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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a mature man and i have fantasised many time's about visiting a club or clubs but have never been to one because i wouldn't know what to do if i went to one.

Am i too old, are these places for the young with bodies to die for?

Do you just sit around and wait for people to talk to you?

Do you where clothes, towel or what?

If you try talking to ladies/couples do they think they are coming onto them?

If someone likes you do they invite you into a room?

Can anyone let me know the correct protocol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not knowing this stuff puts me off too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think i might feel a fool if i don't know what to do lol.

Do you know of any sub/dom clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. I've heard of a few clubs round here and apparently there's a dungeon but I only know what I'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mature man and i have fantasised many time's about visiting a club or clubs but have never been to one because i wouldn't know what to do if i went to one.

Am i too old, are these places for the young with bodies to die for?

Do you just sit around and wait for people to talk to you?

Do you where clothes, towel or what?

If you try talking to ladies/couples do they think they are coming onto them?

If someone likes you do they invite you into a room?

Can anyone let me know the correct protocol?

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1, no your not too old, just check with the club on that thier not having an under30's/40's night on the night you intend to go though.

2, if you just sit around and wait for people to talk to you, you'll be sat alone most of the night probably, make an effort to talk to people, whether that be couples, single females or indeed other single men.

3, dress code varies from club to club and night to night quite often, if it's a wet club, then towel/underwear, if it's a nightclub style swingers club, then smart casual. Check out the club website for any clubs you're thinking of going to for dress code.

4, If you talk to couples, make sure you include both of them, not just the female half, as with everyone, some may want to chat, some may not, if they don't move on and chat to someone else.

5, if someone likes you, you may be lucky enough to get invited to a room, just depends how the converstion goes, each instance is different, just play it by ear.

Go to a club with the only expectation of having a drink, with luck a chat and a relaxed evening, anything other than that is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Thanks for the info"

No don't believe him he's lying! ONLY THOSE WHO'VE BEEN BEFORE ARE ALLOWED!

AND THE ETIQUETTE is SECRET!

Everybody should go of course your going to be a little nervous on your first visit everybody is. Go be pleasant and don't expect anything apart from a little voyeurism . Anything else is then a .bonus.

Take some money... they're not that cheap, especially on the first time.

Relax and have fun.

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