FabSwingers.com forum: How to Dom my perfect busy house wife?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not naturally dom yet I have a fun challenge to rise to? Your help would be appreciated. My wife is the perfect organised slightly ocd housewife and mum and works part time. Keeps herself in shape down the gym.

She's not a woman who masturbates or fantasies. I'm training on that one slowly. Weve only been married a few years both mid late forties.

So other day got her into a pre orgasm horny state and told her to fantasise let herself go while I make her cum. After I ask what she had fantasised about, to which she confessed to being 'taken' forced fucked. I explored it further but she had not context to shape hee fantasy. After more quizzing she said I can just take her unexpectedly against her initial rebuff so the more I persisted the more aroused and will and excited she became.

So.. here I am. Contemplating the the when where how.. of a situation I've never been in before.....

Anyone got any experience or suggestions to share?

And when it does happen I promise to share it here...

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Google is your friend...

Or set it up one weekend. Give her a couple glasses of wine with her dinner to relax her, Flirt with her but keep it light, wait until she is in the kitchen doing something, walk up behind her, take her wrists in one of your hands and pin tgem against a cupboard. Talk to her about her fantasy constantly remind her of how hot she thought it would be, visualise it for her while you undress her with your other hand, grope her, feel her, masturbate her and fuck her.

Talk about it afterwards and maybe next time involve restraint, blindfolds, sensation play... loads of stuff you can do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm very nice... I'll take some of those ideas and put something together. I like the reassurance thing, blind fold and restraint she already likes.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Now that sounds very horny keep going

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Hmm very nice... I'll take some of those ideas and put something together. I like the reassurance thing, blind fold and restraint she already likes. "

Oh ok so not totally new to the whole thing then just doesn't know how to verbalise what she wants?

The mind is the thing you have to conquer get that and you'll have her dripping. Test it, hold her wrists and kiss her hard one day 'does that make you feel like a slut?' Is this the type of thing you want from your man? Spin her round, swat on the bum and walk away laughing.

Walk up behind her whisper 'one day I'm going to fuck you so hard you'll not know what's hit you'

Tease her with a wand until she can't stop Cumming.

There's load you can do, build her up and tease her, then take her how she dreams of.

Talk to her but not all in one go...

Break it up into pieces then put it back together in your mind and in-act it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Restrained snog... perfect idea. In fact she loves physical contact that leads into a sense of being controlled. Thanks

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Restrained snog... perfect idea. In fact she loves physical contact that leads into a sense of being controlled. Thanks"

It's the tease and the build up she'll love. We'll it will make her crave more anyway lol. You want her excited when she seems you so she doesn't know what's coming next...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I pinned her up against the kitchen wall after we had clean up after dinner and the kids had gone to bed. I kissed her full and opened her dressing gown and exposed a breast. I squeezed her breast while I continued to snog her, breaking off to whisper some things in her ear.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell us more please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I let her go, slowly lowered myself down and took her pj's with me so they were help up across her thighs exposing her recent my waxed smooth mound and straight line of her closed pussy. I kissed firmly everywhere stopping to force my tongue along her slit until I found her bud area and pressed my face in and licked til I got a whimper and a slight unsteadiness in her legs. I then slipped my moist finger in which again got the desired effect. Feelings she hadn't had while I was away on business for 2 days started to flood out.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

My only tip is to agree a safe word, you can be sure then that you're not pushing things too far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Andy,

... I stood up with my finger now buried in her wettening pussy, palm over her mound pressing. My other hand, round her neck, coaxing her mouth onto mine. I could sense her orgasm building. So I went slower to see her eye's quiz me and ask for more. Her knees were buckling slightly, which shows me she was trying to squeeze her thighs together to help her orgasm along.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I continued using my finger and palm to bring her to a knee quaking shuddering orgasm with her holding on to me, standing up against the kitchen with her pj's round her thighs and a tit sticking out over her vest top. What a sight ... I love that moment. Then I had an idea, yes my cock was throbbing in my jeans but that could wait. I led her outside on to patio at the back of our house, pulled her pj's off told her too look at me. I mouthed " spread your legs", she knew what was coming and eagerly wanted it pussy waiting in anticipation for my clever two fingers. In they went and I touched and pressed in just the right places and she gushed and gushed all over my hand, down her legs and all over the patio. both arms round my neck for balance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So ... I just wanted to thank you for your suggestions. I'll see what I can come up with tonight. In my dom training. I'm meeting her after work for a drink. might walk to the pub might drive. Either way the forest is very tempting.

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