FabSwingers.com forum: First timers

By *supermen OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

Met a couple who wanted to try MFM and we had some drinks and chatted for a while but when you touch the lady husband was quite encouraging but wife moved away as I touch!

What a bummer!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd it was their first time then there is a good chance that this was the first time in a very long time (or ever!) that someone other than her partner had touched her that way. Its not surprising that she reacted strongly. This doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to continue. She may be scared, or lacking confidence, or just surprised. It might take a short while for her to get her head around what is happening. It is also possible that the reality of the situation isn't as fun as the fantasy or that she isn't as in to it as much as her man is. Communication is key. Talk to her. Don't push things, and don't try again until she says its OK. Give her time. Give her and her partner a chance to talk. A meet that is sensitive to the needs of their partners is the very best kind and will always do the best in the long term.