FabSwingers.com forum: Getting the wife involved!!

By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

I am very interested in the swinger lifestyle. I have discussed this with my wife only in the Bedroom. There is nothing that gets her more aroused than the thought of meeting another couple or gentleman. These scenarios vary from on Holiday to a City a bar or a club. We have a wonderful night resulting in some heavy duty flirting, sensual dancing and downright near the knuckle heavy petting with the other couple. We all head back one or others house or Hotel room for a full on night of passion.

Is this just fantasy or could she be interested?

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By *tew wendyCouple
over a year ago

selby

You need to be careful how you ask her. I would ask her if it was something she was interested in making happen and just see how she responds. But always talk and reassure her all the time. Make it so she's in charge of the situation if it comes up

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By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

Thanks. She says she would love it at the time but it never gets discussed again outside the bedroom. I suspect given the right circumstances and a few vinous she would go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there I am in the process of making my wife become a hot wifey. ...it depends how settled she will be to the idea I have been chatting to my wife as we fuck and she can't get enough of it..... then out of the blue while travelling to a restaurant I made a detour into a quite lay by and started to kiss and finger fucked her till she squirted. ..she has never been so wet I wanted to test her reaction and it worked. .... outside the bedroom there was nothing then I had a good chat with her right out in the open and she seems keener so give that a blast and see if it works good luck fella

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By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

Thanks,

I think if I took her to a bar and we got chatting to a nice couple. If the night just developed and we all had a drink. if the flow went well she would love it.

It is just setting up that first initial evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks,

I think if I took her to a bar and we got chatting to a nice couple. If the night just developed and we all had a drink. if the flow went well she would love it.

It is just setting up that first initial evening"
I ( Parker) opened us a couple profile on here. Then sent her the link and passwords etc. All for the sake of honesty n openness. It worked for us

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

I've been trying for years, mainly in the bedroom, sometimes she seems up for it and we have great sex talking about it, mainly about seeing her with another guy, she likes the idea of it when we're in a sexual situation, and admits she would like to watch a guy wanking and touch him, but in the cold light of day she won't even talk about.

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By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

Very same here.

I truly believe with the right circumstances she would go for it. Might need a couple of vinous but I am sure in the right environment. Not an out and out swingers club. I think that might be too heavy. A "chance"!!!!!!!

meeting in a bar or lounge that developed into a good evening. If it all went well and she was relaxed I know she would play.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"I am very interested in the swinger lifestyle. I have discussed this with my wife only in the Bedroom. There is nothing that gets her more aroused than the thought of meeting another couple or gentleman. These scenarios vary from on Holiday to a City a bar or a club. We have a wonderful night resulting in some heavy duty flirting, sensual dancing and downright near the knuckle heavy petting with the other couple. We all head back one or others house or Hotel room for a full on night of passion.

Is this just fantasy or could she be interested?"

You could always show her your profile and that you've met two women from this site behind her back and gauge her reaction!

I'd probably hide your best suits and the scissors though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always show her your profile and that you've met two women from this site behind her back and gauge her reaction!

I'd probably hide your best suits and the scissors though

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Lmfao

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By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

I think you might have touched on something there!!!!

I can see your point really. Do you think coming from a woman's perspective it would help if I explained I was very good and behaved myself?

No didn't think so. I hate it when women are right!!!!!

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

"Very same here.

meeting in a bar or lounge that developed into a good evening. If it all went well and she was relaxed I know she would play."

Exactly - I'm of the same thoughts with mine. She's game, but it's all got to fall right.

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By *s12345thee OP Man
over a year ago

Motherwell

Pity there wasn't a bar somewhere where you could have a great night. With the added bonus that you new there were couples there who were sympathetic to the idea of swinging should the opportunity arise!!!!!!

Thoughts Please

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young started reading girly magazines in bed the stories turned us both on plenty of pillow talk told Paul not to push me i would when it felt right

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