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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need advice on probably "the" golden question that had to be asked by one half of the couples on here .....how do you feel about trying swinging ? ....we have been together for 20 years and I really want this to happen...or at least give it a try......advice please .....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

just show her your profile and ask her what she thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is an option....problem is I want to see her seduced.....by a couple of female of a couple....kind of catch her off guard.....but it's soooo risky

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

You could try speaking to her openly and honestly instead of simply setting up a singles profile on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she trust you ? Have you done anything behind her back that she has found out about. Most women find infidelity a right turn off. Have you got an inkling she might like it?

If so watch a bit of porn together and ask her if she likes the group sex stuff or does she feel threatened by it. You must have some idea if she'll be up for it.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The answer is really simple, try talking about it.

You don't get your wife into swinging she has to want to be involved. If she is not interested then that should be the end of it.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Never gonna happen

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

I had a profile on here as a man saying I wanted to involve the wife and she found it. We now have a couples profile and shes involved and have no secrets from each other and just enjoy ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to a swingers club. Sauna steam room. No pressure. Thats how we started.

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The answer is really simple, try talking about it.

You don't get your wife into swinging she has to want to be involved. If she is not interested then that should be the end of it. "

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"I had a profile on here as a man saying I wanted to involve the wife and she found it. We now have a couples profile and shes involved and have no secrets from each other and just enjoy ourselves "

What do yi mean she found it? She was already on here looking for single meets for herself?

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Talk to her about the life style and gauge her reaction. Not an easy subject to bring up but you could say you heard a story at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ if you don't know your own wifes desires after 20 years together then im absolutely gobsmacked.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central


"Christ if you don't know your own wifes desires after 20 years together then im absolutely gobsmacked. "

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