Now that you've decided to fuck another man or have already cuckolded your husband or male partner, your job as mistress is only beginning. From now on you have full control and you'll need to use it. Your partner will need a strong hand to guide him. You'll be telling him what to wear, what to eat, and how to spend him time and his money. His only purpose will be to serve to you. Here are some ideas on how to keep up the dominance.
Clothing
This is also your chance to upgrade your wardrobe at zero cost as your cuckold will be responsible for dressing you in sexy underwear and outfits that he knows you will be getting fucked in. In effect he is dressing you for such a purpose, or if you prefer to humiliate him then you can also dominate him into becoming a sissy cuckold which is even better.
Take your cuckold or sissy shopping, make him decide what you will look sexy in, make him browse dresses, lingerie. stockings and in particular “fuck me” high heels until he finds the perfect outfit that will attract cocks to you while you are out. Make him buy exactly the same outfits if you are sissifying him, it is so important for the sissy to know exactly what you will be feeling like while you are out. The sissy needs to feel exactly how a real woman is feeling. Humiliate him by making him try on the dresses or the high heels in the shop so the assistants and other shoppers know what he is, and when you make him go to the counter with 2 different sizes of the same outfits and the same high heels in different sizes, make sure you let the assistant know which size is for who.
Semen
On the surface your husband's semen can seem like an annoyance, you know how annoying it is when it runs out after sex, it's messy, it tastes bad, and it stains linens. But actually it is a great tool for dominating him. The most common way to use it is to force him to eat it. Normally after a man ejaculates he wants to just relax and not think. He wants nothing to do with sex for a while. So having him deal with his cum after an orgasm is something unnatural to him. He absolutely won't want to do it. Therefore it will require a command from you and an act of submission from him - great practice for you to become a more dominating force in the cuckolding. This is great training since he will be doing many more "unnatural" things later especially if he is a sissy as when it is your period it will be hers and she will also have to wear tampons etc.
Do this by making the rule, "From now, on every time you cum, you have to eat your semen." If you let him wank, make him lick it up. If he's wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth. If he cums in your pussy, make him eat a creampie. You can get creative too, like making him cum in a glass then drink it at dinner. Or save each one of his cums in the freezer to eventually make a cumsicle for him, making semen pellets that can be inserted into the sissy cuckold so “she” too can experience cum leaking into her panties just as you do.
He doesn't have to necessarily have to eat it either. If you really feel like humiliating him, you can make him cum all over his face and then not let him wash for a while. As his semen slowly dries on his face, he'll become uncomfortable and wish he had never cum. If you have sissified your cuckold do not let “her” get undressed after she has cum, it is so much more submissive for her to have to carry on and still be dressed and acting as a woman long after she has cum.
Another related rule to make is that you no longer want his cum touching you. Say, "It's dirty". The contrast of him eating and wearing his own cum while you refuse to even touch it will speak volumes. You're obviously too good for his lowly seed.
His Penis
Another seeming headache for you will be you husband's or sissy’s penis. It's small, it cums too fast, and it doesn't give you pleasure. If you're smart though, it can be a useful tool in humiliating him. Let him know that you want bigger, fatter and a cock that knows how to stay the course and always allows you to cum first before he unloads into your gaping pussy.
Feel free to openly make fun of his penis. Call it demeaning nicknames like "Dicklette," or "clit” if you have sissified him. Don't call him by his real name either, refer to him by his penis, like, "Come here, Tiny". Let him know constantly that you think his cock is inadequate. Contrast this to praising your dildo. Let him be in the room with you as you masturbate with it. Let him know how good it feels to be fucked by a "real cock." Make sure to cum real hard on it. After you're finished pleasuring yourself, show him you used and pussy and tell him, "This is what my pussy looks like after a real cock has been in it." Then make him lick the dildo clean and to treat it like a holy object.
He will always want to be using his penis too, either by fucking you or by pleasing himself. It will be easy to deny him sex, but him secretly masturbating will be a problem. If you let your husband masturbate, he won't crave for your pussy and therefore the sexual power you have over him will be reduced. His release must be only through you. Forbid any self pleasure. Let him know that his penis is your property and that he's not allowed to sexually touch it without your permission. Definitely realize that he will masturbate no matter what you do unless you put him in a cock cage (see below).
Be openly suspicious about his masturbation. Constantly ask him if he's wanked off and let him know that you're on the watch for mischief. Also don't be afraid to spy on him to make sure he is obeying you, even if you don't suspect anything. Masturbation is explicitly prohibited, his penis belongs to you and he is not allowed to use it. If you do allow him an orgasm make sure as mentioned earlier he eats it of it is saved for use later.
Cock Cages
A cock cage is a chastity device that denies a man the ability to become erect, though he can still urinate and wear normal clothing. Most look like a little plastic cage that locks around the penis. It's impossible to keep your husband from masturbating without one, even if you could watch him 24/7. Men, if horny enough, can masturbate in seconds. You'd never know. In order for you to completely control your husband's sexuality you'll need this device.
To start, try to catch him in the act of masturbating. If you can't do that, find some porn on his computer. You should already have a rule that he can't masturbate, so once you catch him, you're perfectly inline to confront him, and then punish him with a cock cage. Tell him, "Since you can't control yourself, I'm going to do it for you". Once he's in one, you should control the key by at the very least hiding it. A great idea though is to keep the cage's key on you at all times as a necklace. The symbol of your dominance, right there, dangling in his face, is a great way to taunt him. If anyone asks about it, you can say your hubby gave it to you as the "key to his heart". Let him out for a cum every 3-4 days if he's been good and 5-7 days if he's been bad. Don't keep him locked up forever. The point of a cage is control, not torture. Make sure that if he is to be allowed a release that you get something from it as well such as a new set of underwear, or some new shoes.
Your Pussy
While you are busy making your husband's penis inconsequential, you should be doing the opposite with your pussy. Let him know the new center of his universe will be your vagina. His life should revolve around pleasuring it. He will be eating your pussy constantly and let him know it. Even if you don't feel horny have him lick your pussy. Have him worship it, compliment it, and explain why it's so beautiful. After a long day out have him soak it and caress it. When you come back from work or shopping shove his face into it for a good long licking. Let him know you'll no longer be using an alarm clock because you expect his tongue on you every morning.
The contrast of how he treats your pussy (the alter on which he worships you) to the way you treat his dick (something useless and to be forgotten about) will speak volumes. When you go to the toilet make sure you train him to lick the last drops of urine so that you are clean, and also if you really do have a strong command make sure that you force him to clean your ass after any movements, and then thank you for the pleasure afterwards. If your lover takes you in the ass make sure your cuckold cleans out the dirty cum afterwards, it will be degrading but fulfilling all the same. Make sure that you regularly fill a wine glass on an evening with urine especially when he least expects it, while you savour another glass of your favourite he or the sissy is having to drink your used wine. This is also an absolute must when you return from an evening out with the girls or after you have been out with another man. Your cuckold or sissy must get used to been the Beta person or Beta female and have everything used from inside of you like your lovers cum or your pee.
Strap-ons
A strap-on penis can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your husband. Nothing quite says, "You're my bitch" like fucking him hard in the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and show your husband. Tell him, "Since I'm man of the house now, I figure I should have a penis to fuck you with." Prepare him with butt plugs for a few days before to make him ready for a sizable one. Let him cum when you're fucking him, at least for the first few times. Even encourage it. You want him to equate getting fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use lube. If you have sissified your cuckold then make sure she dresses in full female attire, underwear, stockings, high heels, wigs, make up, false nails, perfume and if you are on your period then also make her wear a tampon both before you fuck “her” and especially after. If you have frozen some of his semen now is the time to inject it into her pussy, or insert a cum pellet so that she has to experience a long hard fucking and then the feeling of a leaking pussy after.
If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He'll be able to smell the sex in the air, he'll feel your hot body, and sense the passion in your orgasms, but he won't be able to feel anything down there. This will leave him extremely horny and frustrated.
The bathroom
Of course the house is now your domain, but this is one area you might have forgotten about. Allow him absolutely no privacy. Make him pee sitting down like a woman if you have sissified him.
When you are out with the girls and you meet a man you want to fuck let him know about your cuckold or sissy straight away, that way if he is not up for it you can move on and find another guy who will be. Ring your cuckold or sissy while you are with your lover, let him know you are going to have sex with someone else that night, ask if you should go to the guys house or bring your lover home. If your sissy is dressed up in the same outfit as you while you are out make sure your lover knows, maybe even phone your sissy and make her tell your lover what “she “ is wearing so that he will know exactly what you have on as well. Make your cuckold or sissy ask the guy to fuck you that night without a condom. Make sure your sissy tells your lover her “girly” name as a form of password, so that when the phone call finishes your lover can repeat the name and you are both fully aware and when you take your lover home it will come as no surprise when he sees your sissy dressed as a woman.
When you bring a lover home go to the bedroom with your lover and lock out your husband. Make sure you are noisy though. Having him comfortable with the sounds of you being fucked will make it easier for when he has to watch. He might even begin to anticipate watching you. If you have sissified your man make sure that your sissy parades before your lover to show your lover that your sissy is not a problem or competition and that is why he is there so that you can have a real man fuck your pussy.
When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of nasty things with your lover that you'd never do with your husband. Worship your bull's penis, voraciously suck it, deep throat him, comment on its size and how much larger it is than your husband's. Let him fuck you roughly, let him cum inside you, give him your ass. Transform yourself into the slut your husband can't have and let him know that this all could have been him, but he willingly gave up his chance like an idiot.
Keep your husband or sissy actively involved in his own humiliation. Make him beg your lover to fuck you. Make him suck your lover hard or have him put your lover's dick in your pussy and push his ass forward so he is forcing your lovers cock into your pussy. Talk to him too, like, "Oh he's so much bigger than you," or "This is how a real man fucks your wife". Whenever your husband is idle, don't let him touch his penis, a good way to do this is to make him sit on his hands. Once your lover is finally finished with you, have your husband clean the juices off his penis with his tongue. Have him thank your bull for the great fucking he just gave you. Then make him crawl to you and clean up your used pussy. If your lover is open minded then you may reward your sissy by letting your lover fuck your sissy’s pussy after he has taken you, again no condoms as she must experience exactly what you have, hot fresh fertile semen deep inside. Make sure your lover leaves marks on your breasts or pussy mound if you have shaven that will remind your cuckold well after the event that you have been unfaithful and have fucked someone else, wear the marks like medals, and make sure that you get more outfits and underwear bought for you while the marks exist, as when they fade you will be telling him that you will be getting some more very soon and as such you need some new sexy clothes to get fucked in.
While you are out for an evening with the girls, if you have sissified your cuckold make “her” go late night shopping to a supermarket for you. The humiliation of having to go shopping in full female attire will be unbelievably horny for your sissy, even more so if you have also cages her before you went out, the cage will hide any tell tale bulges in her panties. Knowing that men and women will be looking at her while she totters around the supermarket in her dress, sexy stockings and high heels will blow her mind. Make her shop for feminine items such as sanitary products, make up, false nails, nail polish and anything else in your toiletries that is running low. Do not let her use a self service till, she must have a name of the assistant showing on any receipts or you will not allow her to orgasm later.
If you need to get a taxi home then make sure your cuckold or sissy have sufficient funds to pay the fare when the cab arrives home with your lover inside. The humiliation for your sissy having to walk fully dressed to the taxi to pay will be amazing, yet another man seeing” her” while dressed as a woman, the driver understanding why you need to bring a real man home to satisfy you.All the above can be achieved if you want it, you have full liberty to do exactly as you wish with whoever you want to do it with, or you can simply keep an illusion going and have all this as a form of playtime with your husband or partner and you do not actually do anything with anyone else, the illusion and the not knowing whether you have fucked someone else will be just as good and will not lead to any relationship problems after your cuckold or sissy has been allowed to orgasm. |
