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She's having an affair isn't she?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First of all this is such a turn on to think of her ducking someone else. We have spoke about it several times but she always seemed to just not be able to fuck someone else in front of me. The last time she spoke about it she accused me of making her feel like a piece of meat since then though:

1) When she was out on a staff party she ended up in party in her ex's house, said nothing happened even though he tried to kiss her.

2) I read messages on her phone to him saying what she was going to do to him and vice versa, when I read them I came everywhere, I confronted her but she said it was just text sex fantasy and could never physically cheat on me.

3) A few weeks ago I was working late and went home early to surprise her but she wasn't there. I drove to her ex's house and there they were parked in her car outside. I confronted her again and she went mad and said I should trust her.

Am I being a mug here, the truth is I find it a massive turn on and she knows that but she is adamant nothing has happened. Would like some feedback on this!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

so if its what you want and it turns you on so much. why do you keep on "confronting her?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because she keeps denying it. Am quite happy to be open about it but Don't think it's unreasonable to expect full honesty though when I have told her I am ok with it lol

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By *affy103Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

Get her to invite him over, then after a few drinks turn the conversation round to sex

Gauge their reactions it might be an interesting night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doubt she would go for that but we'll worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know your on here?

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By *affy103Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

Could you find out where he drinks? Same idea, join him there.

They might relax enough to make a mistake. Our you might be lucky enough to get a MFM later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she know your on here? "
She does Yeah. Doesn't know username and said has no interest in site. I told her my ultimate fantasy is to watch her being fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to be careful with this one there is wanting to see her avd losing her she sounds happy to be there and if she is denying it then there is more too it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your point ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooooo thats a tricky one. from my pov what she doing there in the first place and without you knowing? and as for sexting, its an ex, theyre ex for a reason. theres trust and theres taking the piss tbh she denying it all but she shouldnt be sneaking off to an exs, or any other guy for that matter if nothing is going on.

but as the other said, your on here so maybe she doing what she wants to do to..not the best topic to be askin for advice, not much of a fantasy is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the old adage that swinging will not fix a poor relationship may apply here. You probably need to buy her a nice bunch of flowers and some chocolates and try to take down the wall of resentment that may be building up between you.

There probably isn't anything going on but this confrontational, manipulative attitude of yours is not going to solve anything.

Hope you sort things out.

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By *rneilMan
over a year ago

rochester and pembrokshire

If she was cheating she would have been in the house with him not sitting in the car outside. But I do believe she is excited by him.

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By *bridge manMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

stick the kettle on,, cos your a mug.. simple.. what would she do if you were acting like her,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd this. You want to watch her with another man but you don't want her to have sex with another when you are not there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd this. You want to watch her with another man but you don't want her to have sex with another when you are not there. You are on here as a solo player and not a couple but you are having fun but your wife would be cheating......double standards.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

So she goes on a work so, ends up at her ex's house.

She sends him dirty text detailing what she wants to do with him.

She's sat outside his house with him, in her car!!!

If there was nothing going on she'd have told you she was meeting him!

The fact she's hidden this means she obviously has something to hide!!!

The fact she was outside his house in the car, suggests to me that maybe they'd been out for a drink, or a meal, maybe to see if the old feelings are still there.

But then I have no doubt in my mind that this is exactly what this page is for, fantasys that you'd like to happen, but in reality haven't, apart from in your head!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to take a hike, she has lied to you, and you know she's up to no good usually behind your back.

You've given us 3 things you know about that she's done already with the same guy, don't be her mug.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys for feedback.wouldn't worry but it's her ex and wondering if the wool is being pulled over eyes.

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By *tj2108Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have you or anybody else that has replied thought that she might be talking to her ex about her feelings. That she might feel she is being forced to do things she doesn't want to do. Until you talk properly to her and you both be honest with each other, I can't see how it will not turn into a big mess. I wish you both good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I should have kept quiet and then maybe she wouldn't have been so careful and I might have had caught her having naughty fun lol

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By *intinzMan
over a year ago

sourh west

Wether people swing or not, for me trust and honesty are the crux of any relationship. To me, with her not being honest would suggest she's taking the piss. Unless of course you like her lying and going behind your back. If that's your kick then your in the perfect situation. I can understand your desire to see and hear of your wife with other guys, I wanted that too with my ex, but the difference between encouragement and a pest is a fine line. Be careful not to lose someone you seem to love by putting pressure on her. I'm sure she knows what you want, you just have to let it go now and whatever happens know you did the best you could. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope not putting any pressure on at all. Quite the opposite in fact. Just wondering what to make of it all. Not easy when you know someone ain't being straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She has asked permission to fuck him ...

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By *ayf996Man
over a year ago

cardiff


"She has asked permission to fuck him ..."

Mmmmmmm awesome

Lucky guy wish my wife would ask me something like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah she's round at his now ...

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By *ayf996Man
over a year ago

cardiff


"Yeah she's round at his now ..."

Wow bet your cock is throbbing I know mine would be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah she said he doesn't know I know. Left house in her biggest heels and tightest skirt ....

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By *ayf996Man
over a year ago

cardiff

That's horny as fuck.will she take his cum and bring home her soaking pussy for you to taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Told her I want to taste his cum in her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She came home with his cum oozing out of her

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By *orksmarriedcplCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Did you eat it up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had no choice

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By *orksmarriedcplCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Full?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Half it was down her leg but yeah

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