FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please, first time seeing your Gf taking another mans cock.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking for advice - we want to try a threesome, my GF is shy, but we want to try another guy fucking her.

Just looking for advice especially around feelings and possible jealousy.

Cheers,

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By *urseitCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Jealousy can stem down to insecurity. You need a good strong relationship to do this or it won't work and set rules. For the shyness, could try blindfold and introduce the guy that way then, it should progress naturally.Hope that helps

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Agree with above. Maybe try a club and see how you both feel - don't feel you must play, just see how you feel and go with your feelings - we've all been there

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Agree with everything above. We'd recommend having a social first to see if you all get along and obviously your partner needs to find the guy attractive. If you decide to meet for fun set the limits your both comfortable with. Some women won't kiss another guy but will have sex with them, personally I find that a turn on. The nerves are normal but if your jealous just thinking about this maybe it's best staying a fantasy. Cheers R

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By *lasgownewbies6266Man
over a year ago

glasgow

You need to be sure that your ok with it she needs to understand that it's what you want for the shyness try meeting socially first

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By *wofortheladiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Just be really sure that you both want this to happen. Remenber that you can't undo seeing your partner being satisfied by a other guy.

If you are sure then you will both have some great times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with everyone jealously has no place, it will lead to insecurities that don't go together well.

Try and club and chat to people about there experiences, once she starts if you hate it it's a bit late. Be careful x

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Take the time to read the ethical slut or something similar, great resources out there for opening up your relationship to playing with others.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

If you go ahead with this make sure the guy you pick is fully aware that you may need to stop,as soon as the feeling of jealousy kicks in,if he's a genuine guy he will understand and stop immediately

But you need to be absolutely sure it's something you BOTH want ,and remember the fantasy tends to be nothing like real life . Most fantasies mimic porn movie scenarios real life won't be remotely like the films

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Looking for advice - we want to try a threesome, my GF is shy, but we want to try another guy fucking her.

Just looking for advice especially around feelings and possible jealousy.

Cheers,"
op.as long as it is you both that want it .try it.if not for you both .dont do it again .we have an unbreakable bond that allows us to try whatever[same as a lot of gen swingers on here]some things we dont do twice some we do many times .its just a game of sex .

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