FabSwingers.com forum: Sub / Dom Training

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Starting a bit of a training diary please add your experience based suggestions... Thanks

My wife always seems very busy to me. At work, at home in the house, in the garden. She likes everything in its place and to look and smell nice. I say this to emphasise her need to seem in control and and organised. This is in every area of her life except one. Her sex life! This has to be spontaneous. Me on the other hand, i am completely wired the opposite way round.

I have discovered, by chance, trial and error and discussion that she is not adverse to being sexually submissive. I on the other hand am not naturally dominant. But it's a role I can play and given our situation wish to do more of. Here's and example;

We know we're alone at home for the morning. I'm in my home office working and she wants to get the house cleaning done. I call her into my office. I'm barely out of bed and just wearing a dressing gown. I say "I would like a distraction from this boring work why don't you clean naked or in something more revealing?". About 10 mins later she comes back into the office naked. "Is that better she says!". Much now carry on I'm busy. I hear her cleaning the bathroom next to my office and go over to take a look. There she is still naked bent over the bath. Do this a couple of times thinking she must want sex by now!! But I realise her head is still focused on cleaning. So the third time I take a look I simple go up behind her and insert a finger straight into her wet pussy. And then insert another. She pauses her work to catch her breath and Murmurs and wriggles a bit. I extract my fingers and return to the office thinking that must have put her in the right mood for wanting my cock.

I'll write up what happened next... but that's a typical taster of our initiation dance. One where i would like to be a little more assertive using household cleaning as a sub/dom scenario.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cont' ... I called her into my office and she had helpfully Brough her toy with her. I told to sit in the corner and pleasure herself while I finish a piece of work. I could see her reflection in the computer screen.

Finished I swivelled round and opened my dressing gown and gave my growing cock a stroke ( maybe this is something I need to get her today ).

I then got her to masterbate in front of me in different positions while still on her hands and knees until I settled on one I like. Facing away from me arse I'm the air shoulders down. I place a mirror in front of her so she could maintain eye contact with me. She was still using the toy on her clit...