FabSwingers.com forum: Want to be Naughty and

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.... before i go into it let me explain. My boyfriend and I got back together a few months after i joined this site alone.

He introduced me to it a few yrs back and we were good until we met a couple from here in person. Nothing happened between us (2 couples) but it scared him off of the site, that i know of. ...

So here is the problem...

I have this fantasy of him catching me watching porn, playing with a toy basically me being naughty, alone and or on cam. I dont know how to tell him without it turning into a big issue....

Any suggestions? ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont tell him just get ready naughty indies dildo in hand ? when door opens start masturbating

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Derby

You need to get to the reason it scared him off.

Nerves, security in your relationship or the though of seeing you with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need to get to the reason it scared him off.

Nerves, security in your relationship or the though of seeing you with another guy."

he swears it was not i securities..... he said that they were more interested in me then us. And he said that after i said i was not attracted to him (which i wasnt) my flirting said otherwise. ......so i told him flirting is different then attaction..... i am flirty in nature....

it was dropped never to be talked about again.

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By *onyt3030Man
over a year ago

putney

you need to find some guys who want you both involved in the role-play I think so he knows he won't be left out....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Bring it up in the bedroom mid sex session tell him how u like to see him fucking another woman, how u want to watch him wanking as u stare in to his eyes with a guy fucking u doggy. Put swing in to roll play explain its the fantasys u want to live out with him reassure him

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

From what youve said, sounds like jealously and hes a little insecure ... no matter how much he denies it.

Its common for the guy to feel a little left out, most profiles on here ask for single females or couple with bi females.

Or in plain english it means they want a single female but they are too hard to find, so a female with a spare part (the guy) will have to do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bring it up in the bedroom mid sex session tell him how u like to see him fucking another woman, how u want to watch him wanking as u stare in to his eyes with a guy fucking u doggy. Put swing in to roll play explain its the fantasys u want to live out with him reassure him "

I like this ...... i just may try this......

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Derby

"You need to get to the reason it scared him off.

Nerves, security in your relationship or the though of seeing you with another guy.

it was dropped never to be talked about again. "

A lot of guys who fantasise about this do have issues when it comes to the real thing. As another post has said, bring it up when you're having sex,

Let him see how much it turns you on, ask him what he'd like to do and try and get him to open up to you.

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