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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were having sex earlier this evening and I asked her as I slid her dildo deep inside her what her fantasy was right now. She said she wanted to fuck someone but wouldn't do it without my permission. I asked her who it was and she admitted it was her ex who has been back in contact. She begged me to let her fuck him. I was hurt but she said she would never do anything without me being okay with it. I said okay and she texted him offering a threesome or just the two of them. He replied he wanted to fuck her on her own first ... I have to admit to being really turned on and gave her permission so they're gettinga hotel yotomorrow night and she is going to keep me posted. Am I insane?

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By *hore1Man
over a year ago

boston

Probably not the best thing to let her do mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dangerous path to go down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how well you trust her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would always say yes. if she really wants to. could be good or bad for you both . but saying no will always be bad for the relationship,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't own a person, you can just balance the give and take.

If she wants to then trying to control her will not bode well. Let her fly, and as she is not tethered its likely she'll return to be with you.

Personally I find that a real turn on, that my FWB goes and fucks others by after comes back to me. Makes me feel truly wanted, desired, passioned for. ...

She could fuck him and recall all the reasons they parted.

However, I sound generally say going back to an ex any time is a really bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I am conflicted over it to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just enjoy what she is doing imagine the fun when she comes home and tells you all the details. sure you will have a sexy time,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know. I have a serious horn about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it will end in tears ,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us swingers have 2 brains !!!! The fab one where all buttons are pushed and everything resorts to being a turn on ,,,, normal brain says if the ex looked at her in a bar and brushed past her you would knock his fucking head off ,,, remember only we have the fab brain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok, If it backfires and she gets back with her ex, just show her your single male profile on here and tell her as you would put it you've been, "banging all these women until they forget there name" you won't feel as cheated then. win win situation in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I am conflicted over it to say the least."

From a female perspective she asked for your permission so thats a good thing. She may have a fantasy in her head that when she is in the reality of it doesn't plan out. There are exes I have that the answer will forever be NO regardless of how amazing the sex was. As for you focus on the horny aspect of it and when she returns to you eat her pussy knowing she tastes of the other guy and fuck her senseless. That should bring pleasure to you both

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

You have gone from being hurt because she wants to fuck her ex to agreeing to her going off with him... I don't think this will have a good ending but I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have gone from being hurt because she wants to fuck her ex to agreeing to her going off with him... I don't think this will have a good ending but I could be wrong. "

Yep, I think you're for the chop mate. I should be prepared for next bit of news which is they want to get back together again. You've probably done the right thing to let it happen as they obviously still have feelings for each other and you just wouldn't be able to fight that.

Not sure if under the circumstances you could have done anything different except act like an arse and say this aint gonna happen so you have that in your favour.

Good luck. I think you are going to need it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I told her I was going to have some fun of my own with a few 'old friends' ttonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did she say to that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't happy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough. If she wants to fuck her ex only fair of you get some pussy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too right now she's having second thoughts saying how jealous she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best she cancel her meet then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good, just hope she doesn't go behind your back

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By *onnaluvdollTV/TS
over a year ago

cork

Sorry to say but she might go behind your back.if she does it raises chances of splitsville with her wanting him & he prob wants her if he got back in contact.if that happens move on.no point in regretting the past as you cant change it.there's prob a strain there already when you said you wanted to play.that'll set up resentment and that can change to hate & tear you both apart.sit her down,ask why with her answering honestly did she want to have the ex again and if she can't handle you wanting what she wants ie you playing seperately from her then give her three months to reconnect with you,no swinging & put profile on hold.if after three months its not solved then walk.your heart will know whether you are meant together.its just a matter of your brain listening to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She said she went back to a party at his house and he kissed her but nothing else happened and she's breaking off contact withhim bebecause it's gone too far ... or so she says

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By *hinadoll1971Couple
over a year ago

nr/ cardiff

[Removed by poster at 19/08/14 08:01:12]

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By *hinadoll1971Couple
over a year ago

nr/ cardiff

Do you beleave her do you think that's all that happened

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

Am i being silly? Your a single guy on here, unless your wife knows your on here surely your cheating on her? I apologise if I have the wrong end of the stick

stick... For one you could have changed the profile or you have her permission. Please enlighten me. A very confused Nutty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were having sex earlier this evening and I asked her as I slid her dildo deep inside her what her fantasy was right now. She said she wanted to fuck someone but wouldn't do it without my permission. I asked her who it was and she admitted it was her ex who has been back in contact. She begged me to let her fuck him. I was hurt but she said she would never do anything without me being okay with it. I said okay and she texted him offering a threesome or just the two of them. He replied he wanted to fuck her on her own first ... I have to admit to being really turned on and gave her permission so they're gettinga hotel yotomorrow night and she is going to keep me posted. Am I insane?"

Says the man with the single profile and in his words an open relationship!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol my hypocrisy knows no bounds

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By *hinadoll1971Couple
over a year ago

nr/ cardiff

have she said anything more about what happened {just a kiss} ????

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester

What fantastic advice.Spot on, really cannot fault what you say xxx


"Yeah I am conflicted over it to say the least.

From a female perspective she asked for your permission so thats a good thing. She may have a fantasy in her head that when she is in the reality of it doesn't plan out. There are exes I have that the answer will forever be NO regardless of how amazing the sex was. As for you focus on the horny aspect of it and when she returns to you eat her pussy knowing she tastes of the other guy and fuck her senseless. That should bring pleasure to you both "

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