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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James

I've read a few posts over the years on this topic but recently read an interesting one by LoveCalypso on the Adult paying site, it was very good and insightful, and that got me thinking about my experiences in this area.

I've explored prostate play quite a lot over the years and this post will touch on my first experience. If it goes down well I will post about more similar experiences.

I was seeing a girl whilst in my teens and would often try it on with her- you know how us guys are, always trying to go for the bum, whether it be with the tongue or fingers as you eagerly devour her, or with the cock with those half- asleep nudges when spooning or the more direct attempt during the hot sessions.

On this one occasion she got a little tired with my attempts and said

'You can go there only if I can do it to you too'

My response was one of a laugh and a 'No way!'.

We ended up having a long chat about it and she brought up a good point which was that if I knew what it was like and what it entailed then I'd be more considerate when attempting it with women- I'd also be getting more enjoyment through the fact that the prostate can give a lot of pleasure. Win-win really!

I have to say she taught me a lot over the few months we were together!

The first time

My first fear was the mess it could make so she helped me douche, then I was worried about the possibility of pain- my threshold for pain is pretty low! And so we decided that the best thing to do was, as suggested in the educational clips we saw, to start small- with a finger. If I'm honest, at that time this was all I was willing to try even though I'd seen lots of clips of guys and girls using butt plugs and dildos/vibrators and she was eager to use one of her toys on me. I thought there was no way that anything of those sizes would fit- they could tear me a new one!

We prepared for it, I got relaxed, lay on my back on the bed and she got between my legs and started to slowly stroke my cock and play with my balls, I was getting aroused at the thought of what we were about to do (along with what she was doing!). She ran both of her hands over my cock and balls and down my thighs and rubbed the perinium as she sucked on me, slowly working towards to my ass and, when I was sufficiently turned on, she lubed the fingers of one hand and began pressing against the opening, slipping the tip of her finger in gently allowing me to feel myself grip on it.

Once I became accustomed to the feeling I became more confident and she lubed up again and pushed a little further, past the first knuckle and then the second, all the while using her other hand on my cock and balls and sucking and nibbling me.

It was a strange feeling but not unpleasant, she continued to slide it in and out, slowly picking up speed; I adjusted and relaxed my hips to make it a little easier-feeling her knuckle pass back and forth was a wonderful sensation in itself.

Once I was used to this she hooked her finger up towards my balls and WOW, she found the spot! A little giver-of-pleasure acorn-style lump. It was so sensitive I came almost straight away- a few gentle rubs with her hooked finger (as if she was beckoning with it) and I shot a massive load and a wave of pleasure passed through me, giving me butterflies in my stomach and making my legs shake uncontrollably as well as making my cock throb heavily in her hand as my pulse waved through me. It was a totally different sensation, and orgasm, to what I'd experienced before.

After that day I spent quite a bit of time exploring myself with my finger, trying different pressures and motions to increase or delay the orgasm and really understand what I liked.

Since those tentative explorations I've experimented with different toys and butt plugs, both alone and with partners- it's so much fun having a woman finger you or use a toy as she strokes and sucks your cock, damn, just the thought gives me shudders of bliss!

What are your thoughts on the topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to my first with Vicky. I like the strap on now after some relaxation play. And yes your ex was rite. It does make you more appreciative and understanding when giving now too.

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford

More please

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Similar to my first with Vicky. I like the strap on now after some relaxation play. And yes your ex was rite. It does make you more appreciative and understanding when giving now too. "

Thank you for your comments.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"More please "

More on the same topic? I've a few experiences.

Thank you for your comment btw

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James

Check out 'dinner date', 'd*unken fumblings with a backing singer','my first mfm'

All real life experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What best position to be in, if you want to try this on your own. I'm not very flexible. Lol. Pm any advice.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Interesting...always shied away from anal play.

My own experiences haven't been that great a bit wham bam thank you mam..not good.

I have been curious now even more so now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was lucky enuf to have a meet with a lady who during the meet started to play with my ass , she found my prostate and before long was a quivering wreck after a quite unbelievable orgasm wow , was first and only time , but I'm now interested in trying self play and wondered if any advice on locating and stimulating my prostate , what's best a toy ?

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

I'd appreciate any advice on the best toy for self prostate stimulation. If anybody has any ideas that work, please drop me a mail.

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

I'd appreciate any advice on the best toy for self prostate stimulation. If anybody has any ideas that work, please drop me a mail.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"What best position to be in, if you want to try this on your own. I'm not very flexible. Lol. Pm any advice."

On your back. Always use a toy with a flanged base too

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"I'd appreciate any advice on the best toy for self prostate stimulation. If anybody has any ideas that work, please drop me a mail. "

The aneros prostate massager. Check the lovehoney site. Some great toys there.

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By *ee_rascalWoman
over a year ago

O'er the Rainbow

Always been intrigued by this but only really d*unkenly tried it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I had someone stroke my prostate , I cum buckets and was a wreck afterwards . Butterflies in my stomach for ages and my legs wouldn't stop shaking for almost 10 minutes . I was a wreck , but loved it . Have had it done to me a couple of times since by men and women and always end up the same .

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By *jbucksCouple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Never tried this but I'm sure everyone's is different and located different places but where did you find it as tempted to see what this feeling is like

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Never tried this but I'm sure everyone's is different and located different places but where did you find it as tempted to see what this feeling is like "

The prostate?

It's sort of located in the space between the ball sack and anus (perennium?)

Inserting a finger past a couple of knuckles exploring that area you should find a small lump for want of a better word. Some are more sensitive than others but with the right pressure you should feel something.

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

A great description by the OP.

Crave that experience again. The look on the lady's face as the cum erupts without touching your cock is so erotic too.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"A great description by the OP.

Crave that experience again. The look on the lady's face as the cum erupts without touching your cock is so erotic too. "

Thank you!

Ah, you're right, it's so erotic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cummin without touching my cock

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By *icklowhornMan
over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

I have been experimenting with prostate play for a while now & oh my god i highly recommend it for all lads to try out. Don't worry it's "not going to make you gay" if that's what you're afraid of lol. It's the strongest & longest orgasm & produces the most amount of cum I've ever experienced. Recently herself has joined in the fun exploring with me & it really turned her on too. Here's a link to a great prostate massager that gets me cumming uncontrollably every time, enjoy !

https://www.lovehoney.eu/product.cfm?p=14762

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"I have been experimenting with prostate play for a while now & oh my god i highly recommend it for all lads to try out. Don't worry it's "not going to make you gay" if that's what you're afraid of lol. It's the strongest & longest orgasm & produces the most amount of cum I've ever experienced. Recently herself has joined in the fun exploring with me & it really turned her on too. Here's a link to a great prostate massager that gets me cumming uncontrollably every time, enjoy !

https://www.lovehoney.eu/product.cfm?p=14762"

That's a great toy

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Always been intrigued by this but only really d*unkenly tried it tbh"

Oo, give it another try, it's so much fun!

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford

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By *OcuriousOXMan
over a year ago

york

Thanks for this post. I'm curious, any tips on how to douche correctly and are there any shower attachments etc available and recommended?

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By *OcuriousOXMan
over a year ago

york

I can't find this item, have typed it in and it directs me to the uk site. Tried typing in the UK site and filling in rest of link and can't find it. What is the product called pls.

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