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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh, adding the part about being recently widowed would have me running for the hills. People on here are after a shag, not a relationship. Most will avoid someone with emotional baggage. (Sorry for being brutal)
Second, your profile is all they know about you, so that is what they will judge you on before deciding to meet. So it's a good idea to be mostly honest on it, if they think you are lying on it, that would be a massive red flag. e.g. stating straight, but being verified by two tvs. (Not criticising choices, just maybe hide your verifications if that is your choice, a lot of single women wont meet bi guys)
Maybe 100 pics on your profile may put people off in the same way that seeing any person that constantly is checking themselves out in the mirror is a bit of a turn off, not to mention possibly looking like you are trying too hard.
Boxing thing will probably put off quite a lot of single women. They all love a bad boy i'm sure, but boxing has connotations that karate or judo etc doesn't.
The badboy stare down pictures does look intense, great in a boxing ring, not so good when reassuring a lady she will have a fun time, with a fit guy.
Not having a go at your profile, just passing on what would put me off.
If i was you, maximum of 10-15 photos, smiling, relaxed photos, show off your torso/figure/(cock if you must) mention that you are sporty, and like to look after yourself (don't mention boxing) keep it brief.
I'm not trying to be down on you, and i hope you haven't taken anything i have said personally, and my opinion is just my opinion,it doesn't mean i am right. |
