FabSwingers.com forum: sharing my missus for the first time! Help.

By *neOfTheBadGuys OP Man
over a year ago

Morley

me and my girl been together and while now and i recently told her id like to watch her get fucked she confessed shed enjoy it and since we have spoke bout it while having sex and have better sex to an extent however good sex was never an issue, im nervous as to how to bring it bout happening how i may feel afterwords, jus curious any help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in exactly same situation with my Mrs too!

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By *neOfTheBadGuys OP Man
over a year ago

Morley

"I'm in exactly same situation with my Mrs too!"

is a difficult one, one hand id like to suprise her but how she would react is questionable. And other god knows lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me it will blow your bollocks off ....well almost. Happened many times. Best sex ever

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By *omkingbillyCouple
over a year ago

welingborough

Best thing we have ever done

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

You'd be better making a couples profile with pics

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By *eloveoutdoorsCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

pick someone you feel ok with and go for drinks first if everything feels good encourage her.join in if you fancy.either it happens naturaly or it wont happen at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit back and enjoy her ride mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of ways to achieve, but in our opinion, do a social with a guy, then invite him over another nite for drinks and maybe more.

Just see how it goes.

If you want to raise it again with her and thats the challenge.... When feeling fruity again, but not yet acted on it, tell her it got you really going when you discussed it before. Start looking at fab for possible candidates and make sure theres no pressure. Take her to bed anyway, and make sure she knows you want it and try to describe what you think it would be like for her. After that, find candidate together. Take it slow. When it happens, it hopefully will be as awesome for you both as it always is for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps. The best bit, is the session you two have privately afterwards. I call it owning her again. and ive seen others use the same phrase. Its pretty awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"me and my girl been together and while now and i recently told her id like to watch her get fucked she confessed shed enjoy it and since we have spoke bout it while having sex and have better sex to an extent however good sex was never an issue, im nervous as to how to bring it bout happening how i may feel afterwords, jus curious any help?"

Been BOTH sides of the equation. Watching my partner enjoying and being enjoyed by another guy was awesome. Gut wrenching nd confusion to begin with. But got more and more horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our point of view, the first was the most nerve wracking as you just don't know how your going to react.

We have a 'safe word' so if it doesn't feel right, or either of us want to stop what's happening straight away if gets used.

We've never had to use it, and we both love seeing each other with other people.

It has made what we already had better, and I didn't think that would be possible.

Go with it, you'll never know otherwise.

MrsB x

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