2 years ago my wife suddenly changed completely.
The happy go lucky wife, who loved sex, stopped wanting it, blaming it on the menopause, even though she'd been going through that for the past 6 years, and we'd still been having some sex, just not often.
She was always very open, would walk the dog and leave her phone at home, very trustworthy.
Then all of a sudden her phone went everywhere with her, even for a quick wee, or to put some socks on. She'd never kept her phone on silent, but all of a sudden it was always on silent.
We'd sit watching tv, and i would see her tapping her phone screen discretely, as if to see if she had a message.
She is 60 years old, a size 14, and has huge 40H tits.
She knows men stare at them, and she's never hidden her tits, always low cut tops.
She'd go to meet a friend for coffee once a week. One week after she had left, I went to the next town to get some bits and bumped into her friend, who was shopping with her husband.
When she got home I asked how her friend was, it was always the same reply, she's good her mums not well etc etc.
So I knew then she was lying.
I'd bought her an ipad for Xmas, and I'd told my friend about my suspicions, and she showed me how to track her on find my phone, which was new to me as I am an android user.
Because the ipad was linked to her phone, I could now see everything she could see.
Messages appeared, when she was in the bath, saying hi mate, can you talk.
None of her friends called her mate.
Then I was watching the ipad one day and saw she was on her way home from her mother's, and she received a whatsapp, with a screenshot of a map, saying my location. She then detoured to said location, which was a premier inn.
When she got home she apologised for being late, saying she'd had to take her mum somewhere and got delayed.
Then while putting some washing away in her drawers I found about 10 pairs of new knickers, all sexy ones, not like the ones she normally wore.
I questioned her about that, and she said they were old ones she had found in a drawer, but couldn't wear them as they are lace, and was allergic to lace.
That was rubbish as all her bras were lacy, as were some of her unsexy ones.
Then one day we had an argument and she said look on my phone, I have nothing to hide, so I did, and found a hidden folder, of which she used the same password as her phone unlock password.
Found loads of pics of her naked, with her head cropped out, 2 pictures of her in 2 different baths, neither of which were ours, and one of the pictures had spunk on her tits.
I showed her what I found, she said they were pics she had taken and meant to send to me but forgot. I said but when you send me pics normally you don't ever crop your face out of the pictures.
She had no answer to that.
So, from having a nice life together,she changed over night, and I got the evidence that she was cheating.
15 years down the pan.
What's worse is we used to swing, and she knew I enjoyed watching her having sex with men/women, so was no need to do what she did.
The day I walked out she was on her knees begging me to stay, crying her eyes out.
I just looked at her and said, is that your favourite position now, on your knees, and left.
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