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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love to be able to be fucked analy, only ever managed to do it really slow and when I'm a bit d*unk so far - any suggestions of how I can learn to take more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube, patience and some poppers.

Would be happy to help you learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Poppers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amyl Nitrate. Gives you a nice rush when you sniff them and helps relax the muscles. I have found them to be quite handy for anal. Always hurts me otherwise...

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Make sure your really turned on and use lots of lube and make sure he is careful to start

Nice to get into a position where you control depth and speed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poppers are a known relaxing agent , but for females it is generally better done in conjunction with plenty of wet oral and finger action developing into one finger and progressing from there , having a standard sized cock and oral skills to die for have done this a few times with anal virgins , also look at Ann Summers there are anal lubes with anaesthetic in it haven't tried them but worth a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie on your side, I've always found that very comfortable. Lots of lube and go slow. If it starts hurting tell him to wait and the muscles will relax and you can carry on.

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

I recently asked the same. LoveHoney also sell a Desensitizing lube, I've also been using a set of beads (I thing they may be called a Dragons Tail) to help get used to the feeling. I also now use a reasonably sized dildo. All of these can be used in play with your partner.

But nothing beats just taking it easy and gently. Patience and foreplay is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie on your side, I've always found that very comfortable. Lots of lube and go slow. If it starts hurting tell him to wait and the muscles will relax and you can carry on. "
I agree take your time don't rush lots of lube and fore play get them to play with there fingers to start with , relax and enjoy x

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Relax its the most important if you stress about it you clench and it will hurt alot. Take it slow and if your partner is good enough try to orgasm first this helps relax you. Lots of finger work and lube. Build upto it. I would also say until you a comfortable doing anal stick to someone you happy to bareback with as condoms can be awkward for anal. When you do go for it find a position where you control the depth and speed until you ready.

Orgasms from anal can be very intense. Wench cums so hard it magical.

TL DR

Slow. Lube. Fingers. Control. Relax.

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By *asmin999jmTV/TS
over a year ago

wakefield

Go steady with the lube. Relax. And just experiment to find what works best for you. I like to ride on top x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me rim you till you relax, tease you with a toy then ease my nice clitty in slowly

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Never use numbimg lubes

The reason it hurts is that it is damaging you, so if you cant feel it you wont know if something is gone wrong

Best bet is time and patience + lots of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have pm'd you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah start with a small cock or toy and work ur way up to 8 9 ins lots of lube poppers help u relax

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Plenty of patience and lots of lube

Have you tried small toys?

I agree with the comment re the numbing lubes you want to enjoy the experience and feel the glow afterwards not rush it and very hurting yourself hen duffer when the lube wears off

I'm sure you'll have plenty if offers to help you explore the anal path

Have fun and let us know how you get on

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By *ay N MazCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

We first managed it successfully in the bath, must of been the relaxing nature of it, maz likes to be on top when doing it so she can control it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't recommend desensitising lube as the pain is there to tell you something isn't right, i've managed to have good anal sex with 'virgins' no problem. Just take it easy and slowly work up from one finger. Use plenty of lube, take your time and enjoy the attention. Hope that helps. I didn't read all the other posts so I apologise if this has been said

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