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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, I'm just a normal man with a big appetite for sex which is surpressed a lot in that I don't shout about it daily and have a calm, professional exterior. To the extent that those I know have no knowledge of my extra curricular activities.
i first started fantasising about sex with strangers in my mid teens. I used to buy the Daily Sport but instead of being turned on by the tits and ass on page three I found the small classifieds so horny.
There was a page of small ads from woman and couples looking to meet others for nsa sex and I found this fascinating.
I used to wank myself daft looking at these small pen pics of ladies looking for vwe blokes and some fun on the side. From there I developed a fascination that I still have, "is that woman a swinger?" "does that receptionist like black cock?" "does that couple want me to offer to fuck his wife?" I still ask such questions each day as I meet people.
Anyway, the internet was then born and I think the first search words I typed in was "sex with strangers" and up popped swinging, I was intrigued and started to reply to ads. Eventually!! I got a reply and had arranged to meet a couple but I must admit I was soooo nervous. I sat in my car outside the hotel before plucking up the courage to go in.
Alas they walked by me on the way out and texted to say I was too late!
I then got my own place and arranged another meet. A single guy in a new city with a computer, webcam and a big sexual appetite spent his days wanking on cam in the days of yahoo chat rooms and talking dirty to free spirited females the world over!
That first meet was with a couple. This time I was determined to go through with it, I travelled about a forty minute drive, popped a viagra on the way! and rang the doorbell!
To be honest it was so random. The wife was sitting in a tiny skirt, boobs bursting out of her top and looking so filthy it was unreal. The guy obviously was quite controlling. He was dressed in combat trousers, served me beer after beer and we chatted for ages. The big question was how to start things off! After what seemed like ages, he turned up the music and I just leant across and kissed his wife. She kissed me back passionately and reached quickly for my trouser belt buckle.
The excitement of another mans wife peeling my rock hard cock from my suit trousers will live with me forever. I remember looking over at him for some sort of reassurance that this was all OK on countless occasions and he just nodded, directed and then took out his own cock and wanked it as I licked his wifes pussy. She was unbelievably wet.
I fucked her pussy as she took his cock in her mouth. Hubby then pointed to her ass and indicated I should go in there and so I did. By this point the wife was screaming her pleasure, she was younger than him. Mid twenties like me with him being about 45.
After a while she took my cock in her mouth and sucked on it, he was telling her to enjoy it, to suck me dry and I was getting ready to cum hard.
I proceeded to come hard all over her face, hair, tits and even him!! To such a point that they spent the next few days texting me to say they'd never seen a man cum like I did!
We fucked again and I left. I felt strangely relieved and empowered that I had fulfilled my fantasy and so my swing life was born.
From there I tended to spend every waking moment seeking out more thrills and over the next few years I met couples in hotel rooms, bars, their place, my place, you name it! It always ended in sex!
I also realised then that many many husbands are happy for their wives to swing alone once they realise that guys are not pricks, arseholes and in general will look after their ladies. This was what I still love about nsa sex. A husband that lets his wife go and play and fuck with a new/ strange man and cum back as a naughty wife!
To this day I'm not sure if I would allow it of my own partner and as such I prefer to be the 'extra' man!
Fab brought a new dimension to the world. It's free! And as such seems to have lots more willing participants! But alas where there is ladies there is men and so the competition is tougher! I continue to compete in the pool however in the knowledge that at any one time it only takes one lady or couple to like the look of me against all the others that no doubt write to them to allow me to continue in my fantasy world!!
I am not what you might call a hardened swinger and laugh when I hear the term brought up for giggles amongst friends and think, "if only they knew!"
But I still have fantasies to fulfill, and I don't think I will ever remove myself from the thought process that women, couples and indeed us all deep down enjoy the thrill of nsa sex with strangers, without the need for it going somewhere or meaning something, without the hassle of pushing things too far and just being able to express oneself and ask a lady you have just met,
"keep your shoes on", "let me watch you cum" "squirt over my face" "take your knickers off at the toilet". I love it all!
Maybe one day I'll try the parties, the clubs and all the other aspects but at present I continue to be so turned on by the mere thought of what goes through peoples minds day after day...... maybe I need to meet and marry someone in the lifestyle to truly express myself but I'm not sure how that would work!
I have read about and have an understanding of why I feel this way towards sex and tend not to analyse and think too deeply, instead I want to go on being a guy that ladies and couples can look up, chat too, have intelligent hassle free conversation with and ultimately engage in sexy mutual fun with!
I have met some great folks and hope to meet many more and really am writing this to start to open my own mind and persona towards my fantasies.
Now, tomorrows job is to tell the girl on the bus that she looks amazing in those high heels and bare legs. I'll either be slapped or it will be the start of another adventure!
Wish me luck!! |
Must admit it is fun, no strings, i dont have to share my bed, no man flu 
