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No luck with my Mrs trying a threesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trying to persuade my Mrs to try a threesome but no luck. Shall I still persue it or just forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never give up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am trying lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A MFF or a MMF?

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Would that be a mmf or a ffm 3some? Either way BOTH must happy in any given situation and that must be respected and accepted. No pressure to change their mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked what get fantasy is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A MFM"

There must be one of your mates or a colleague she fancies? Take her out on the lash with said guy and it might happen naturally. Did for me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

MFM. Not going to force her to do it just trying to ease her into giving it a go. I have expressed my fantasies as well but no luck really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got her d*unk once and tried to persuade her then but she was still not having it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got her d*unk once and tried to persuade her then but she was still not having it."

You can't 'persuade' her. She has to realise she wants it herself. That scenario worked for me anyway. Two hot guys taking me out for drinks and lavishing attention on me all night made me want to continue the night, albeit innocently at first, back home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What if she is adament and never wants it or do all woman secretly want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you take her to a club? It worked for me..

If she can meet people in a social environment if can really help and take it slowly, no expectations..

Good luck S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That would be a good idea to see if she likes that kind of environment. Thank you.

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By *lasgownewbies6266Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Know how you feel same situation myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if she is adament and never wants it or do all woman secretly want it?"

I can't speak for all women.

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By *oungmarriedcplCouple
over a year ago

chesire

Women ain't computers you know, they all act different, do different things, want different things

Talking is the best thing available just be totally honest with her tell her exactly what you want and ask her exactly what she wants remember there are two of you not just one, then when everything is aired and out in the open leave here be, the more you push the subject the more she won't want it,

I hope you get what you want as it's an awesome feeling good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if she is adament and never wants it or do all woman secretly want it?"

Not all women "secretly" want it tbh I expect more women are very happy with 1 guy for most of their life.

And if she is set in her ways then you have to let it drop because there is nothing worse than one half of a couple doing something behind their partners back and getting found out with a paper trail.

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

No not every woman wants a threesome and you'll have to accept it however frustrating BUT! As long as you don't force the issue I'd try to be more erotic in your attempt ie when your taking her from behind try to slip a finger in her mouth and tell her how great it feels and if she likes ito to or ask if she'd like both nipples sucked at the same time. Basically be cool about and you never know it may come back with a more positive result. Good luck. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good work fellah!

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By *igyingazMan
over a year ago

workington

In the same situation myself. Been a few conversations about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love her with the strength, passion, tenderness and consideration of two men......

Then you will both have your threesome.... Simple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want her to do it because of the guilt that you've had one before ?

Does she know that your even on the site

Maybe showing her you are

And that you've done it before will change her mind and feel like she wants to even things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want her to do it because of the guilt that you've had one before ?

Does she know that your even on the site

Maybe showing her you are

And that you've done it before will change her mind and feel like she wants to even things up"

yeah think on that scenario ..... you finally get your wife to agree to a 3some and she buggers off with another guy after finding out you've done the dirty on her before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if she is adament and never wants it or do all woman secretly want it?"

Nope we all dont want it!!

No means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I was in this situation. I told my wife that I had a mate at work whom shared his wife. His wife apparently really enjoyed it - and I asked my my wife if she thought we could be missing out on something. Initially she she was not interested, so that was that. A few months later we were on holiday in Thailand and I suggested we took a girl from the bar to join us for a threesome, and she said no. She also said "How would you feel if I wanted to take another man into our bed ?".... My response was "well actually I am happy to try it and see if it works for us".. A few more months on she said it might be interesting. That was the start of it for us. Nowadays she is more into it than me !

Good luck with it and I hope it works out for both of you. For sure to start with it is scary, so reassure your wife it the idea is to have fun for both of you. We think the more you do it the more fun it is !

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By *oredbusinessmanMan
over a year ago

Downham Market


"Love her with the strength, passion, tenderness and consideration of two men......

Then you will both have your threesome.... Simple!!"

Our hero!!! Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What if she is adament and never wants it or do all woman secretly want it?"

No they don't.

If your partner doesn't want to do it please leave it.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

this is why so many guys go solo to clubs .because the other half does not want to play.we are both willing swingers in all our play.we know what is defo no for us .have a safe word .but you must both want to do it .so op take your time as it is a step for your female to give her body to male or female .

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The ladies always have the final say, If she says No then I'm afraid No it will be.. . . the worst thing you can do is pressurise her,

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