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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey there. We are a completely genuine couple, who like everyone else is on here to look for fun! We understand that everyone has their own ideas of what this fun may be and everybody is different in what they ultimately may want...

Our thing is we're finding things a little difficult. I am the female half of the couple and the majority of the time it is me who is posting for particular meets and making requests. I don't have a huge interest in playing with another man... Yes I understand this may come as a shock to some lol, but it is strictly my choice. James has tried to talk me round to just trying a couple but he's failed a few times... It's not a fantasy of mine to have 2 guys.

Ultimately this seems to mean we can't get any success. People seem to think everything is on James' terms when I can assure you it's not at all. I would absolutely love to meet with another couple... But that's to fulfil a fantasy I have of being able to watch James. I don't want to take part...

Does anyone have any ideas on how we can make things more successful for ourselves? I just want to have some fun on here!!

Regards

Nicole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just get another fem and watch. Plenty of men watch their wife with others. Worth a try ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that it won't happen but it may take a little longer to find as your fantasy has to coincide with others, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Our problem is we can't even seem to find just a female! Which shocks us tbh. I know it may take a while. I just thought they'd be people with the same interest but everyone just accuses that it's James being in control of everything when it isn't at all. He'd happily play fully with another couple - I just don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what you are comfortable with, perhaps goto some clubs where you will be able to meet and talk to people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just do what you are comfortable with, perhaps goto some clubs where you will be able to meet and talk to people "

Thanks for the suggestion! Do you know of any that are easy to get to as neither me nor James actually drive so we'd be using public transport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see the problem to be honest, there are lots of couples who like to meet single guys, the addition of another female just watching the fun is not strange, we have done it a few times, in fact its quite good.

All you have to do is make it clear thats what you want.

Dont give up it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just do what you are comfortable with, perhaps goto some clubs where you will be able to meet and talk to people

Thanks for the suggestion! Do you know of any that are easy to get to as neither me nor James actually drive so we'd be using public transport "

Not sure in your area to be honest, look up in the club section and see what's closest to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar problem with an old playmate. She wanted to play with another woman, she didn't know how far she would go, but definately wanted me there. I would only play with her...

Could we find a single lady to help?

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearest club is kestrals/abfabs it's be Heathrow T5 bit of a pain to get to on public transport but very doable

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So for the other couple it's just an MMF so why wouldn't they just find a single guy?

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