FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get your wife interested in swinging ?.

By *ensual4play OP Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow

We've started watching porn and she gets super turned on watching mmf and guys with big cocks, but how do I take it further ?

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By *andy IanMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

Ask her if she would like to try it

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By *ensual4play OP Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow

At the time she says yes ...but next day no! Lol

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By *andy IanMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

Suggest you both visit a club then just to see what happens live sex might change her mind

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By *otts_hunkMan
36 weeks ago

Nottingham

Who wants to chat about fucking my Hijab wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Who wants to chat about fucking my Hijab wife?"

I’m down

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By *rigger287Man
36 weeks ago

Hartlepool

I started with the porn thing but then struggled with how to take it to the next stage..I work away so I decided to ask her if she'd chat on line to some lads who I work with so that's what's happening now.shes had a few naughty chats on kik with some of the lads..and a few pic swaps

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By *omRachCouple
36 weeks ago

Wirral

Simply told Rach of my desire to share her with another man

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By *ragsterMan
36 weeks ago

Blackburn

If only i could get my wife to swing.

We still have a great sexlife and fo have fantasy chit chat during d*unken sex but is always very quick to remind me the morning after that I should never ever confuse fantasy with reality..

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warrington

Watch Open House on C4 and chat about it. That got us to start playing

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By *ragsterMan
36 weeks ago

Blackburn

We've watched that ...and she just rolls her eyes in a ' really...why do they do this and why on national tv.' kind of way ..

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By *yeSureMan
36 weeks ago

Glasgow

"If only i could get my wife to swing.

We still have a great sexlife and fo have fantasy chit chat during d*unken sex but is always very quick to remind me the morning after that I should never ever confuse fantasy with reality..

Very much confined to the comments during sex. But want it to move on from there

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By *ensual4play OP Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow

Yes same here! when d*unk she tells me she wants a guy with massive cock to pound her but next day tells me it's only dirty sex talk and won't happen

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By *unInTheSun80sCouple
36 weeks ago

Costa Del Sol

Potentially guide her and yourself to the podcasts out there.

Two great podcasts if you start from the beginning and listen to how they got into the lifestyle are:

Bedhoppers uk

And

Sexless swingers

Both are on Spotify

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
36 weeks ago

swansea

I wonder how many ladies want to approach the subject with their partners

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By *ragsterMan
36 weeks ago

Blackburn

"I wonder how many ladies want to approach the subject with their partners"

If only my wife would raise the subject with me...

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By *reedom78555Couple
36 weeks ago

Peterborough

Gemma’s never liked sex toys, preferring the real thing.

We visited clubs from the start, just to show off and never shared for 2/3 years. Then during covid lockdown Gemma decided fuck it. Life’s too short. Let’s see what it’s like. So after a loooong boring marriage before me she’s now on catch up. But it’s definitely me who’s most keen to play.

John.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
36 weeks ago

Kidderminster

MrsJ came home from a friend's house and asked if I would like to try a swingers club, I stood there with my mouth open and then said can do and we haven't looked back.

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By *ensual4play OP Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow

Thanks for all the private messages

the closest we have ever come to swinging was when my hung friend was boasting about the size of his cock when we were d*unk at a party in our house. After our guests left he pulled out his cock and she held it in her hand. She acknowledged it was massive and said he was blessed. She just held it and wanked gently. It was double the size of mine. Initially I was mortified, but also turned on. Nothing more happened that night.

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By *yeSureMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I started with the porn thing but then struggled with how to take it to the next stage..I work away so I decided to ask her if she'd chat on line to some lads who I work with so that's what's happening now.shes had a few naughty chats on kik with some of the lads..and a few pic swaps "

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By *l3sumCouple
35 weeks ago

Dartford

We started off the same. Watching porn whilst playing we’d take turns to pick videos or categories. She’d pick big cock. I’d pick mfm. She started to pick big cock mfm more and more. I would tell her that I’d picture her as the woman being fucked by two big dicks. On one occasion I asked if she’d like to be and she said she imagined it too. A few days later I organised a guy from here to surprise us at home. Now we regularly have mfm’s

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Thanks for all the private messages

So it sounds like she is keen enough to have taken a step towards it - can I ask why she didn’t take it further that night?

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By *onnoisseur100Man
35 weeks ago

Woking-ish

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By *onnoisseur100Man
35 weeks ago

Woking-ish

"Ask her if she would like to try it

Try it on

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By *lashyMan
35 weeks ago

a lather

My wife has always been a flirt and worse when she has had a drink or two, so she lead me into swinging rather than me leading her

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By *CBoyTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Rhondda Fawr

Back in early 90s before Internet I introduced my girlfriend to porno mags and she used to get particularly turned on by girls with more than one guy. Eventually after gentle coaxing she admitted that she'd always wanted to try two guys at the same time but never felt telling previous partners because she thought they'd get upset about it and think it reflect on their performance. I convinced her that I was different and wanted her to maximise her sexual pleasure. At the time the only way to do it was via contact mags. We answered some adverts and put our own ads in. It was a very long drawn out process having to send photos and letters via the magazines post box..and I think it took at least 6 months when we met the first of seversl guys we did meet ovrr the course of a year or so. But the process was so long winded we gave up.

Now with sites like this for those who's wives have shown some interest I would show them Fabswingers and do a search with them for the sort of guys you are looking for...again this could stsrt as a variation on your porn fun. But she'd be able to see real guys bodies and cocks plus show her videos of other sexy wives being services by more than one guy. Show her how common and natural it is so that she becomes used to the idea and Eventually suggest she picks a guy she'd like to have sex with as part of a MMF threesome and suggest you contact then.

If you dont want to show her you are already on here I suggest you hide your existing profile and set up an anonymous blank one ..just to enable you and her to do searches. Hopefully as she gets more intetested in trying it you can develop a proper couples profile together so she is part of the process and more likely to follow up. I dont think going to a club first is a good idea as you are not in control and it could be overwhelming. I do suggest meeting the guy socially first just so she can vet him and then meet up at yours or a hotel so that you are in control of the meeting.

Good luck .

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By *ensual4play OP Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow

I'm not sure . Maybe she felt it would upset me. Or nerves. I know she wanted to though ,but she just didn't

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By *ensual4play OP Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow

Thanks I've a few privately messaging me saying the same

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By *estiswestMan
35 weeks ago

glasgow

Started with fantasy chat

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By *andy IanMan
35 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

Taken two ex partners the first when we were both married could use homes. Had sex in car then hotel she wanted it regular so I suggested a club. She agreed was nervous first time but loved after.

The second loved to dress to attract attention and tease. I suggested a club so she could go further she laughed but didn’t say no. So one night I just took her again slow nervous start then asked to go again.

My current lady friend is the same but a lot more reserved might have to take her away out of the area she lives to try it

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
35 weeks ago

falkirk

Was her suggested it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

We attended Le boudoir after seeing a swinging scene on a series we were watching… she didn’t like it at all but there was a well hung black gent there who caught her eye. I got her to open up to me and she told me how it had always been something that excites her mind.

We signed up on here as a couple the next day and met a local mixed race guy for a massage that got a bit out of hand!

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By *eedy HotwifeCouple
35 weeks ago

Glasgow and sometimes Benidorm

E my opinion it’s either in their phsycological make up or it’s lhesnot …,, my Mrs was outwardly was just a normal vanilla housewife but the reality I soon realised was she loved other men giving her attention. The more sexually orientated the more she loved it .,,…she turned into a real cock teaser so I encouraged her more and let her know it was ok with me and started to lhelp her pick really sexy slutty outfits to wear when we went out together…. In the early days if she was flirting in front of me and it got heavy ie kissing groping I reassured her I loved her for being such a hot wife,,,,,,, eventually the inevitable happened and it’s been great since

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By *heLoveitsBlackpoolMan
35 weeks ago

Blackpool

We started with sexy magazines and then moved on to porn videos, she had super orgasms watching guys with big cocks. Then in the late 1990s we got our first computer and soon found some sex sites , one site we found you couple post your own pictures on and my wife would check out all the pictures each day and no doubt bring herself off while I was at work. To my surprise she brought me a digital camera for my birthday and soon we were taking our own pictures and took the chance to post some on the sex sites. My wife is chubby (size 20/22) but the response we got off guys was fantastic , a lot of comments were encouraging her to post more picture and some guys wanted to meet her to fuck her. My wife did not want to leave me out of the picture but our camera was very basic and had no delay timer so I decided to to ask a friend if he would be a cameraman for us .

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By *ragsterMan
35 weeks ago

Blackburn

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By *andy IanMan
35 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I agree with most of you seems like it’s only ever d*unken talk but in my head she wants it so badly

Such a shame

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By *rowniegentMan
35 weeks ago

wolves

Love to see my Indian wife fucked hard by older men

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By *heLoveitsBlackpoolMan
35 weeks ago

Blackpool

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By *hyguy123400Man
35 weeks ago

cannock

I wish i could get my missus into it aswell id live to see her fucked and filled

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
35 weeks ago

Norwich

"I wish i could get my missus into it aswell id live to see her fucked and filled "

Same here

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By *elloyoufrommeMan
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

We would watch porn with bisexual couples and one night I said that one of the women looks like someone who we know as I was talking to her saying that I could imagine her playing spin the bottle with other couples and she had a dare to go to the room and kiss one of the other husband for ten minutes and I said to her I would imagine that he would be putting his hand inside her knickers with my wife saying that it was so horny thinking about it when I tell her that I would think of that guys cock pressed against her with her saying that he would probably be rock hard and asking her if she did feel his hard cock against her I know she would be ready to get fucked and I was wanking and saying to her that I know one guy that he had said to me that he really would fuck her saying that it was brian standing looking at me and smiled asking me if I had his number and I told her I would give him a call and after about half an hour the door knocked with me getting downstairs to open the door and letting brian in saying to just go upstairs to the bedroom and I left them both by about twenty minutes and when I went in to see my wife lying naked and he was holding her legs up and he was forcing his cock deep into her cunt

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
34 weeks ago

Middle England

I took Mrs to Purple Mamba. It's a very small club, however, they do occasionally have live music. We got there had a drink and then the hosts gave us a tour. I acted a bit surprised and said I thought it was two separate venues.

Anyway one room had massage oils etc and she loves a massage. Then after she relaxed I asked if I should keep the door closed and she said no. Guys came in and either watched or joined in.

The rest as they say is history...

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

"Thanks for all the private messages

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

Well I managed to get my wife to swingers clubs and quite a few over the years but not much further! Things were heading in right direction and getting braver then lock down and not much since

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By *asexxMan
34 weeks ago

near you

Same boat. Talk to her about other cock when we are having sex. Really turns her on. But then next day when I say can we find someone. Answer is no. Tryed boudoir shoot same she was such a tease. And no issue getting naked.in front of him. But no joy still. I'm very convinced she cheated to. Just wish she would have fun together.

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

I don’t get it they have full permission to play and don’t want to

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By *asexxMan
34 weeks ago

near you

Yeh nerves i think

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By *ragsterMan
34 weeks ago

Blackburn

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By *andycd20000TV/TS
34 weeks ago

limerick side of ennis.

My x wife asked me if could fuck my mate. I said sure if we can both do her. It went on for years

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

"My x wife asked me if could fuck my mate. I said sure if we can both do her. It went on for years"
lucky mate

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By *yeSureMan
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *ragsterMan
34 weeks ago

Blackburn

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By *DFriendly FolkCouple
34 weeks ago

Redditch

Street party with neighbours, one of the ladies stuck her hand up my shorts gabmvw my prick a feel. Wife saw it later said she'd invited her round later. She came round tgat evening wife tikk her top and bra off saud "Right I'm horny so either fuck off or join in" Played on and off for last 30 years though age and weight has slowed us both down.

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By *unsheffcplCouple
34 weeks ago

Sheffield

didn't have to met on a swinging site 24 years ago as singles been married 23 years now

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By *layfull pairingCouple
34 weeks ago

Bristol

Met my partner on here 12 yr ago, so knew she was a safe bet... but my previous partner had to be convinced so I played it crafty and we just ‘happened’ to be out in the city of Bath many years ago having a few drinks and we just ‘happened’ to be walking past a basement club that I knew to be a swingers club and I say “ooh let’s try this place, i never noticed it before”.. got in there to find a real mix of people in a lounge bar and beyond that, an indoor pool full of naked people... thankfully the Mrs went with it and was stripped off and in the water in no time... things just progressed from there.

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By *andy IanMan
34 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

"didn't have to met on a swinging site 24 years ago as singles been married 23 years now"
perfect scenario both knew what you was getting

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By *ENW coupleCouple
34 weeks ago

west lancs

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By *he fab twoCouple
34 weeks ago

brentwood

"Met my partner on here 12 yr ago, so knew she was a safe bet... but my previous partner had to be convinced so I played it crafty and we just ‘happened’ to be out in the city of Bath many years ago having a few drinks and we just ‘happened’ to be walking past a basement club that I knew to be a swingers club and I say “ooh let’s try this place, i never noticed it before”.. got in there to find a real mix of people in a lounge bar and beyond that, an indoor pool full of naked people... thankfully the Mrs went with it and was stripped off and in the water in no time... things just progressed from there. "
lucky it went well

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I've asked my wife several times if she would like a Mfm but she is not even entertaining the idea. It's my only fantasy

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By *idcot58Man
34 weeks ago

Chepstow

We used to watch porn together I asked if she fancied trying swinging I got a contact mag and find a guy who had parties she liked it next moved on to chameleons in darlaston and loved it

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By *j and c 2Couple
33 weeks ago

mullingar

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
33 weeks ago

falkirk

Was my wife introduced me after she had been out with her pal and pulled a guy

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By *he fab twoCouple
33 weeks ago

brentwood

"Was my wife introduced me after she had been out with her pal and pulled a guy

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need to hear more

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