ill be watching you on catch up later on jeremy kyle

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By *rmr2018Man
over a year ago

youknow


"We cheat on each other every time we go on a meet, so we’d rather do it this way than behind each other’s backs. "

Very well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need

Its amazing how married swinging couples look down their noses at single guys who cheat. Once in a sexless marriage with a mortgage and kids it is very difficult to ruin everyones life just because you are not able to get a satisfactory sex life so they muddle along wishing they had a hot wife who would play but try and maintain status quo while getting extramarital sex where they can, is that really so bad?

Men in swinging couples should consider themselves extremely lucky and not moralise against others who are not so fortunate."

I wouldn’t ever consider a cheating man some on here are honest and say there married and I instantly tell them thanks but no thanks even if there gorgeous...Cheating is horrible it’s lying and deceitful.... how would u feel you think your happily married to find out your wife’s fucking people on a swingers site behind your back or people around your town and your oblivious?? If your in a ‘sexless’ marriage then you either leave or use your hand ... obviously this is just my opinion but I have seen what a cheating partner can do do a family...a friend of mine has recently found out her husband has been cheating and it’s tore her family apart and hurt the kids!! Cock or pussy really isn’t worth risk loosing your whole life for if your life means that much to you.... there’s toys and hands or even have a convo with your partner . us swinging couples are lucky that we have such an amazing thing in our lives where we don’t need to cheat we want to have sex with others and we both enjoy watching each other pleasure and be pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think swingers cheat that's the whole point of swinging you don't have to.

Exactly this. we only play together and never have any need to cheat.

In my opinion if the need to cheat is there in most situations the couple was never sexually suited in the first place do the right thing and move on and find someone that is compatable and spare the innocent partys feelings

I (him) have cheated many times in past relationships and have learned from my mistakes the hard way would never dream of cheating again theres just no need

Its amazing how married swinging couples look down their noses at single guys who cheat. Once in a sexless marriage with a mortgage and kids it is very difficult to ruin everyones life just because you are not able to get a satisfactory sex life so they muddle along wishing they had a hot wife who would play but try and maintain status quo while getting extramarital sex where they can, is that really so bad?

Men in swinging couples should consider themselves extremely lucky and not moralise against others who are not so fortunate.

Its not luck finding a suitable relationship its hard work, dedication and a shed load of comunication and honesty that brings us where we are today with the level of openness that we have

The coolridge effect has always been a thing and most couples sexless or not could do with finding a way to overcome this whilst keeping a stable home.

I think it is bad yes cheating destroys families, marriages and can take half of a lifetime to get over if the marridge is sexless etc then see a counsellor as a couple to overcome this if not compatable then find someone that is

Either that or ill be watching you on catch up later on jeremy kyle

"

Well said I dispice cheats .... never being cheated on but I’ve seen how it can’t turn someone’s world upside down

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the bitter and twisted woman made a fair point -

"Tough, you made your vows, now stick to them."

Especially the forsake all others.

I find a lot of "swingers" to be quite condescending about males that are married and on here behind their partners back. Technically,regardless of if their partners are involved or present, what they are doing is morally wrong in the eyes of a lot of people, (not in mine, i'm just trying to show a comparision) yet these people take the moral high ground and are quick to hand oit judgement to other people.

I noticed one post saying that they don't agree with it and wont meet anyone cheating. I respect that and their decision. I don't expect other people to compromise what they think is right, which is why i am open about my circumstances.

That is so people can make informed choices, not so people can come on and make their judgements of me.

By commenting on this post, i realise i am opening myself to comment, and opinion, and that is fine, as i have chosen to enter the debate.

However, finding my profile and messaging me to tell me what a bad person i am, with no previous contact is not on. As for relationship advise, no thank you.

I've had this discussion many times before on here.

One woman was highly indignant that she hadn't and wouldn't ever meet a cheater and couples thst did were basically the scum of the earth. She volunteered this information, without any prompting.

I went through her (quite vast) verification list and found three different 'single' guys (fabsingle) who had mentioned their wifes in other posts...

We are meant to be adults, this is a supposedly a site for people wanting to meet and have sex. I'm not here to have a stranger tell me how bad my life choices have been, and to listen to what they think i should do with my life. People in glass houses...

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Think the bitter and twisted woman made a fair point -

"Tough, you made your vows, now stick to them."

Especially the forsake all others.

I find a lot of "swingers" to be quite condescending about males that are married and on here behind their partners back. Technically,regardless of if their partners are involved or present, what they are doing is morally wrong in the eyes of a lot of people, (not in mine, i'm just trying to show a comparision) yet these people take the moral high ground and are quick to hand oit judgement to other people.

I noticed one post saying that they don't agree with it and wont meet anyone cheating. I respect that and their decision. I don't expect other people to compromise what they think is right, which is why i am open about my circumstances.

That is so people can make informed choices, not so people can come on and make their judgements of me.

By commenting on this post, i realise i am opening myself to comment, and opinion, and that is fine, as i have chosen to enter the debate.

However, finding my profile and messaging me to tell me what a bad person i am, with no previous contact is not on. As for relationship advise, no thank you.

I've had this discussion many times before on here.

One woman was highly indignant that she hadn't and wouldn't ever meet a cheater and couples thst did were basically the scum of the earth. She volunteered this information, without any prompting.

I went through her (quite vast) verification list and found three different 'single' guys (fabsingle) who had mentioned their wifes in other posts...

We are meant to be adults, this is a supposedly a site for people wanting to meet and have sex. I'm not here to have a stranger tell me how bad my life choices have been, and to listen to what they think i should do with my life. People in glass houses...

"

Shame there isn't an emoji for yawning!

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