FabSwingers.com forum: Me vs Christian Grey!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a totally different fantasy scenario when I hear the words "Sub and Dom". I don't get 50 Shades one bit.

I don't like the pain/violence that is associated with it. I also don't like the way main characters seem to appear to have questionable mental health problems. Christian in particular.

My version of sub and dom, is simply a way of testing someone's limits in a safe controlled environment with someone I trust will find the experience a huge turn on, feel 100% safe and not degrading in anyway.

I don't want to control her outside of the bedroom in any way, I love my free women with attitude.

But to get one of them up on all fours, dressed to the nines, watching porn on her phone as I let myself in, because I told her that's what I want.. Waiting for me to have my way with her, worship her body and soak it in. Pushing her to her own set limits. And recognizing when she's very close. Seeing how far she'll push herself for herself and for me is a massive turn on.. It's 90%mental and boils me up like The Hulk when I can get that level of trust and honesty. Just sexual.. Try to let go of the strings where possible.

But Daaaaaaammmmnnn isn't that the best sex I've ever had. I guess I'm not a complete Dom or a Hardcore Dom.. I'm not Christian Grey, I'm me, I'm an Hgv driver, I don't own a dungeon, but I don't need one. I don't need tools to beat with, restraints to hold you... It's just me, who you trust enough and are turned on enough by.. To let me do whatever I like.

What a compliment to be given.