FabSwingers.com forum: Fantasies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone find themselves fantasing about situations such as being taken advantage of, i.e being over powered, someone getting what they want using leverage, positions of power such as authority, teachers, policemen, security guards, hitch hiking, taxi drivers. The helplessness of being tied up

In reality none of these things would be a good experience or wanted yet in fantasy they are horny as hell

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes id like to b totally controlled and abused

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes id like to b totally controlled and abused "

That's alot like my friend and her bf they like bondage, the hard core bondage, slave, master and painful stuff, she tells me all about it and couldn't imagine enduring that, I think I would rather be hit by a car haha

Well normally I'm quite submissive, I like lack of control, exposure, feeling a bit helpless from restrains but not punishment, pains not my thing. More the lighter side of feeling dominated.

However sometimes when I come across stories, porn clips or certain thoughts my mind just runs off with it and my desire increases, these things just turn me on like crazy.

Sexual physiologist says a large % of woman have this overpowered desire naturally, even the vanilla sexuals if just even very mild tame thoughts they still do, some never admit them or embrace them

I was just basically curious about it and to hear others thoughts, clearly not a subject up for discussion here ... Awkward !! Haha

I'm curious about most fantasies even ones that I don't share desire for, I like to find out things. I find sexual fantasies interesting all the differences and what's it all about for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a common fantasy for women and men. Being taken while powerless, tied up, unexpectedly. Several of the women I have played with, have liked the idea. I think it comes down to trusting your partners and playmates. Maybe organise a playtime with a partner, for the future, that you wouldn't necessarily know the timing of? A safeword, may be useful too.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

"Yes id like to b totally controlled and abused

Well normally I'm quite submissive, I like lack of control, exposure, feeling a bit helpless from restrains but not punishment, pains not my thing. More the lighter side of feeling dominated.

However sometimes when I come across stories, porn clips or certain thoughts my mind just runs off with it and my desire increases, these things just turn me on like crazy.

Sexual physiologist says a large % of woman have this overpowered desire naturally, even the vanilla sexuals if just even very mild tame thoughts they still do, some never admit them or embrace them

I was just basically curious about it and to hear others thoughts, clearly not a subject up for discussion here ... Awkward !! Haha

I'm curious about most fantasies even ones that I don't share desire for, I like to find out things. I find sexual fantasies interesting all the differences and what's it all about for them

I wrote about my first time sharing my ex. It is on here if you would like to read.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/108130

Like you I was not into pain, so I hope you like this scenario. In retrospect adding a blindfold could have been fun, but in that case may have been a step too far in the trust/consent balance.

I have since been lucky enough to enjoy a couple of mfm 3 somes as the extra and really enjoy that too. I am not too far from you guys if you wish to consider playing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will go check that out thanks

Il add you to our friends list for future possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm going to say something that's very controversial please don't take this the wrong way, I'm not in any way inclined to take a woman by force.

However am I right in thinking that deep down in a lot of women's minds is an unfathomable desire to taken against their will?

I repeat something I would never do.

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