FabSwingers.com forum: asian guys

By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Why is in 8/10 profiles say no asian thanks love black

if this is not rasist then what is most swingers are rasist according to this site

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I like meeting Asian guys...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like meeting Asian guys. Just not many of them in York.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It not racists it just what people like

I not into to really skinny women silly man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like meeting Asian guys. Just not many of them in York."
you do suprise me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's spelt racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question OP would you want to sleep with someone you werent sexually attracted to?

Having a personal preference isnt racism

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

I get that but how can you rule out a whole race ?? I don't find understand a whole race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is all about personal preferences. Life would be boring without personal choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like meeting Asian guys. Just not many of them in York."

I am not far from York

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By *anLondonMan
over a year ago

London

I suppose the real question is why are most English people not attracted to asians?

Asians can vary in skin colour, from dark to fair. I've seen asian men and women that look anywhere from Spanish to Sub-Saharan African. If they were born in the country, then they likely speak English as a first language and without an accent. Culturally, they can be completely English. I've seen Greeks that I thought were Indian and I've seen Indians who I was certain were Caucasian.

It seems strange, considering how different asians can be in appearance and manner, that people can say that they are not attracted to all asians as a matter of preference.

When people say 'no asians', are they saying that as a matter of principle, or are they open to the idea of being attracted to an asian depending upon how they look, act, body etc?

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By *ensation2007Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I'm Asian myself, from Yorkshire, British born and privately educated and a successful professional. The only thing that perhaps is different, is yes you've guessed it, my skin colour.

To be honest, I have never been told I'm unattractive because of my skin colour, I would find that highly offensive. I think the issue is basically painting everyone with the same brush - those that say 'no asians' have obviously had a bad experience in the past and so have decided it is something they do not want to experience again and would prefer something else - it is about personal choice of course, ultimately!

Sadly, we are not all the same, Asia is quite large but there are some narrow minded people I have come across! I often get asked if I am Lebanese? Greek? Or often Italian?

So I ask you, if I were to write 'no whites' on my profile, I bet that would would offend a number of people also!

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I won't meet Asian men....... unless they come as a couple.... lol

Now Asian women yes please! Can't find them, at least can't find any that want to meet me.

I suppose that makes me sexist! ...oh no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is in 8/10 profiles say no asian thanks love black

if this is not rasist then what is most swingers are rasist according to this site

So if we have preferences we are now classed as racists. That's the biggest load of crap that I have EVER heard!! I dont give a flying rats ass what ethnicity somebody is however if they come out with crap like this then I would never meet them in a million years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is in 8/10 profiles say no asian thanks love black

if this is not rasist then what is most swingers are rasist according to this site

Is this a story or a fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that but how can you rule out a whole race ?? I don't find understand a whole race "

I rule out Asian guys...and black guys, white guys....in fact guys. No one questions my sexual preferences....at the end of the day that's what the ladies are expressing...it's their sexual preference . Not racism

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By *anLondonMan
over a year ago

London

"I get that but how can you rule out a whole race ?? I don't find understand a whole race

I think it's a false analogy to compare sexual preference for men or women to sexual preference for body types, ethnicities etc in this context.

I don't doubt that many people will simply not find certain races attractive. It's natural. Some people on the site are probably also racist, just as a portion of society in general are racist.

I think that the real question posed by the poster you quoted is valid. By what criteria can any person say that they do not find a continent of people attractive, if they all have different heights, skin colour, eye colour, noses, hairiness, body types, cock sizes, accents, intelligence etc. If an asian (albeit not many) CAN look like he's French or look like he's Jamaican, then how can one categorically say that they do not find 'asians' attractive? Perhaps people find the archetypal 'asian' unattractive; perhaps they are simply looking for a method to out as many unlikely messages as possible.

I personally have preferences for certain races, but I would never say that I don't find a person unattractive only based upon their race. I would need to at least see what they look like.

I'm not attacking anyone on here. I'm really interested in the reasoning behind it.

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By *anLondonMan
over a year ago

London

"Why is in 8/10 profiles say no asian thanks love black

if this is not rasist then what is most swingers are rasist according to this site

Is this a story or a fantasy?"

That's so true! This is in the wrong section!

I was looking for a sex story and somehow got embroiled in a debate on sexual preference and racism.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

mmmm, now how far is York from Leamington spa....?

"I like meeting Asian guys. Just not many of them in York."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, there's a common myth that people don't meet Indian men, well let me tell you they do

Yes there are some that don't, and fair play to them for stating that cause it's just saved my tin, and allows me to chat to the lady's that do.

I don't like some of the lady's on here, sexually not attracted to them, so it's all bout preference

Moaning about it, well it's just gonna cause to drift to open up even more. It's all about having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an Indian girl wanted to fuck me when i was young.

Still regret it now

love their soft looking brown skin and dark eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Asian myself, from Yorkshire, British born and privately educated and a successful professional. The only thing that perhaps is different, is yes you've guessed it, my skin colour.

Sadly, we are not all the same, Asia is quite large but there are some narrow minded people I have come across! I often get asked if I am Lebanese? Greek? Or often Italian?

So I ask you, if I were to write 'no whites' on my profile, I bet that would would offend a number of people also!"
Take a look around, Plenty of profiles say Black men only or BBC only.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Jeez! How many more of these threads must I endure

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

So what some of you are sayin is its not racicst. To dislike a whole race ??

That's like sayin I don't like white people because they are all fat.

I get it

but 2 say you don't think 1 person in 2.5 billion is attractive

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"Jeez! How many more of these threads must I endure

Don't read it then

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Jeez! How many more of these threads must I endure

Don't read it then"

You ought to do a forum search and see how many of these types of threads there are fella. Then you might see where I'm coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez! How many more of these threads must I endure

Don't read it then

You ought to do a forum search and see how many of these types of threads there are fella. Then you might see where I'm coming from"

This one doesn't count as it's a story/fantasy!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Jeez! How many more of these threads must I endure

Don't read it then

You ought to do a forum search and see how many of these types of threads there are fella. Then you might see where I'm coming from

This one doesn't count as it's a story/fantasy!

Ooopppsss yea I didn't spot that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you had some meets on here and they are white I live in rochdale and iv met Asian men I don't think they mean the whole of Asia I would never say no to a Chinese lol

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I have had meets yes mate, but I also attended the odd club night or two and made contacts that way too mate. The site is a way to meet other ppl, there are other ways too.... Just saying like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Q: why do ppl not say 'no europeans'? Asia is a continent so do u class the far eastern women as asians? Personally, Im white...includ freckles too hehe

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

This is my point. But nobody apart from you get what I'm sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Q: why do ppl not say 'no europeans'? Asia is a continent so do u class the far eastern women as asians? Personally, Im white...includ freckles too hehe

No Europeans

Some profiles read like an Apartheid state - No this, No that etc.

The good thing is that at least it's a nice visible indicator of who to avoid. It's not like you're going to have an enjoyable chat with those sorts of people anyway, let alone a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but but not changing our preferences for anyone. No white men, thank you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but but not changing our preferences for anyone. No white men, thank you. Xx"

By the way, that is not a fantasy or story! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people put these things on their profile for different reasons. ..there are obviously some who do for the wrong reason. ..For me...I think it can come across rude...I would rather say what I liked and focus on that rather than say what I don't want. ..I wouldn't say..." no fat women.."but I would say what sort of women I'm looking for. ..and if you're getting hassle from someone you don't like then block them. ..simple...people do get away with saying horrible stuff on this site but hey...thats life...I mean. ..I'm also sure there are people who own they're on businesses on this site and probably prefer to employ people from they're own race because they get along better or understand each other better ..wink wink. .but would you then advertise that you don't want a certain race to apply? ?

..In my personal opinion. .I've never met a racist who says they are one even if they're beliefs are clearly actually discriminatory ...even the bnp don't admit they're racist so how would you expect someone on a sex site to admit it?? ...food for thought. .All this talk of skin is getting me horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather say what I liked and focus on that rather than say what I don't want. ..I wouldn't say..." no fat women.."but I would say what sort of women I'm looking for."

That's expressing a preference and anybody is entitled to that. If more people actually expressed what they do like, rather than what they don't it would maybe seem less aggressive and less of a statement.

But personally I'm happy for people to express themselves freely - it helps me avoid people I wouldn't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own really! I find it horrible when its pointed out. I'm not really into English/Caucasion women but I wouldn't write it on my profile I'd say it in a tactful way but love socialising it's all about respect

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By *he shaggersCouple
over a year ago

vancouver island

"Had an Indian girl wanted to fuck me when i was young.

Still regret it now

love their soft looking brown skin and dark eyes

Didn't miss my chance and many more after

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"Why is in 8/10 profiles say no asian thanks love black

if this is not rasist then what is most swingers are rasist according to this site

I understand "diffrent strokes for diffrent folks"

But to say sorry no asian is offside and wrong because you can get asian people who have blond hair blue eyes and look arian you can also get people who look very dark coloured skin , you can have an indian or japanease guy both totally diffrent lookin. Let me put it to you this way

Ashia Rai won miss world in 1994 or sumit. She goodlooking girl now some might not like her it does not mean that you don't like asian women it might be that you don't like her so if some said

"no thanks not for me. I get.

But to say I don't like asian people you just said you don't like 4.2 billion people and you can't find one attractive person in 4.2 billion I DON'T Belive it for a second

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"I get that but how can you rule out a whole race ?? I don't find understand a whole race

I think it's a false analogy to compare sexual preference for men or women to sexual preference for body types, ethnicities etc in this context.

I don't doubt that many people will simply not find certain races attractive. It's natural. Some people on the site are probably also racist, just as a portion of society in general are racist.

I personally have preferences for certain races, but I would never say that I don't find a person unattractive only based upon their race. I would need to at least see what they look like.

I'm not attacking anyone on here. I'm really interested in the reasoning behind it."

Thankyou this is what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is in wrong place.....it ISNT a story or fantasy....surprised admin haven't booted it!

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By *kicando OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"Q: why do ppl not say 'no europeans'? Asia is a continent so do u class the far eastern women as asians? Personally, Im white...includ freckles too hehe

No Europeans

Some profiles read like an Apartheid state - No this, No that etc.

The good thing is that at least it's a nice visible indicator of who to avoid. It's not like you're going to have an enjoyable chat with those sorts of people anyway, let alone a shag."

True maybe I should look at diffrently

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