FabSwingers.com forum: Men that only care about cumming and not pleasing their sexual partners yet show off about it...

By *heobearjumanji OP Man
over a year ago

london

After listening to a couple of the gys at the office brag about their sexual escapades i found myself thinking and here's what I don't get. Guys that don't please their women; you know the type, fuck, cum and fall asleep.

I find it hard because I believe sex was created to please women more than it was made to please men (don't get me wrong i do believe in the pleasures of mutual passion but bare with me a moment). It does not take much to make a man cum (stick his dick in a watermelon) but for a woman, more often than not, it takes a desire to please; attention to detail; and more importantly the hunger to make her cum more times than she ever thinks possible.

Now I'm not saying that every man can make every woman cum, some women can't cum or have not come across a man who knows exactly what to do to make her cum. What I am saying is every man has to at least want to make the woman he is with cum he has to have the drive and desire to see her thrive in ecstasy. For that is the difference, in my most humble opinion, between being a man in bed and being a little boy.

However, I'm not talking about using the same moves you used on Stephanie on Carla. Look at the woman you are pleasing touch and caress her or rough her up depending on her response to you; pay attention to what does it for her. If you are not willing to do that then stop beating your chest and acting proud of the fact you've just fucked a girl; because in all honesty, all you did was have a wank in her body .