FabSwingers.com forum: The first time I cheated

By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

Cheating for the first time

So I’ve only cheated once before, and it was disastrous.

We’ve been together 6 years now and it happened in the first year we were together (yes we stayed together).

We’d been together just under a year and I was working in a dreadfully dull job and became friends with some of the people there. I started talking to one girl that was very friendly, we will call her Kay, and she was really nice and as a group we were good fun.

The first warning sign I got was from one of my best friends who said she’d seen I was friends with Kay on Facebook and I should watch out as she has a reputation for being a home-wrecker. I thought nothing much of it as I wasn’t even thinking about that kind of thing.

Fast forward a week or so and we are chatting more and messaging and then the ominous text comes through “I’ve bought some bikinis for holiday”… and of course I think with my dick… and ask if I can offer an opinion (taken the bait)… to which I receive of course racy bikini shots of her in her room trying them on… and of course… I can’t resist flirting and pushing the tone.

It doesn’t stop there, then the “accidental” topless picture in just her bikini bottoms comes through followed by “oh shit I’m sorry that was for my friend L”… I’m in trouble. She’s hot, she’s topless, and she’s horny… and now I’m telling her “what a lovely accident” etc etc you’ve heard it a million times.

Then follows an evening of sexting, nudes, tits, dicks… “I want to hold your hair as I pound you from behind”… etc etc and a then she hits me with the “don’t you have a girlfriend”… yes of course I do…

Then work is sexually charged, and then I find myself meeting with her outside of work and telling my partner that I’m going for dinner with the boys… to which I end up in the back of my car with her deepthroating me before I pound her between the seats… then we are fucking in the bathroom at work during breaks… she’s even coming back to my house at lunch to fuck.

And the cherry on the icing on the cake… my partner is away with her family the Friday that it’s my leaving do as I’m changing jobs… and she wants to get ready at my house before we all go out.

As she’s getting ready dressing slutty for me she tells me she’s free use for the night and she won’t be wearing any panties… we proceed to fuck merrily beofre we go out with the rest of the group, spend the whole night at the club dancing and grinding before heading back to mine to fuck all night.

She then leaves in the morning 30 mins before my girlfriends return and we spend the day walking the dog down the beach… after my night of debauchery.

Fast forward a few weeks and the “home wrecker monicker comes to fruition” she not only sends messages but pictures, and calls my GF to tell her everything and the world implodes…

My best friends stops talking to me because she warned me about than girl, and it’s only through years of repairing our relationship that we are now 6 years in.

A terrible decision from me to shit in my own house.