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Did she cheat? Yes, No or Maybe?

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Me and the girlfriend (she's early 50's, slim & pretty) have been to lots of swinging clubs as I love to watch her getting gang banged. But we had a rule never to play individually without the other knowing.

Last year she went out with her best friend to a local pub after they both attended a funeral, then back to her best friends house to console her best friend as she was still upset from the funeral. I phoned her about 9.00pm to see if she wanted a lift home from her best friends house. When she eventually answered she said her friend was still very upset and it would probably be late, so no need for a lift from me and she'd get a taxi home later.

However, she was a bit pissed after drinking for 9 hours solid and instead of ending the call, she left her phone on by mistake. I listened in and was shocked to hear a man say "Get in the hot tub, you know you want to, I'm stark bollock naked".

So I drove round to her friends house and it was quiet, empty, no lights on and obviously she wasn't there consoling her best friend!

The next evening I checked her phone and her best friend had sent her photo's of my girlfriend kissing, holding and dancing with 3 different men. My girlfriend had also taken 2 selfies when she had got home the previous night. One she was smiling, happy, hair a mess and a bright red chest and neck (the after sex glow). The other selfie she looked sad and guilty.

I asked her how the previous evening had gone and she said she'd stayed very late at her grieving friends house consoling her all night alone.

It was only then that I confronted her with me listening to her phone, her friends pictures and her selfies. She was very upset and had no choice but to tell me that they had met 3 guys (all 3 ex partners of her best friend) at the funeral wake and all 5 had gone back to one of the guys houses who had an outside hot tub. She eventually admitted all 5 got in the hot tub naked but nothing happened. She also admitted to telling them about going to swingers clubs, how all 3 pestered her to fuck her and that one of them eventually walked her back home "trying it on". She denied ever sucking their cocks or fucking any or all of them.

To cut a long story short I managed to track all 3 of the guys down and insisted they tell me what happened that night. They all admitted all 5 were naked in the hot tub, that one of them had taken photo's of my girlfriend naked getting out of the hot tub, but that they didn't fuck her, even though they said that she wasn't the sweet innocent girl that they had thought! One said that my girlfriend had disappeared for over an hour at midnight with one of the guys upstairs, after her best friend had got a taxi home alone. He said when he questioned them when they both got downstairs, that she'd been sick upstairs in the bathroom and they were both cleaning it up, but when he went upstairs there was no wet cleaned up patch, no clean up cloths and no smell of vomit at all. And in the 10 years I've known my girlfriend she has been d*unk many times but NEVER sick once.

So my question is this. Do you think one or more fucked my girlfriend? Or maybe she just got naked in the hot tub with 3 naked guys who all fancied her and nothing more happened for the 4 hours after they got out of the hot tub at one of the guys house?

Has she cheated? Please reply in this thread or message me privately what you suspect happened? Thanks.

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By *emme SissyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Swindon

From personal experience of my own, it sounds like she did to me.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Thanks for replying. I appreciate it.

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By *ustardCream88Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Sorry mate, but 100% cheated. Don't let it eat you up inside trying to find out all the details. Just make your decision on what you want to do about it and move on. Personally for me, if she's already been caught out lying about what she did that night, she's definitely lying about more to minimize the damage. Again, sorry this happened to you.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Thanks for taking the time to give me your honest opinion. I wouldn't have minded at all if she was honest and told me she'd fucked the 3 guys, but it's the deceit and denial that really eat me up. Thanks again.

It's looking like I better get my head round that she lied, cheated and could lie and cheat again.

Everytime I try and discuss it she gets angry and shuts me down saying I don't trust her and I shouldn't have listened in on her phone on the night or found pictures on her phone the night after!

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By *emme SissyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Swindon

My Mrs got angry with me every time I raised it until in the end she admitted it. The angry response is a good smokescreen, I fell for it at first.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

I agree. A very angry instant response every time is looking like a smokescreen and guilty behaviour. She's made it clear never to raise it in discussion ever, ever, ever again. It's left me with no where to go really and no answers....ever.

Thanks for your message.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Thanks to the 2 or 3 who have sent me their opinion via a private message. Much appreciated.

And so far it's 100% that everyone is saying she cheated. Looks like ive been a bit gullible.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

And from the comments in my private message inbox, it looks like if you confront a cheating girl then almost 100% they get angry and shut the conversation down!

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By *aughtyintownMan
4 weeks ago

Newport


"Me and the girlfriend (she's early 50's, slim & pretty) have been to lots of swinging clubs as I love to watch her getting gang banged. But we had a rule never to play individually without the other knowing.

Last year she went out with her best friend to a local pub after they both attended a funeral, then back to her best friends house to console her best friend as she was still upset from the funeral. I phoned her about 9.00pm to see if she wanted a lift home from her best friends house. When she eventually answered she said her friend was still very upset and it would probably be late, so no need for a lift from me and she'd get a taxi home later.

However, she was a bit pissed after drinking for 9 hours solid and instead of ending the call, she left her phone on by mistake. I listened in and was shocked to hear a man say "Get in the hot tub, you know you want to, I'm stark bollock naked".

So I drove round to her friends house and it was quiet, empty, no lights on and obviously she wasn't there consoling her best friend!

The next evening I checked her phone and her best friend had sent her photo's of my girlfriend kissing, holding and dancing with 3 different men. My girlfriend had also taken 2 selfies when she had got home the previous night. One she was smiling, happy, hair a mess and a bright red chest and neck (the after sex glow). The other selfie she looked sad and guilty.

I asked her how the previous evening had gone and she said she'd stayed very late at her grieving friends house consoling her all night alone.

It was only then that I confronted her with me listening to her phone, her friends pictures and her selfies. She was very upset and had no choice but to tell me that they had met 3 guys (all 3 ex partners of her best friend) at the funeral wake and all 5 had gone back to one of the guys houses who had an outside hot tub. She eventually admitted all 5 got in the hot tub naked but nothing happened. She also admitted to telling them about going to swingers clubs, how all 3 pestered her to fuck her and that one of them eventually walked her back home "trying it on". She denied ever sucking their cocks or fucking any or all of them.

To cut a long story short I managed to track all 3 of the guys down and insisted they tell me what happened that night. They all admitted all 5 were naked in the hot tub, that one of them had taken photo's of my girlfriend naked getting out of the hot tub, but that they didn't fuck her, even though they said that she wasn't the sweet innocent girl that they had thought! One said that my girlfriend had disappeared for over an hour at midnight with one of the guys upstairs, after her best friend had got a taxi home alone. He said when he questioned them when they both got downstairs, that she'd been sick upstairs in the bathroom and they were both cleaning it up, but when he went upstairs there was no wet cleaned up patch, no clean up cloths and no smell of vomit at all. And in the 10 years I've known my girlfriend she has been d*unk many times but NEVER sick once.

So my question is this. Do you think one or more fucked my girlfriend? Or maybe she just got naked in the hot tub with 3 naked guys who all fancied her and nothing more happened for the 4 hours after they got out of the hot tub at one of the guys house?

Has she cheated? Please reply in this thread or message me privately what you suspect happened? Thanks."

You've had a single profile on here for over a year.......

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport


"Me and the girlfriend (she's early 50's, slim & pretty) have been to lots of swinging clubs as I love to watch her getting gang banged. But we had a rule never to play individually without the other knowing.

Last year she went out with her best friend to a local pub after they both attended a funeral, then back to her best friends house to console her best friend as she was still upset from the funeral. I phoned her about 9.00pm to see if she wanted a lift home from her best friends house. When she eventually answered she said her friend was still very upset and it would probably be late, so no need for a lift from me and she'd get a taxi home later.

However, she was a bit pissed after drinking for 9 hours solid and instead of ending the call, she left her phone on by mistake. I listened in and was shocked to hear a man say "Get in the hot tub, you know you want to, I'm stark bollock naked".

So I drove round to her friends house and it was quiet, empty, no lights on and obviously she wasn't there consoling her best friend!

The next evening I checked her phone and her best friend had sent her photo's of my girlfriend kissing, holding and dancing with 3 different men. My girlfriend had also taken 2 selfies when she had got home the previous night. One she was smiling, happy, hair a mess and a bright red chest and neck (the after sex glow). The other selfie she looked sad and guilty.

I asked her how the previous evening had gone and she said she'd stayed very late at her grieving friends house consoling her all night alone.

It was only then that I confronted her with me listening to her phone, her friends pictures and her selfies. She was very upset and had no choice but to tell me that they had met 3 guys (all 3 ex partners of her best friend) at the funeral wake and all 5 had gone back to one of the guys houses who had an outside hot tub. She eventually admitted all 5 got in the hot tub naked but nothing happened. She also admitted to telling them about going to swingers clubs, how all 3 pestered her to fuck her and that one of them eventually walked her back home "trying it on". She denied ever sucking their cocks or fucking any or all of them.

To cut a long story short I managed to track all 3 of the guys down and insisted they tell me what happened that night. They all admitted all 5 were naked in the hot tub, that one of them had taken photo's of my girlfriend naked getting out of the hot tub, but that they didn't fuck her, even though they said that she wasn't the sweet innocent girl that they had thought! One said that my girlfriend had disappeared for over an hour at midnight with one of the guys upstairs, after her best friend had got a taxi home alone. He said when he questioned them when they both got downstairs, that she'd been sick upstairs in the bathroom and they were both cleaning it up, but when he went upstairs there was no wet cleaned up patch, no clean up cloths and no smell of vomit at all. And in the 10 years I've known my girlfriend she has been d*unk many times but NEVER sick once.

So my question is this. Do you think one or more fucked my girlfriend? Or maybe she just got naked in the hot tub with 3 naked guys who all fancied her and nothing more happened for the 4 hours after they got out of the hot tub at one of the guys house?

Has she cheated? Please reply in this thread or message me privately what you suspect happened? Thanks.

You've had a single profile on here for over a year......."

Yes I've had a single profile for about 5 years now. And she knows about it but has never asked to see it. I kinda hope she asks to see it, and all your messages, so she'll know why I think she lied.. every reply has said the same that they think she lied.

She also has a single profile which I don't ask to see...I just say don't meet anyone without telling me first that's all.

We also have a couples profile that we both go on. So what was the point you were making by saying I've had a single profile for over a year?

It doesn't change anything. Do you think she cheated? Yes, No or Maybe?

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By *lderWiserNowMan
4 weeks ago

Kettrin

Yup, it's pretty likely that she did cheat... it's a thing many folk do for lots of reasons.. anyway, good luck.. I hope everything works out for you

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Thanks to everyone who replied, both on this thread and by private message.

Everyone thought that she'd definitely 100% cheated. I guess I didn't deep down wanted to believe that she'd cheated, but it's pretty clear she had.

Does anyone think she didn't cheat after getting naked in a hot tub with 3 naked guys, all pissed and all having a party (music, dancing, kissing, drinking, etc) was innocent? When she was telling me on the phone at the time (and for a couple of days after) that she was consoling her best friend alone at her best friends house after both going to a funeral?

Bottom line is I've been a gullible fool. It's taken this thread for me to come to my senses.

Thanks for all your replies.

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By *DAndieTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Kingussie

Sorry to say mate, but the thing is she lied to you when you were on the phone earlier that evening. My thinking is that she knew what she was going to do and the blatant lie makes me think this is not a 1st for her, thats my way of thinking, if she told you before hand on the phone what was going to happen, then there would be nothing to hide but she is definitely hiding another part of her life without you being involved, sorry mate, chin up tell her what you think happened, make her look in your eyes when she replies, most people when lying can't look you straight in the eyes without lowering theirs.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Stockport


"Sorry to say mate, but the thing is she lied to you when you were on the phone earlier that evening. My thinking is that she knew what she was going to do and the blatant lie makes me think this is not a 1st for her, thats my way of thinking, if she told you before hand on the phone what was going to happen, then there would be nothing to hide but she is definitely hiding another part of her life without you being involved, sorry mate, chin up tell her what you think happened, make her look in your eyes when she replies, most people when lying can't look you straight in the eyes without lowering theirs."

You make some interesting comments, so thanks. Like you say try and get her to look me in the eyes when I ask her to tell me about it....that's if she doesn't erupt with fury at the mention of it.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Stockport

From all the messages received on here and privately, only one has given her the benefit of the doubt. So the only conclusion I've reached is that she knew exactly what she was doing and must have done the following....

She must have had her tit's and pussy felt and fingered whilst completely naked in the hot tub with 3 naked horny men. She must have wanked and sucked all 3 cocks. After her mate left she must have carried on upstairs for the 4 hours she was alone with the 3 guys. What else could they have been doing? All 4 horny and naked and her pissed for 4 hours?

Ive watched her dozens of times previously get gangbanged in clubs and hotel rooms, usually by 5 or more black guys at a time. She loves the attention and deep throating big cocks until they cum deep in what she says feels like her stomach. Her 2 selfies which she took once she got home both had her hair completely messed up and had her after sex red glow on her chest and neck....one selfie looking very pleased with her self and one looking guilty.

But the puzzle is why lie? Was it simply because it was a spontaneous d*unken night and we'd always agreed never to play alone? I can accept her getting gang banged but can't get my head around her admitting to all 4 getting naked in a hot tub but "nothing happened"!

Why did she lie?? It's doing my head in! If anyone can help by suggesting reasons why she lied then I'd really appreciate it.

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Stockport

And I'm now 99% sure she fucked at least one of the guys, or two or all three.

Do you think she's cheated before that night as well? Or since?

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By *heFacilitator OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Stockport

The answer to my question "Did she cheat? Yes, No or Maybe?" was overwhelmingly you've all answered "yes".

Thanks to you all for clarifying my mind.

So "Do you think she's cheated on me before or since? Yes, No or Maybe?"

I really do appreciate all your help....thanks.

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