How do you tell your wife of 35 years that your bi

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By *DAndie OP TV/TS
39 weeks ago

Kingussie

Anyone got any idea how I can tell my wife I'm bi after 35 years of marriage. I want to be honest with her but still love her and don't want to lose that love.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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39 weeks ago

East Sussex

I would be a bit conflicted. On the one hand I'd want to support you to be who you are

On the other I'd feel hurt and upset that you'd kept it from me for this long.

Personally someone telling me they were bi wouldn't stop me loving them but it does change your relationship

Obviously you know her very well after 35 years,how do you think she'll react?

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By *DAndie OP TV/TS
39 weeks ago

Kingussie

That's the problem, she came from a broken home, and can suffer from mild depression, i wouldn't want to make that worse, but this secret is eating me up.

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By *arenjonesTV/TS
39 weeks ago

mayo

Is she aware of your dressing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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39 weeks ago

East Sussex

"That's the problem, she came from a broken home, and can suffer from mild depression, i wouldn't want to make that worse, but this secret is eating me up."

I think there comes a point where we can't allow the past to impact too much on the present and future.

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By *usietranslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

carlow

"Anyone got any idea how I can tell my wife I'm bi after 35 years of marriage. I want to be honest with her but still love her and don't want to lose that love."

Perhaps she already knows??

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By *usie pTV/TS
38 weeks ago

taunton

Mmm try and fully consider the consequences if it does not turn out how you want, it may be a burden you have to bear.

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