FabSwingers.com forum: Willing to have anal but scared

By *yla400 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi I am a bi guy/ cross dresser not very convincing shall I say.

I've always wanted to try anal and see how it feels but I'm really scared of the pain. I like older men and women but it's hard to find any on here who can complete my sex fantasy

Any help pls

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By *haron4465TV/TS
over a year ago

HULL

Douche plenty of lube and foreplay relax and enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find someone experienced who is willing to take their time and not just ram it in. It will feel stage at first but you'll love it as long as you find the right person for your first time.

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By *emo2TV/TS
over a year ago

carrickfergus

Lots of lube and just take it slow it will still be sore but it won't last long if you are nice and relaxed.

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By *iderryMan
over a year ago

Derry

Same as everyone else says take it slow and ease into it and don't pick a monster bull top for first time mayb a Vers guy who nos what it's like

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By *yla400 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Everyone who I meet just loves to ram the hole like its some kind of gutter pipe.

Is any one on here willing to participate ???

Thanks for all the responses yet.

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By *iderryMan
over a year ago

Derry

If u were closer I'd b happy to oblige lol x

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By *uzzbMan
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

as everyone says, use plenty of lube, and loosen things a bit before he starts - ask him to finger fuck you gently first. Also, put lube on his hopefully condom clad cock - sometimes it hurts a little,so just ask him to stop pushing - the pain soon goes, then you are into the most wonderful experience. If your lover is good, he'll vary his thrusting and the pleasure will be enormous - try squeezing on him a little too - he will enjoy that.

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By *istresskaty1981TV/TS
over a year ago

brigg

I'm in the same boat as you babe! Sooo wanna try it but struggling to find a patient guy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the same boat as you babe! Sooo wanna try it but struggling to find a patient guy xx"

So why don't you two get together then

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By *istresskaty1981TV/TS
over a year ago

brigg

Birmingham is too far away unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be someone who will prepare you well with your fingers spread out your ass, then moisturize it well and slowly you will be entered .. I have this problem with my ass is very tight all the time. but I love to be in his fuckin '

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By *yla400 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm in the same boat as you babe! Sooo wanna try it but struggling to find a patient guy xx

So why don't you two get together then "

A woman's touch is far better lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you get used to it you'll love it

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By *onia1969Woman
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Lots of lube, foreplay and take it slow

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

"Once you get used to it you'll love it

Can't disagree with that, i love it and don't get anywhere near enough of it

But first time round it's definitely scary and as people say just find someone who's understanding, take it slow and my other tip would be you go on top. That way you can manage the pace until you're happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube etc as others have said, also invest in a good toy to play with beforehand to loosen things up at your own pace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to help you out with this I would let you take charge and make it a pleasant experience for you xx

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